Lately I've encountered situations when the girl will make a plan with you with all the details and meeting time etc and say she will be there for sure when you ask but she doesn't. This is different than the traditional flaking examples when let's say you want to meet on friday and she tells you "call me on friday". I think this is their new way of testing a man's boundary, or maybe it has existed for a while already...I don't know..
Does this sound similar to anyone? Normally when this happens you guys would already have had some kind of intimate connection...my questions are:
1. how much interest level does she have? (after all she's spent a lot of time talking and flirting with you and seems to like you) Basically the reason I'm asking this is to evaluate my pre-game and to find the cause of the problem.
2. what's her purpose? (does she simply just enjoying teasing you or she really does like you but just wants to play the game back on you?)
3. how should you respond? (call her on it? act like it's nothing? pull back even more?)
Does this sound similar to anyone? Normally when this happens you guys would already have had some kind of intimate connection...my questions are:
1. how much interest level does she have? (after all she's spent a lot of time talking and flirting with you and seems to like you) Basically the reason I'm asking this is to evaluate my pre-game and to find the cause of the problem.
2. what's her purpose? (does she simply just enjoying teasing you or she really does like you but just wants to play the game back on you?)
3. how should you respond? (call her on it? act like it's nothing? pull back even more?)