Women & their weight issues

[JusticeCause]

What up yaaaaaalll, lol.

JusticeCause, welcome to the forum. I can't believe no one has roasted you alive for your opinions. Yet.

What is worse, do you suppose? A fat girl who is happy and satisfied with the way she looks? Or a fat girl who desperately wants to lose wait but can't?

Thanks Zekko for the welcome, appreciate it bro! Aight, to answer your question, a fat girl who is not happy with her weight and can't loose it ,is worst then the one who is satisfied with her looks and his happy. We all have things that we may want to change about ourselves that we feel will make us better in our own eyes. See in this case, I would feel some empathy for her, because I know that she isn't happy and wants to do something about it, but can't.

My issue lies here: My male cousin complains that his joints are sore, he has difficulty with stamina, and has also started with a heart condition. He's about 5'9" and roughly 240-250lbs, no muscle mass whatsoever. He constantly *****es to me that he needs to lose weight, YET he shoves as much food as he can down his throat whenever we have family gatherings. He doesn't exercise, yet he says he's going to start.

Same issue with my dad, he's starting to get some potentially serious health problems. I know the root cause is the extra weight, he knows it, his doctor/specialists know this. Yet he continues to stuff his fat face day in day out with junk food, not exercise, and spend any spare time he has, sleeping on the couch.

It is also the same issue with some women I know, but it is 100 times worse, because they refuse to acknowledge the situation, or the solution to it.

Loosing weight takes a change of lifestyle and it takes discipline and determination to do it. The person really has to want to loose weight. Your brother isn't ready to commit to loosing weight at this moment. He knows it would be beneficial to his health and stamina, he knows it, but he's not willing to change his diet yet. What you going to do. You can try to convince him all you want but if he ain't ready, he's not going to do it, bottom line. Same thing goes for your dad. I hope they come around to realizing their health may be in danger. Oh and I know obesity can shorten your lifespan, What I'm saying is that, that obese person may not die from obesity at all or any complications of it. They may die from something random and never experience the consequences of over eating.

A fat woman is not empowered.

In fact, you can tell a lot about someone's discipline and resolve by how fit/unfit they are.


Why can't a fat woman be empowered. Because she's fat? Explain that to me a little deeper. And there's no way I can look at ANY PERSON I don't know and say that that person lacks discipline and resolve. Get to know them first.

If women want to stay fat...that's fine. I'll stay single

No argument there squirrels, you have every right to, your choice.

You gotta love it when woman complain about their weight and make it sound like they are victims and then turn around when no one is looking and stuff their face with sh*t that makes them fat.

If someone complains about their situation but is not willing to do what is needed to change it then sympathy shouldn't be given to them if they're asking for it. If people really want to change, they will try their best to and do what it takes.

If you go out with a girl who is physically attractive and healthy then she makes daily choices to eat junk food and after a year or so ends up getting fat then thats a problem.

Why is that a problem?

Because she hurting someone else, namely her man. I can guarantee he isn't happy about it and that hurts him as the days turn into weeks, turn into months, as he watches her go from attractive to repulsive.

Haha, I guess that would be a problem for you correct? That's cool. But I'm not going to sit here and speak for ALL men. And if it's really a problem for him, he should just leave her.

"BBW" is an oxymoron. Fat girls are not beautiful. I'm sorry...they aren't. And I can tolerate more than most guys as far as finding out a girl has some extra bodyweight...but that "tolerance" makes me feel worse about myself, in that I know it's turning me off and I'm still being accepting of it. That decreases MY value by association. I don't even want to be seen with them.

Wow! lol, this is an attitude I had when I was 19 years old. 19!! I NEver wanted to sit next to a fat girl in the cafeteria cause I was afraid I would look bad. Now if you don't think fat girls are beautiful then that's fine. Nothing wrong with that at all. And it's cool if they turn you off. But you are basing your value, your worth, on being seen or associated with a fat girl?!! Yo! that's bananas. I thought this was the "mature" man forum, not the high school mean girls forum. No seriously, you know what charm is? It's the ability to NOT think your better then anyone or less then anyone.Being totally secure with who you are (self-image,the principles and ideals you uphold, etc.) to the point you are able to genuinely associate with ANYBODY and make them comfortable no matter how different they are from you. You gotta really let go of your ego to be charming. That statement shows you haven't let go of your ego and your not that secure with yourself. Go hang out with some fat girls, you don't have to date them, just get to know them. Maybe there's something inside of that heavy exterior you can learn.

Jeez, you guys are tiring me out, haha. Let's continue.

The thing that pisses me off the most is how fat women think they can get good looking high quality guys. I don't go to the gym 4+ times a week and eat chicken + broccoli to date some fat whale

Paintball, I'm not going to knock fat women for thinking they can get high quality guys. I believe in "think big, be big" (lol) you know, reach for the stars and you can attain them. Like if you don't like them, why are you so concerned with what they are looking for. And How are they supposed to know your not going to like them. They are just taking a shot like a guy would to a girl. Just be flattered and say no thank you.

Most men who like big women and go after them, like them because that is the only type of women they can get. I never seen successful men with women who opt for a fattie instead of a size slim weight woman. Being overweight for a woman is unattractive quality and most men on this planet agree with it.

You guys have to stop speaking for ALL men, and stop devaluing the worth of another human being especially over something ridiculous as weight. Come on!! And success is relative so what you deem as successful may not be someone else idea and therefore, their choices won't be the same as yours.

I don't think for a minute that big women think that they are sexy. What they are trying to do because they are now the majority is to convince other women that staying fat is 'empowering' and its good to be who you are instead of striving for a higher and healthier goal such as losing all that extra weight.

Because you don't think big women are sexy, you then turn around and believe big women don't think they are sexy. Some may not but some do. And if they want to go around feeling sexy, go head giiiirlfriend!! lol. I'm not into tearing someone and their self-esteem down, not my thing, and regardless of whatever, we should feel good about ourselves, and the things we feel can make us better, we work on. See the common theme that's running through you guys post is that it's all about YOU. It's all about what big women can do for YOU!! not themselves. You say striving for a higher healthier goal such as loosing weight, I bet you that's one of YOUR goals they should work on. Maybe they have different goals in mind. Maybe they are striving to get every kid in the class they are teaching to pass with A's. Maybe they're trying to get into a nursing program or something, i don't know. Point is they don't feel they're worth is defined by their weight. They feel they are more then that and they are comfortable in their own skin. That's fantastic!!

That is not the major issue here. Due to the increase of overweightness in women in North America the healthy pool of slim women to choose from is shrinking. Which causes the following:

This is juvenile thinking right here, I don't feel like touching this now.

You did a disservice to these women who were on the right track in handling their chunky friend growing problem () through the act of shaming.

Please tell me you were joking and just trying to be funny. Please!!

 

[JusticeCause]

I don't hate fat women, but I do think that anyone who allows themselves to become significantly overweight really does have reason to be ashamed of themselves. It's not taking care of the gift of your body, and accepting mediocrity at best.

Hey Zek, you know who has to be ashamed of themselves, it's not them. They don't have the problem. You have the problem. If you were overweight , you would be ashamed of yourself, I take it, so that same insecurity you would have, you project on them, thinking they should feel bad about their weight. if you didn't have that insecurity, you wouldn't feel the same way about fat people.


You guys have to stop rationalizing your prejudices. When I was talking to those 5 chicks, I could hear the hate in their voices, and the prejudices in their words towards big people, and they were rationalizing forever. You can't. In the end that s*it just comes back to one individual. YOU. YOUR PROBLEM. YOUR ANGER. YOUR INSECURITY. YOUR PERCEIVED SHORTCOMINGS. It's all you. Let's get it together men, and become true gentlemen, dudes who show RESPECT, class, and honorable behavior toward the next person regardless.

YES!!!! BEDTIME!!!

 

[Warrior74]

Quiet fat woman. Men are speaking.

 

[Jitterbug]

SS Mature Men forum has to be the last place on earth I'd expect a fat chick to show up defending fellow fat chicks.

 

[zekko]

Wow! lol, this is an attitude I had when I was 19 years old. 19!! I NEver wanted to sit next to a fat girl in the cafeteria cause I was afraid I would look bad.

This is the one thing I agree with you about. I read a lot of guys here saying they won't talk to a girl unless she is attractive. I don't understand that mindset, I talk to everybody. The ugly isn't going to rub off on you. They're still human beings, and should be treated with a certain level of respect. It's not their fault they weren't born hotties.

Now if they're fat they likely bear some (or total) responsibility for it, but as I said before, I don't hate fat women, they're just weak.

If you were overweight , you would be ashamed of yourself, I take it, so that same insecurity you would have, you project on them, thinking they should feel bad about their weight.

If I don't do my best, I am ashamed of it. That's not insecurity, that's setting high standards.

 

[Forty0ztoFreedom]

What is worse, do you suppose? A fat girl who is happy and satisfied with the way she looks? Or a fat girl who desperately wants to lose wait but can't?

False information is everywhere. Even on this very forum that has its own Health & Fitness section.

You'll see people at the gym who do cardio for 1 hour a day, thinking its all they need . . and they go home and pick at low-carb foods all day (speeds up the metabolism!). They do this for 2 months and the scale doesn't move. Its hard to describe the frustration. Double that frustration when people who haven't seen a gym in their entire lives grab McDonald's for dinner and scoff at those 'weak' fat people.

Its easier than you think to "desperately want to lose weight but can't." I was that person for over a year, thanks in part to info I got . . here.

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

You can't judge a book by it's cover, but more often than not, it's a good indicator of what the story's about. An attractive cover should make the reader want to read it.

 

[vatoloco]

I read a lot of guys here saying they won't talk to a girl unless she is attractive. I don't understand that mindset, I talk to everybody.

I talk to girls of all kinds. Tall. Short. Slim. Fat. Attractive. Ugly. I just want to and choose to only fuck the pretty, attractive and non-fat ones.

 

[Franky Four Fingers]

Theres a comment on the original site with the pictures I thought was funny.

"The only good thing about fat chicks is they give good head... why? Because fat chicks love to eat."

 

[typical]

It breaks down to "marketing", you want to sell a good product you put it in a good package and sell it.

Simple isn't it. We all know nice guys and fat girls are avoided as partners as they are just unattractive in either their looks or in their behaviour.

Back to the book analogy if the story is the best in the world but has a rubbish cover or looks like crap most people will avoid it, yet if it has a semi decent cover people will pick it up. Also some people will still pick up the crap looking book and still love it to bits as the books contents are unique and exciting and fun, but these people will be few and far between good luck finding them.

You can also market a rubbish product with a good package. Its all in perspective.

 

[PokerStar]

the other day my buddy and I were talking. (he had recently just got married)

He over heard his wife say "im starting to feel comfortable in my body" the first thing that came to his mind is "No way im going to let my wife get fat"

I said "How are you going to do that?"
he replied "Ive got my wife hand cuffed to the treadmill 24/7"

i laughed my ass off because he said with such conviction.

 

[supremacy]

It fvcking pisses me off seeing people that are overweight that aren't handicapped, disabled or those with serious health issues. As of 2 years ago I came down with a progressive neurological disease. Before this happened I was a gym junkie, more fit and in better shape than 99% of other people. I have not been able to train normally since then, yet I am still in better shape than most people I see everyday.

Hey Mike,

Sorry to hear about your condition sir, I wish you all the best and my prayers are with you.

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In regards to this thread, some really fascinating points of view I gotta say, Kudos for everyone for giving their pennies worth:rockon: Here is mine;

You don't have to be rich or have money to not be fat.
- You work out (no need for gym), eat less, eat right (doesn't cost much, we don't need fancy stuff), and drink more water.

The question is more with motivation and concentration. People are so entangled in such sh1tty lives and brainwashed beyond help that they cannot see a banana from a hot dog(who thought I was gonna say something else:rock.

The reason why poor people are more likely to be fat is because they are more depressed.....and what do people do when there depressed?

It is about having the right mentality and outlook of life. Many girls and boys do not and cannot fend for themselves (spoilt 21st century brats) and are taught very early on a un-healthy, unstructured and lazy lifestyle where everything is done for you.

Stress is the biggest cause for all health concerns, including obesity.

 

[typical]

It is about having the right mentality and outlook of life. Many girls and boys do not and cannot fend for themselves (spoilt 21st century brats) and are taught very early on a un-healthy, unstructured and lazy lifestyle where everything is done for you.

Stress is the biggest cause for all health concerns, including obesity.

Indeed I have younger family members who can't be stuffed to get up at 6 in the morning and go for a run yet they cry like babies because they want "abs" and continue to eat sh!t food.

 

[pdx1138]

Theres a comment on the original site with the pictures I thought was funny.

"The only good thing about fat chicks is they give good head... why? Because fat chicks love to eat"

that is funny and very true actually!

 

[Jitterbug]

You can't judge a book by it's cover, but more often than not, it's a good indicator of what the story's about. An attractive cover should make the reader want to read it.

I'm not sure what I should judge the fat chick book by, its thick blubber cover, or the content inside that reflects a total lack of discipline, work ethic and basic knowledge on nutrition & exercising.

 

[5string]

Hey Zek, you know who has to be ashamed of themselves, it's not them. They don't have the problem. You have the problem. If you were overweight , you would be ashamed of yourself, I take it, so that same insecurity you would have, you project on them, thinking they should feel bad about their weight. if you didn't have that insecurity, you wouldn't feel the same way about fat people.


You guys have to stop rationalizing your prejudices. When I was talking to those 5 chicks, I could hear the hate in their voices, and the prejudices in their words towards big people, and they were rationalizing forever. You can't. In the end that s*it just comes back to one individual. YOU. YOUR PROBLEM. YOUR ANGER. YOUR INSECURITY. YOUR PERCEIVED SHORTCOMINGS. It's all you. Let's get it together men, and become true gentlemen, dudes who show RESPECT, class, and honorable behavior toward the next person regardless.

YES!!!! BEDTIME!!!

BS! BS! BS! It's difficult to respect someone who has no respect for themselves. I for one simply do not understand why women (mostly), walk around Walmart with their chocolate shakes weighing in at 300 lbs, pushing their baby stroller (WTF got them pregnant anyway?), wearing extra large Hefty cinch sacks for pants. WTF! They don't fvckin care! They have zero respect for themselves and until they do, they'll get no respect from me.

And Justice, these fatties should be ashamed. They really should. STOP FVCKIN' EATING SO MUCH!!!! That's what I say.

zekko was right.

 

[MatureDJ]

we are so fat as a country people have forgotten what a 25 year old is supposed to look like. now if you aren't "18' or 19 then you look too old.

Here in Kiev, every day I'm reminded what an 18 y.o. is supposed to look like. :yes:

 

[MatureDJ]

I had a longer post written but I'll just cut to the chase. It fvcking pisses me off seeing people that are overweight that aren't handicapped, disabled or those with serious health issues.

Are you really pissed off because of all these folks being fat - or is it that you are pissed off that a lot of women are fat, and therefore in the pecking order of sexual selection, your ranking is too low for you to have access to the lithe women, thereby relegating you to the far women? IOW, if less people were fat, then your position in the pecking order would be such that you could have access to a lithe woman, which would be a better sexual selection state for you.

Maybe you are externalizing your own sexual frustration to the fat women that you are forced to select. Do you see Donald Trump, Hef, etc. lamenting over this situation?

Now don't get me wrong, I am just as frustrated and pissed off about the situation as you are.

 

[MatureDJ]

If women want to stay fat...that's fine. I'll stay single.

Basically the only way to address the problem with fat women is to let sexual selection evolution make their genes die out. To do this, all men would need to restrain from sexing these chicks. Of course, the way men are, there are always men who will take a "heart and a whole", and because a man can easily have plural women, it would only take a small portion of such men to keep these fat chicks in the maternity ward. :moon:

 

[Adriann]

Women always have a bad habit of eating all the day or chewing some thing to make themselves busy.
This bad habit cause them to gain their weight.
They should change their habit and should take meal three times a day.