Women to avoid ver 1

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Women to avoid
by Blackdragon

Contexts

Intro

Chaper 1
What do you want ?

Chapter 2
Reality Check

Chapter 3
The Love Boat

Chapter 4
Mind games

Chapter 5
Women to avoid

Chapter 6
Irritating Behaviour

Outro



Intro
This isn't suppose to be bashing women or making them look bad it's to
help guys like you. I myself been told by my mother "I'm a great guy and still no women." When you do get into the game you must ketp your eyesout for bad women. This guide will help you to avoid *****s and man haters and help you make better choices. If you disagree with any of this then your a idoit. Just joking please let me know where and why.


Chapter 1
What do you want ?

I been thier too. In high school I wasn't the coolest cat on the block or the guy hanging around all the cool people. When I got out of high school it was much better for me and I learned alot more about the game so much that it changed my thinking. But this isn't to talk about me it's about what you want. As you start to get good at this game like I'm doing having women talk to you or want to talk to you. You must ketp your EYES OPEN !!!! AT ALL TIMES !!!. Read art of war by Sun tzu. Very good book cause it will teach you some good stuff that you really need to know. Read this quote and learn my brothers

"Hence to fight and conquer in all your battles is not supreme excellence; supreme excellence consists in breaking the enemy’s resistance without fighting. ~ sun tzu "

Women are indirect. We men are direct. A girl who wants attention will not really come out and say it. She may even say it and play it has it is not a problem. Brothers ask yourself what kind of women you want.

Women who go to the gym
Women who are party animals
Women who are in yoga classes
Women who are artistic

We need to quit this fit in stuff. And start doing what we want. Are you gonna live the rest of your life trying to make others happy and trying to fit in ?? Are you gonna let people choose how you should live your life ?? If you answered no 2 both of these questions then make a list of rules for women to go by. I know their is no perfect girl but their are girls you should avoid and girls you could deal with. You can write this list on paper, on the computer or whatever and you can change it. Again this list is for you and only you. Don't write this list based on what your co-workers think or your friends think. It's for you and only you.
If you find yourself thinking ( I got 10 rules but I think I need more ) then I can help you here.
Would you prefer a women who complains sometimes or a women who complains all the time ??
Would you prefer a women who smiles and laughs alot cause she has a sense of humor or a women who always mad and upset ??
The next time your on a date and some girl starts doing stuff you don't like then you should ask yourself ( is this the type of girl I want ?? ) Stop the loser thinking. The loser thinking is a man letting women be little brats. The loser says to himself ( I will never find another girl so I don't want to lose this 1 ). Kick this loser thinking out the window.
MAKE WOMEN FOLLOW YOUR RULES !!!!. IF SHE WANTS TO BE A BRAT THE SHE GOSE BYE BYE. IF SHE WANTS TO FOLLOW THEN SHE STAYS. As you learn more about bad women your list may become longer. Remember my brother thier is no perfect women like their is no perfect man.

Chapter 2
Reality Check

It's time to wake up. Why did I put reality check in women to avoid ?? give you the truth. People believe men should be nicer. And we did that. What happen ?? we got nice guys and women don't want nice guys. It's time to be become a REAL MAN. Stop believeing this bullcrap about trying to be a perfect guy for this girl. More like you should be saying where are the good women at ??? You need to be fully aware of feminism. Read this

"Recent studies by Economics professor June O’Neill found that among workers ages 27 to 33 who’ve never had a child, women earn 98% of what men do. Men and women also earn similar median starting salaries across most disciplines.
What they also fail to tell you is that women earn more than men in many vocations. Female banking officers out-earn men by $15,000 a year, and female health industry managers make $18,000 more per year.
So what accounts for the wage difference in all those statistics where they say that women only earn 76 percent of what men do?
1) Women (generally) have fewer years of work experience, work fewer hours per year, are less likely to work a full-time schedule and leave the labor force for longer periods of time ?often for family reasons.
2) Women are also less likely to pursue degrees that lead to high-paying jobs, such as those in law, medicine, engineering, computer science, math, and science education.
3) Women tend to lose a lot of productivity due to leaving the labor force to bear children. Not that women should be penalized for this, of course, but these absences from the workforce will have repercussions on their earning power and professional development. "

Look how much we are being brainwash by bullcrap. In some T.V. shows they say men are the cause of bad marriage. MORE BULLCRAP !!!! a women complain " men never listen " ANOTHER LIE !!! feminism rule book "It's always the men fault". Smack yourself around, do something to get this bullcrap out your head. Remember that Britney Spears song ??? ( Ossp I didn't it again, I played with your heart) Most girls who play with your heart aren't sorry for it. Upgrade your defense team, your weapons, and radar. You have new rule for your love zone. Anyone without a love pass gose into your love zone or even get near it is SHOT. WITHOUT WARNING. I'm not saying get a gun and shoot the girl. I'm saying drop her faster then a 500lb fat boy can hit the ground. I'm talking the speed of lighting !!! Ketp bad women from your love zone and you won't find your heart played with like 2 people playing tennis. Hitting it back and forth. If you dont' want your heart being beaten like that then you really to start smelling the coffee. Martin Luther King won freedom for black people without fighting. And you can get rid of girls without fighting ( I mean not punching or kicking ) plus thier are women who try to beat men when they are mad and remale violence is rising you will learn more later.
If you believe in the tooth fairy then you believe nice guys are what women want.

Chapter 3
The love boat

The love boat is your relationship with a women. f.u.c.k. buddies , friends with benefits , boyfriend and girlfriend and etc.. When the relationship gets ugly and dark. My advice is to grab that life jacklet and jump off ship before it sinks. You will be better off at getting out of the love boat first. Why ?? less pain , stress and problems.
I seen guys who say " I can't get over her ". They even ask thier e/x girlfriend if they will be together again and she says I don't know. Which acutally means never. A rule you need to remember when being in this game. You must be able to WALK AWAY AND MOVE ON !!! Another quote

You either own the game or it owns you

Start playing the game and if you can't handle the game then don't be in the game. You can be a monk or some other religious guy. Guys you will meet some hot chicks or chicks who are your type. But if she breaks rules and wants to be treated as some queen then she needs to go bye bye. Jump off that boat and save yourself. Alot of young girls need to grow up. I say at least 85% of young women are crazy and not very mature. Bad women go no where near the love zone. Ketp them away from it. I'm not telling you to lie and say yes I want to go out with you soon or say I love you when you don't. I'm tell you to stay on guard. Ketp your radar on 24/7 !!!
These girls are gonna throw your heart on the ground and step all over it and spit on it. If you don't want your heart crush start realizing that bad women want a endless party and their more to life then just having a endless party. The second that love boat going down grab the 1 lifejacket thats their and jump in the sea.


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PART 2

Chapter 4
Mind Games

These games are to throw you into confusion. Drama queen do play mind games. If you feel like she messing with your head then get away from her. Women often say things to avoid the real purpose for being around you. The ones who are interested in you will tell the truth. Rebuild your defense team, base, and weapons. Have your radar on 24/7 !!!! Mind games are their to put you in a fog. If you don't want to be put in this fog then get out of it. My brothers you been in the dark right ?? you know you can't see 1 damn thing when their no light. You may hit something or trip over something. You even remember looking for a flashlight or a switch to turn on the light. If you don't like not seeing in the dark then you won't like being put in a mind game.

How do you feel after talking with her? Do you feel normal? Refreshed? Interested? Do you feel as though there was an exchange of sentiments and information between adults? Or do you feel as though you've just gone nine rounds with a heavyweight? Does your head hurt? Do you feel just a bit violated? Do you feel as though the conversation just sort of got away on you and you're not sure what happened but you didn't really like it? If in even a few conversations with her you feel as though you're fighting off a rapist then get rid of her. She's the equivalent of the guy whose primary purpose is to get his girlfriend's clothes off. In the end, once she gets inside your head and peers around in there, she'll grow bored and treat you like crap, just as the aforementioned single-minded guy will become bored once he's had his girlfriend a few times. Women alert each other to such guys: Stay away! You, as a man, don't deserve any less. Stay away!

For example, a woman who says, "Which dress do you think I should wear? The tan one or the fuchsia one?" and then, after you tell her the tan one, says, "So, you hate the fuchsia one." This is a pure mind game. Never, ever date women who like mind games. You have better things to do with your mind.

Another example, if you say, "I don't like rap music," a crazy woman will say, "I like rap music a lot. What is it about rap that you don't like?" She will take what you said as an opportunity to share with you what she likes about rap, and listen to you talk about what you dislike. Maybe, in the end, you still don't like rap, but at least you had an interesting conversation.
The defensive woman will take your expression of dislike an attack on her tastes. She will yell, or pout, or cry, or otherwise be a pain in the ass because you "don't like [her] music." From her perspective, it's all about her. This effectively closes communication between the two of you, as she uses negative behaviour to teach you never to say anything that she doesn't want to hear. You can't have a relationship with this woman. Get rid of her.

Erin Pizzey wrote a brilliant paper on a different kind of battered woman: the kind who is addicted to drama, who is drawn to violent, angry men because to her, harmony is boring. Erin Pizzey claims in her paper that rather a lot of people (both men and women) end up in jail or end up in shelters because they're drama addicts who work hard to create turmoil and strife in their relationships because that's what they're used to, and it gives them a certain high.
In Erin Pizzey's paper she outlines one of the tests that she used to distinguish between women who abhorred violence and those who sought it. She had noticed that when an ex-husband or ex-boyrfriend came to her shelter and started screaming and ranting on the front lawn, about half of the women in the shelter would lock themselves in their bedrooms out of fear, while the other half would crowd around the windows, craning their necks for a look. Half of the women were terrified of anger and violence, while the other half found it exciting.


Chapter 5
Women to avoid

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IF your relationships never seem to bring you anything but pain, if "the messed up life you get isn't worth the sex you get," it may simply mean you're choosing witches, b.i.t.c.h.e.s., and crazy ladies, and there are a lot of them out there. Contrary to popular belief, the craziest ladies have NOT been in therapy. The ones who are truly crazy stay far, far away from help.Just because you've been involved in go-nowhere, crazy-love relationships with women who've treated you badly doesn't mean you are incapable of sane love. You may have a fatal fascination for the wrong kind of femme fatale. Some women are sexy and attractive and even fun, but it's a big mistake to fall in love with them. Following are the classic types NOT to get serious about (we're going to have a little fun with these caricatures, but there's a lot of cautionary truth in each one):

The Deviant

At first, the Deviant is a lot of fun, the bad girl down the block your mother always told you to stay away from. In the beginning, it's a kick to be with her. She's always doing the unexpected. If the light says red, she zooms through. If there's a new illegal drug, she's the first to try it. If there's a new illicit or amoral activity, she gets excited and can't wait to do it.

The Deviant is irresistible in bed, where her deviant behavior really shines. No matter what sex act you've imagined, she'll be willing to try it. If you haven't thought of it, she will. That's why you find it so hard to leave her, even after you've bailed her out of jail a few times on assorted charges and she's almost gotten you arrested too. Deep in your heart, you know there will never be sex like this again. You know your deviant woman is a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity to experience true decadence.

The biggest problem with the Deviant is that she gets you into trouble. Trouble with the police, the DMV, the IRS, your parents, your boss, your landlord, your friends, and anyone else who is a regular member of straight society. Besides, no matter how much fun she seems to be having with you, the Deviant is really just a thrill ***** -- she'll perform fellatio on you in the front seat of a sports car at 120 miles per hour, but if some guy suggests screwing while skydiving, she'll be gone in a flash.


The True Believer

The True Believer is on the cutting edge of whatever new philosophy, psychology, or new-wave woo-woo comes along. She's a channeler, an astrologer, a fortune-teller, a healer, a yogi, a spiritual master -- and whatever she's into at the moment, it's the true answer to all the world's problems.
She has a Ouija board, Tarot cards, I Ching coins, yoga and meditation tapes, healing music, and a roomful of crystals. She's open to anything, including you, as long as you believe.

So you follow her out into the desert in the middle of the night to wait for spaceship Moonbeam to land and take you off into the next world, and so what if it doesn't come? You've done a lot more for women and had a lot less fun.

One man I know gave up a thriving law practice to follow a True Believer on a trek across India. They were both to have come back as gods. True story. What happened is they broke up. Walking across India can get old if you don't believe enough.

The True Believer does have some advantages, though. She doesn't eat meat and she doesn't drink, so she's a cheap date. She comes with a built-in group of friends and preset rules. You never have to make any decisions, you just have to follow along with the group, and believe, believe, believe. Of course, the first time you guffaw during a seance, the romance is over.

The Timebomb

The TimeBomb is an emotional lethal weapon that goes off with no warning just when you think your life is under control.

The most frightening thing about the TimeBomb is that she looks so normal on the surface; you can't tell she's a TimeBomb until she explodes on you a couple of times. She's the type who gets drunk at an important business dinner and pours a Martini over your boss's head. Or she has an affair with your best friend and gets pregnant, and you don't know whose kid it is. Or she starts yelling, "I don't, I don't!" in the middle of your wedding ceremony. Or she just disappears one day, leaving you with 10-month-old Junior.

She's so cute and seemed so perfect that you overlook the clues which were there all along. Her parents have given up on her, none of her ex-boyfriends is speaking to her, and she usually doesn't live close to home, because she needs new territory, some place where people don't know her yet. Timebombs always seem too good to be true -- and they are.

Unless it's her disappearing act, you take back after a blowup, because she seems so sweet that you're sure it was an aberration. Slowly, the hard way, you learn it's not an aberration; it's a pattern. So no matter how many times she promises to behave, don't believe her. You can be sure another blowup is brewing. It's just a matter of time.
 

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part 3

Lolita

Lolita is so adorable, so affectionate, so malleable, so sexy, and so young. She looks up to you as the wise teacher and you love the role. You imagine yourself molding her into the grown-up woman of your dreams. You'll just keep her around until she's matured into your own little Stepford Wife, showing her the ropes, keeping her pure and sheltered. If you really believe that, you need your head examined.

Actually, she's just discovered her sexual power and is trying it out on you. She's also probable jailbait, but you don't care. You're flattered at your ability to attract a much younger woman and couldn't care less what anyone says. What she really wants is to get even with Daddy by screwing you, and as soon as some twenty-year-old Adonis shows up, she'll leave you and shower him with all the wonderful pleasures you've taught her how to provide. Inexperienced lout that he is, he won't appreciate her, which will only make her love him more.

She'll possibly be ready for a serious relationship in about fifteen years, but by that time you'll be too old to enjoy her.

The Starlet

Breathlessly gorgeous, the Starlet is the ultimate armpiece at a ****tail party. Once you start a conversation with her, though, the image is shattered. There's nothing more disconcerting than finding out that the woman of your dreams wants to be a Playboy centerfold -- "Seriously, sure! I mean, you know, just to get my career started!"

You'll probably have her for about two dates if you promise to introduce her to your brother-in-law at the William Morris Agency. She's always looking for bigger game, though, so keep an eye on her. Kissinger was right: "Power is an aphrodisiac." Let her meet an actor, ex-astronaut, or even a newsworthy politician, and she's gone for the night. She'll be back in the morning, though.

You'll often see pictures of a nice normal guy marrying a Starlet type, looking naively happy on his wedding day. A year later in the divorce news, you'll see the same guy looking shell-shocked and threadbare. Very few starlets get to be stars. When they don't, they invariably blame the men in their lives and either make them miserable or dump them. If you get hooked on a Starlet, you're dippier than she is.


Why Nice Men Wind Up With Witches And Crazy Ladies
I've found that there are three major reasons why the nicest guys seem to wind up with the worst women.


It takes a nice man to put up with them. Witches and crazy ladies aren't dumb. They always pick sweet, giving men, men who won't leave at the first sign of craziness, men who want to help, men who will wait for sanity to return.

A nice guy often enjoys (for awhile) the excitement a crazy lady brings to his life. At any minute she may attempt suicide, crash the car, burn the house, leave, or have a disastrous affair. What thrill can compete with the living soap opera a truly crazy lady brings to his dull everyday life?

Sometimes a nice man will find a fairly normal woman and, by letting her get away with bad behavior, actually "teach" her how to act like a brat and walk all over him, never realizing what he's doing.

Of course, not-so-sweet guys have also been known to pick impossible women, sometimes as a strategy to avoid a committed relationship. The worse she acts, the more justified the man is in avoiding commitment. Sometimes a man even drives a woman to act crazy and then says, "See, I knew I shouldn't get involved."

Why Not Go Along For The Ride?
Why not go out with a crazy lady if she fulfills your needs? Because those are not healthy needs. In a crazy-lady relationship, you both lose. She just gets crazier and so do you.

The lineup of Women To Avoid in this Part 1 may be terrible prospects for a long-term relationship, but at least they're fun to date. There are other witches, *****es, and crazy ladies, also tempting, who you don't want to even go out with. Read the next installment --

The Achiever

The Achiever already makes more money than you do, and she likes it that way. It gives her power she's too insecure to live without.
On the surface, the Achiever may look like the dream woman of the 1990s. She's bright, witty, and attractive. If you're the kind of guy who's not put off by high-powered women, you find it flattering that she's chosen you over all the high-powered guys she meets at work.

In the beginning, your romance with the Achiever is a rush. You enjoy the fast pace, the time-is-more-important-than- money lifestyle. You even have occasional fantasies of being a kept man, of living a life of leisure on her terrific salary.

Then her secretary calls to tell you that she's off to the airport for an out-of-town meeting and can't make the trip to Hawaii you'd been planning for six months. Or she proposes going into business together. She's got it all figured out, and she can raise the money. Soon after that, your ulcers start. If the business is a failure, your relationship falls apart. More likely, the business will be a roaring success, and you'll never see her without making an appointment with her administrative assistant.

Life with the Achiever means you come after the achievement. Whatever is going on in your relationship is trivial compared with her next presentation, merger, sale, or promotion. And you can forget a home life. For her, quality time together is a round of golf shared with some visiting businessmen. Like the famous scene in the movie "Network" with Faye Dunaway, she won't have sex unless she can reach the bedside phone, in case there's a business call.

The Achiever is hell to live with, but you won't get sympathy from anyone. She'll claim she's doing it all "for us." Your parents will be in awe of her and think you're a complainer, and your male friends will say you got just what you deserve.


The Virgin

--or almost. The Virgin has never had an orgasm before, and may never again without your constant attention. And now she loves you, loves you, loves you, like an adoring puppy. Of course, if the relationship doesn't work out, it's all your fault, since she was a virgin, or almost, before she got involved with you.
Fooling around with the Virgin is fun for a while, but it's like the electric company. Once you turn on the juice, you have to keep paying the bills. And paying and paying. Most Virgins aren't very practiced at birth control, so they often get pregnant, and they definitely don't believe in abortion. So you're stuck, for life -- with the Virgin, the Virgin's parents, church choir, and a very conservative lifestyle.

Of course, it's an ego trip to think that you're the guy who finally broke through her reserve, that only you can make Ms. Frigid act like a sexual lunatic in bed. But the ego massage lasts only so long, and then you realize that the only thing you saw in her was the challenge.


The Man-hater

Accept it. Some women just don't like men, often with good cause. The Man-Hater loves to find a nice guy like you who'll stand there while she takes out her hostility for what other men have done to her. You'll wind up paying for the misdeeds of every man in her life, from the boy who tormented her in kindergarten to her younger brother, her father, and especially her first husband.
Man-Haters look like ordinary women when you meet them, but there are signs of incipient man-hating. Man-Haters consistently put down men and praise women. In the beginning, the Man-Hater pretends that you're different from all those other men who've treated her badly, but soon she begins to see signs that you're really not. By this time, you're in love with her, so you try to convince her by the power of your love that you're one of the good guys.

The trouble with a Man-Hater is that she doesn't recognize a good guy when she gets one. Even the smallest indiscretion, like leaving the toilet seat up or not being able to find something when it's right under your nose, will reveal the permanent unforgivable rotten core she sees lurking inside all men.

The Man-Hater often covers her basic dislike and mistrust of all men with feminist grievances. She's not putting down men, she's defending women.

No matter how much you love a Man-Hater, you won't be able to make up for the wrongs suffered by her and all the other women in the world, which she'll expect you to do. Don't even think about being the good guy who changes her mind about men.


The Waffler

The Waffler just can't make up her mind. She can't decide if she wants you or someone else. She can't decide if she wants to have a relationship or just fool around. One week she's a member of the girls-just-want-to-have-fun club, and the next she's talking about having babies.
The Waffler hates making dates in advance. "Call me Friday and we'll talk about Saturday night." Or "I won't know until I talk to my veterinarian to see how my sick cat is doing." Greed keeps the Waffler from making any irrevocable decisions. If she commits to going out with you too soon, well, something better may just come along and then where will she be?

The Waffler breaks dates all the time, because something better does come along or because she simply changes her mind. The Waffler has a fantasy man in mind and a fantasy relationship. Since nobody's reality ever lives up to her fantasies, a Waffler who makes a date ahead of time begins to dread the date as it approaches. She knows you can never be as terrific as she is hoping you'll be.

One reason the Waffler isn't fun to be with is because she's never happy in the moment. She's always yearning for someone else, someone taller, stronger, richer, better in bed -- someone she'll never find.
 

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The Walking Wounded

Because she is just divorced or ending a long-term relationship, the Walking Wounded needs a interim relation- ship while she figures out what happened, who she is, where her self-esteem went, and what she's going to do with her life.
Should you make the mistake of accepting the assignment, you'll be in for an unlimited amount of crying towel duty. The Walking Wounded will spend hours telling you how that monster did her wrong. She'll replay her last relationship ad nauseum, and your life will be filled with stories of what he did yesterday and today and what he's going to do tomorrow.

She spends most of her time talking, thinking, wondering, worrying about him instead of you. You'll always feel like she loves him more than she loves you even though he treated her so badly; and so you try harder to treat her even better. You bring flowers, you tell her you love her forty times a day, you buy her presents. But no matter what you do, the shadow of her broken heart hangs over your relationship.

Let some other guy be her interim relationship.


The Supervisor

The Supervisor is a perfectionist who goes around assessing the performance of the world to see if it lives up to her exalted standards. Since nothing is ever perfect, she's constantly telling you what's wrong with everything.
At first, it can be flattering that someone with such high expectations and good taste has chosen you. So it's you and she, the two perfect people, lined up against an imperfect world. But soon you start to realize the imperfections in each other, and you turn on each other.

She realizes that your lapels are three-eighths of an inch too wide and that you're wearing last year's cuff. No sooner does she get all your clothes updated than she realizes that something is wrong with your job, or your car, or your apartment. Finding things wrong with the world is her way of life, so she can be very difficult to live with on an everyday basis.

You begin to realize that no matter what you do, no matter how much you let her run your life, it's still not perfect enough. When she realizes that you can't do anything right, she takes over living for you. Eventually, either you succumb, have a frontal lobotomy, and spend the rest of your life following her around; or you grow a beard and start wearing clothes from the Salvation Army to get her out of your life.

The Leech
This type of woman insists that you spend every waking moment with her, refusing to let you go out with the boys or spend any significant amount of time with anyone else. If you suggest that she should hook up with her girlfriends while you go watch the game with your friends, you will probably be faced with a two-hour argument during which she'll ask you if you still love her about a thousand times.
Let's face it: If you can't have a little independence in your relationship, it's never going to last. Unless, of course, you're also needy, in which case this might be the type of woman that's right for you.

The Stage Hog
Whether you're with friends, family, or even just the dog, she always has to be the center of everyone's attention. In order to accomplish this, she may use one or many of the following techniques: Talking excessively loud, wildly gesturing, telling unbelievable stories just to capture everyone's attention, or wearing extremely provocative outfits.
Although this type of woman can be exhausting given that she's always putting on a show, some men do enjoy women with lots of personality. Just be sure that you can handle it before you get involved.

The Gold Digger
Fortunately, you can usually see this type coming from a mile away. She compliments you on your expensive watch, and asks you what kind of car you drive, what you do for a living, where you live, and so on. Since the Gold Digger is basically looking for a sugar daddy, she'll size you up within the first five minutes and drop you just as quickly if your cash flow doesn't meet her standards.
Regardless of your financial situation, you should run the other way. Do you really want a woman who only sees men as dollar signs?

Mother Goose
If your girlfriend is constantly fixing your hair and tucking in your shirt, you're the victim of a Mother Goose. Although she may have good intentions and be great in many other ways, her motherly instincts will eventually drive you up the wall.
She may not be a lost cause, however; some women can be taught to stop "mothering" you. However, if you've talked to her about it a few times and she still can't resist the urge to spit on a tissue to remove a spot from your face, you might have to go your separate ways.

The Motor Mouth
This type chatters incessantly about every topic that crosses her mind, no matter how mundane or unimportant it may be. She will drive you crazy with her never-ending monologues about the guy at work who never makes a new pot of coffee when he finishes the last one and the woman at the supermarket who wears too much make-up.
The worst type of Motor Mouth is the one whose favorite topic of conversation is herself. If you manage to make it through two hours of listening to her talk about the new shoes she wants to buy or her lower back pain, you are prepared to survive anything. My advice is to break it off as quickly as possible before you lose your mind.

The Princess
The Princess is one high maintenance chick. If she breaks a nail, she expects you to drop everything you're doing to drive her to the nail salon immediately. There's no way she'll go to the pub to have a beer and watch the game; only the trendiest venues will do. Her daddy always told her she was a princess and she expects to be treated like one.
Not only will she constantly keep you busy taking care of her every need, the Princess can also cost you a pretty penny. Although she's not necessarily after your money like the Gold Digger, she has expensive taste, and expects you to shower her with nice things and take her out to posh places on a regular basis.

The Weeper
Remember the Seinfeld episode where Jerry's girlfriend cried like a baby when she dropped her hot dog but didn't shed a tear when her grandmother died?
Although this depiction is slightly exaggerated, the Weeper is definitely over-emotional, breaking down in tears when anything bad happens.
A reader recently wrote in saying that he had just broken up with his girlfriend after she started screaming and crying because she couldn't find her designer purse and matching wallet. Apparently, similar situations occurred regularly. If you find yourself whipping out the box of tissues on a daily basis (and over trivial matters), it may be time to bail out.

The Bimbo
Although she's beautiful and has a hot body, the conversations aren't exactly "stimulating." If you're dying to tell your girlfriend to just "smile and nod" every time she attempts to open her mouth, you're probably dating a bimbo.
Most men welcome the opportunity to have a fling with a bimbo since they don't have to go to great lengths to come up with interesting topics of conversation. But when it comes to a serious relationship, you'll definitely lose interest faster than she can say "What does 'dense' mean?"

The Master Debater
This chick has made it her hobby to argue about absolutely everything. In particular, she has mastered the technique of bringing up topics and past arguments that are completely unrelated to the issue at hand. The more you try to tell her that her sense of logic is out of whack, the more she'll argue.
She may also try to make you feel guilty about everything you do, even situations that you have absolutely no control over.
Obviously, if you're always tense when you're with your girlfriend, it defeats the purpose of having a relationship. If you got involved with this type of woman without realizing what you were getting yourself into, now's the time to run in the other direction.

The Chronic Cheater
There are ultimately two types of chronic cheaters. The first will announce her history of infidelity on the first date as if she takes pride in it. This type is easy to detect and get away from quickly. The second is much more cunning -- she cheats without ever admitting to it, even when you confront her directly.
In this case, your only chance of finding out the truth is by asking someone who knows her well and whom you think you can trust. For example, if you get along with one of her long-time male friends, you can try getting the dirt from him. However, if she's cheating on you with him, you're out of luck. If you have no way of finding out but you continue to have doubts, get rid of her. Trust is the foundation of any good relationship.


How To Avoid Them

Getting more serious now, the best way to avoid witches, b.i.t.c.h.e.s., and crazy ladies of all varieties is to understand that they have neurotic needs, whereas normal women have normal wants.

What Normal Women Want:

Marriage
Children
Girlfriends
Family ties
Laughs
Sympathy
Romance
Shopping
Presents
Attention
Affection
Kindness
Sex
Agreement

What Witches, *****es, and Crazy Ladies Need:

To use you for their own agenda without caring what happens to you
A man to make their lives okay
Everything all at once
Unconditional love
An endless party

If you're attracted to a woman who looks like one of the classic witches, *****es, or crazy ladies, or if she seems to have a neurotic need, stay away. If she's really sexy and coming on to you, it's hard to say no, but you can reprogram that first reaction. Instead of thinking, "I wonder what she'd be like in bed," try thinking, "Whoops, there goes trouble for somebody, but it isn't going to be me!"
And remember, if you want to find happiness, try falling in love with a normal, well-adjusted woman. If you can find one.
 

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part 5

Chapter 6
Irritating Behaviour

Women who can't express what they want are witchs or crazy b.i.t.c.h.e.s. They know which restaurant they prefer, but they're just not going to say. Then, one day, you'll be facing a raging, crying woman who demands that the two of you do this or that right now because, "We always do what you want to do." In effect, she wants to choose which things she's going to let you decide and which things she gets to decide, and no, you don't get a choice in that. By not volunteering where she wants to eat, or what trip she wants to take, or which museum she wants to see, and therefore forcing you to make the decision, she is building up "guilt points" for later use. Beware.
Can you imagine living with this for the rest of your life?

She: I'd like to go out to dinner tonight.
Him: OK, where would you like to go?
She: Why don't you decide. I'll go anywhere you like.
Him: I'd like to go for sushi.
She: We always go for sushi. Not sushi.
Him: OK, we haven't gone for Vietnamese in ages. How about that?
She: No, not Asian. I don't feel like Asian.
Him: Hmmm. Not Asian. Well, there's Chevy's. They have good food, and the atmosphere is fun.
She: I was thinking of some place with a view.
Him: A view. Not Asian. How about the Soft Rock Cafe? They have a view over False Creek.
She: I was really hoping we could go to Bridges.
Him: Why didn't you just say so?
She: Because I wanted to know where you wanted to go.

Women who don't wash their bodies or can't ever pay bills on time you should ask yourself agian do you either 2 of these women ?? If you answered no to both then ketp your defense team on watch.

Outro
Their are many more kinds of bad women. But if you wish to avoid these kinds of women you must know what kind of women you want and be around different kinds of women. The more the experince you have the better. So the next time your on a date and a women and she wants to be center of attention talking loud and ignoring you as if you don't exist then get away from her. Their are 2 roads 1 road will lead you to a fun and interesting life and the other will take you into a hell hole. Make the right choice.




I'm thinking about retyping some of this before it gose to the Tip forum. So please please please help me out and let me know and for the last time this is a not to bash women or make them look bad or make you hate women.
 

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Great post!

Dude, u have no idea how many woman i thought of while reading that post.

Good job, and thx for this overview which i will memorize to learn to recognise on instinct those crazy woman i always end up falling for then regretting dearly.
 

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Re: Great post!

Originally posted by Turncoat
Dude, u have no idea how many woman i thought of while reading that post.

Good job, and thx for this overview which i will memorize to learn to recognise on instinct those crazy woman i always end up falling for then regretting dearly.
damn, I have dated and been in relationships with many of these types, no wonder I'm so scarred and battered, my room mate fits into so many of these categories I can't work which one she is.

awesome post.
 

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Np I gusse it's a good post for l'll still wait to see what other people have to say before I post in the tip place but before I do I might edit some more parts.

For you guys

I been with some bad women to. But it comes down to it. WE MUST QUIT BEING NEEDY !!! AND STOP THE LOSER THINKING ( oh l'll never find a good women like this so I don't want to lose her )
Alot of dating books say move on. If you get rid of being needy then you might find yourself not being with so many bad women.

Last thing

Ketp bad women away from your love zone. Bad women are only good for bed thats it. They aren't good for love because they will drive you crazy , can't be trusted , and will break your heart.

If anyone see anything wrong with my guide please let me and thank you.
 

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Excellent Post!! The only thing I kinda have a slight disagreement with, is the Virgin.

To me it depends on who you are and where you stand, in the moral section and what you are looking for in a LTR. If you believe in sex after marriage then obviously a Virgin would be something to look for. But if you were the opposite then yeah this post would be right for you.

But again overall Excellent Post. Good Job!
 

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If any mod sees this they can move it to tip forum since no one else can find anything wrong with my post. ( Problay cause it's so true ) lol.
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