Don_Dom said:
Being fat on any level is a deal breaker for me so if some woman has a problem with my being a shade under 6' or that I'm thinning a bit on top that's totally up to her. Nobody can control what they are attracted to and not being tall enough for a particular chick doesn't make her a cvnt. You getting pissed off and calling them names for having preferences doesn't change basic attraction anymore than them calling us shallow for not being into fat girls. It just is what it is.
Do you think it right though for females to treat guys badly BECAUSE they aren't attracted to them? I get the feeling that some women can't see there is a difference between lack of attraction and abuse. It has been pointed out on this forum before, and that's true. I have experienced this in life, from the most attractive girls in college, that I just pass by minding my own business, to famous women on TV on shows like The Talk, Loose Women etc. Some of the things I have heard women say within this issue, say on blind dating shows, don't make you feel good.
Often when I'm in situations with women, I know what
society says (i.e. they're gentle, precious...) is incredibly, almost dangerously, naive. So I just clam up, hide, whatever I can do.