Women & their weight issues

[Kendrick]

The problem of overweight is mostly exist in women because womens does't do exercise in their routine life, this is the main reason of overweighting..

 

[5string]

The bottom line here is that in the absence of a medical condition over which one has no control, the fatties just plain don't eat right and eat too much.

Wanna lose weight honey? Lay off the fast food and twinkies!

 

[old married dude]

The bottom line here is that in the absence of a medical condition over which one has no control, the fatties just plain don't eat right and eat too much.

Wanna lose weight honey? Lay off the fast food and twinkies!

Very true, if those very morbidly obese people on The Biggest Loser can lose 100-200 pounds in less than a year, then anyone can lose weight.

We need some weight loss "boot camps" where people can go lose the weight successfully. Being on a VERY strict diet & having a brutal trainer like Jillian Michaels is a recipe for success.

 

[Kendrick]

The problem of overweight is mostly exist in women because womens does't do exercise in their routine life, this is the main reason of overweighting..

Thanks for comments..
Los Angeles Boot Camp

 

[Slickster]

Hey be careful with those "western women" comments.

I live in Canada and spent a week in the US last month.

In the entire week I think I saw only TWO hot girls, both working at Costco of all things! Almost every other young chick I saw was overweight. Sad.

Another thing I noticed was the portion sizes at restaurants. Absolutely ridiculous amounts of food stuffed onto oversized plates. I usually don't over eat but when you have a mountain of good food in front of you it is hard to stop. I felt like I was getting fat every meal.

Crossing the border back into Canada was like night and day. Cute, slim, women everywhere!

 

[JusticeCause]

First time poster, long time So Suaver. What's going on gentlemen. After reading some of the comments in this thread, I have to wonder is "overweight" the new prejudice. This thread reminds me of a discussion I had last year with this chick and her 4 friends who were all in their early 20's. They were going on about how fat women should be ashamed of themselves for being overweight and how they were disgusted at the thought of seeing these women and sitting next to them. One of the girls was a little chunky herself, she admitted. Listening, I kind of felt that their words had a little bit of hate and prejudice in them and I argued with them for like an hour about it. I tossed it up to them just being immature haters. I see these girls words in some of the posts in this thread. Not saying you guys are immature but I don't think it's a good look.

Now I do think a diet consisting of beer, fast food and all that other junk is what's contributing to the increase in overweight and obese individuals but
their diet and how they live their life is not my concern. I never walk around feeling empathy or sympathy for fat people because them being fat to me is NOOO BIG DEAAALL!! I don't even think twice about it. I'm concerned with doing me. If you go around looking at overweight people (especially ones you don't know) feeling empathy or sympathy for them, they're not the ones with issues, you are. Those people you look at may be happy the way they are, you wouldn't know unless you talked to them, so why should you feel emp or symp for them. That would be a little presumptuous on your part.

My point is that while we have laws against discrimination I don't feel that obesity should fall in that same category because while you have no control over the color of your skin or your sexual orientation you do in the majority of cases have control over your weight.

So are you advocating for discrimination against overweight people?

Another thing...fat people smell. Yeast profilerates in their system...they are literall rotting inside.
Genetics has sweet fuk all to do with it.
I have no respect for fat people.

Like this is ignorant and just plain hateful. And only one person before me in this thread mentioned the ignorance in this post. like, come onnnnn! really?

I don't see why everyone is so up in arms about overweight people. Some of you guys think women should loose weight or stay slim to please men. Is this for men in general? Why? I feel they don't have to please anyone. If they think they are sexy the way they are, let them be. We should all feel good about ourselves no matter what. If your not attracted to them, don't date them. There are lots of dudes who like big women. Are some of you guys suggesting men should stop liking big woman? Like are these men causing that many problems for YOUR life that you demand they change their preferences? Give me a break.

Although more people are becoming overweight, at the end of the day their just living their lives. They, like us, are making choices for themselves. And all of our choices come with consequences regardless. Most of those consequences are unforeseen and they can be negative or positive, no matter what choice we make. Everyone can't be skinny or slim. Some peeps love working out, some love eating. So be it. That's how the world operates. There are always going to be overweight women, people in general. just deal with it and find a slim girl.

There's way too much tolerance for obesity in the U.S

I'm going to believe that we just tolerate people for their differences. That can't be a bad thing can it?

 

[MikeBrown30]

ike this is ignorant and just plain hateful. And only one person before me in this thread mentioned the ignorance in this post. like, come onnnnn! really?

I don't see why everyone is so up in arms about overweight people. Some of you guys think women should loose weight or stay slim to please men. Is this for men in general? Why? I feel they don't have to please anyone. If they think they are sexy the way they are, let them be. We should all feel good about ourselves no matter what. If your not attracted to them, don't date them. There are lots of dudes who like big women. Are some of you guys suggesting men should stop liking big woman? Like are these men causing that many problems for YOUR life that you demand they change their preferences? Give me a break.

Although more people are becoming overweight, at the end of the day their just living their lives. They, like us, are making choices for themselves. And all of our choices come with consequences regardless. Most of those consequences are unforeseen and they can be negative or positive, no matter what choice we make. Everyone can't be skinny or slim. Some peeps love working out, some love eating. So be it. That's how the world operates. There are always going to be overweight women, people in general. just deal with it and find a slim girl.

I had a longer post written but I'll just cut to the chase. It fvcking pisses me off seeing people that are overweight that aren't handicapped, disabled or those with serious health issues. As of 2 years ago I came down with a progressive neurological disease. Before this happened I was a gym junkie, more fit and in better shape than 99% of other people. I have not been able to train normally since then, yet I am still in better shape than most people I see everyday.

Why should other people, piss their life away because they're too lazy to exercise, or because they have no self-control? If anything I should just let myself go, because in a few years I won't be able to exercise or do anything. So why even bother? They deserve whatever health issues come to them in the future. Whether it be heart disease, diabetes, whatever. And I hope that sounds harsh, they need to learn the hard way.

There are lots of dudes who like big women.

Yep, there might be a few who genuinely have a fetish for them, the rest are losers who have no/lower their standards.

Most of those consequences are unforeseen and they can be negative or positive, no matter what choice we make.

The consequences of obesity and not exercising are not unforseen. Now who's being ignorant?

 

[JusticeCause]

I had a longer post written but I'll just cut to the chase. It fvcking pisses me off seeing people that are overweight that aren't handicapped, disabled or those with serious health issues. As of 2 years ago I came down with a progressive neurological disease. Before this happened I was a gym junkie, more fit and in better shape than 99% of other people. I have not been able to train normally since then, yet I am still in better shape than most people I see everyday.

Why should other people, piss their life away because they're too lazy to exercise, or because they have no self-control? If anything I should just let myself go, because in a few years I won't be able to exercise or do anything. So why even bother? They deserve whatever health issues come to them in the future. Whether it be heart disease, diabetes, whatever. And I hope that sounds harsh, they need to learn the hard way.

Hey Mike, I'm sorry for your condition brother. Seriously I am. That's really F'd up, but if someone decides to "piss their life away" in your eyes, thats their right, it's their life. I could be wrong, but it sounds like your just angry at overweight people because you came down with this disorder. Why be angry at them? They didn't cause it. It's unfortunate it happened to you, but the fact it did happen to you and not them is troubling you to the point your wishing ill will on them. That's an issue I think you have to resolve inside yourself. Let that anger go man.

Yep, there might be a few who genuinely have a fetish for them, the rest are losers who have no/lower their standards.

So because a guy likes fat women, they have low standards and are losers? Fat women are humans like you and me, they're just a little heavier. What makes you think that you are superior then them to not only devalue them in your own life, but to then think they have no value in other guys lives. Wow. That's pretty crazy.

As of 2 years ago I came down with a progressive neurological disease. Before this happened I was a gym junkie, more fit and in better shape than 99% of other people.

See this is what I mean when I say the choices we make have unforeseen consequences regardless. You were a gym junkie, and I bet you never saw a disorder coming into your life. I'm not saying the gym caused it, I'm saying that what you do at point A in life doesn't necessarily lead to point B. You may go to the gym and be super healthy and then get hit by a car. You may eat like a pig and be overweight but yet live a full happy life. Nobody knows for sure if we will truly benefit or be hurt from the choices we make. So as long as we are not hurting anyone else, lets all live our lives the way we want and be HAPPY doing it. Our future will play out on its own.

 

[zekko]

JusticeCause, welcome to the forum. I can't believe no one has roasted you alive for your opinions. Yet.

What is worse, do you suppose? A fat girl who is happy and satisfied with the way she looks? Or a fat girl who desperately wants to lose wait but can't?

And what do you guys think about bariatric surgery? I've known a number of women who have gotten it and it seems to have a pretty good success rate. It seems a shame that people have such little will power that they have to turn to surgery to solve their problem.
But then, will power is the key to everything, isn't it? If everybody had will power, then excelling wouldn't be so exceptional, would it?

 

[5string]

Fat chicks are difficult to kidnap.

 

[MikeBrown30]

Hey Mike, I'm sorry for your condition brother. Seriously I am. That's really F'd up, but if someone decides to "piss their life away" in your eyes, thats their right, it's their life. I could be wrong, but it sounds like your just angry at overweight people because you came down with this disorder. Why be angry at them? They didn't cause it. It's unfortunate it happened to you, but the fact it did happen to you and not them is troubling you to the point your wishing ill will on them. That's an issue I think you have to resolve inside yourself. Let that anger go man.



So because a guy likes fat women, they have low standards and are losers? Fat women are humans like you and me, they're just a little heavier. What makes you think that you are superior then them to not only devalue them in your own life, but to then think they have no value in other guys lives. Wow. That's pretty crazy.



See this is what I mean when I say the choices we make have unforeseen consequences regardless. You were a gym junkie, and I bet you never saw a disorder coming into your life. I'm not saying the gym caused it, I'm saying that what you do at point A in life doesn't necessarily lead to point B. You may go to the gym and be super healthy and then get hit by a car. You may eat like a pig and be overweight but yet live a full happy life. Nobody knows for sure if we will truly benefit or be hurt from the choices we make. So as long as we are not hurting anyone else, lets all live our lives the way we want and be HAPPY doing it. Our future will play out on its own.

Thank you for your concern. I will admit, I am angry, but it doesn't help that the cause of the disease is still unknown after decades of research. There is no effective treatment for it, nor are they any closer to finding the cause of it.

My issue lies here: My male cousin complains that his joints are sore, he has difficulty with stamina, and has also started with a heart condition. He's about 5'9" and roughly 240-250lbs, no muscle mass whatsoever. He constantly *****es to me that he needs to lose weight, YET he shoves as much food as he can down his throat whenever we have family gatherings. He doesn't exercise, yet he says he's going to start.

Same issue with my dad, he's starting to get some potentially serious health problems. I know the root cause is the extra weight, he knows it, his doctor/specialists know this. Yet he continues to stuff his fat face day in day out with junk food, not exercise, and spend any spare time he has, sleeping on the couch.

It is also the same issue with some women I know, but it is 100 times worse, because they refuse to acknowledge the situation, or the solution to it.

You may eat like a pig and be overweight but yet live a full happy life. Nobody knows for sure if we will truly benefit or be hurt from the choices we make.

This is where you are wrong, obesity/being overweight is proven to shorten your lifespan.

 

[squirrels]

They should all see an empowered woman for what she is and be immediately attracted to her by no other criteria than the virtue of her independence, intellect and business savvy.

I know you're being sarcastic, so this isn't directed at you, but the people you are mocking:

A fat woman is not empowered.

In fact, you can tell a lot about someone's discipline and resolve by how fit/unfit they are. Fitness...REAL fitness...takes an enormous amount of dedication, commitment, discipline, and self-control. It involves a lot of sacrifice and the ability to change your lifestyle to something less-than-comfortable in the short-term to accomplish something greater in the long-term.

How a woman takes care of herself says a lot about whether I want to spend time with her. The attraction-issue is just the tip of the iceberg.

If women want to stay fat...that's fine. I'll stay single.

 

[MonkeyButt]

I don't mind fat women ... if they're someone else's problem.
Let the walking pork roasts live how they want.

What bugs me, is when they get grumpy with me for declining their advances.
I'm fit, watch what I eat, exercise regularly. I just want the same.

I get emails from chunkies on a dating site that say in their profile "no bald men", yet mine has "big beautiful women ... keep on looking" and they get mad at me for it.

Hypocrites!

Fortunately, I'm neither bald or heavy, but if I were, I'd fix it!

MB

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

Fat chicks are difficult to kidnap.

Winner.

lmao.

 

[Franky Four Fingers]

You gotta love it when woman complain about their weight and make it sound like they are victims and then turn around when no one is looking and stuff their face with sh*t that makes them fat.

I caught a 15 minute glimpse of that Kardashian reality program with the more tom boy of the 3 girls I think her name was "Chloe" and she is on the floor in the corner on her knees in the fetal position crying to her husband that she's fat and is so sad.

Then the next seen she is driving with her friend and says lets pick up a pizza and watch a home movie when we get home.

Hello?

You wouldn't be crying about being fat is you CHOSE to eat healthy.

A little exercise OFF the couch wouldn't hurt either.

Ridiculous.

Women who CHOOSE to act like this and get fat don't deserve sympathy. NONE.

Like Jack Nicholson said in a movie (he played a relationship expert) when a girl asked him;

"How to you understand women so well?"

He replied;

"Easy, I take a man ...{pause}... and then take away reason and accountability".

Bingo.

 

[Franky Four Fingers]

So as long as we are not hurting anyone else, lets all live our lives the way we want and be HAPPY doing it. Our future will play out on its own.

Thats the key. As long as someone isn't hurting anyone else. If you go out with a girl who is physically attractive and healthy then she makes daily choices to eat junk food and after a year or so ends up getting fat then thats a problem.

Why is that a problem?

Because she hurting someone else, namely her man. I can guarantee he isn't happy about it and that hurts him as the days turn into weeks, turn into months, as he watches her go from attractive to repulsive.

 

[squirrels]

Thats the key. As long as someone isn't hurting anyone else. If you go out with a girl who is physically attractive and healthy then she makes daily choices to eat junk food and after a year or so ends up getting fat then thats a problem.

Why is that a problem?

Because she hurting someone else, namely her man. I can guarantee he isn't happy about it and that hurts him as the days turn into weeks, turn into months, as he watches her go from attractive to repulsive.

It's not just that...there's also the online-dating factor.

When girls post pictures of themselves when they were slim, or at odd angles to hide their flab, then you agree to go out with them and find that the advertised product is much different from what you really get...then you're pretty much "out" that time.

Usually I look for an angle that really tells the story...something swimsuit-caliber. But even that can be from 2 years ago, before Ben and Jerry tag-teamed her. And I've been fooled before.

And then after mis-advertising, they have the nerve to get indignant at you for being upset about the false advertising.

Wasting your time, vilifying you, and getting emotionally butt-hurt, all because they weren't honest with themselves about what makes a woman attractive.

"BBW" is an oxymoron. Fat girls are not beautiful. I'm sorry...they aren't. And I can tolerate more than most guys as far as finding out a girl has some extra bodyweight...but that "tolerance" makes me feel worse about myself, in that I know it's turning me off and I'm still being accepting of it. That decreases MY value by association. I don't even want to be seen with them.

Female entitlement. The world tells these girls that THEY have the right to be choosey about exactly what they want out of a man...at the same time if a man wants to be "choosey" and pick attributes in a woman that turn HIM on, he's an arrogant, self-centered pr!ck who has no compassion for other people and whose superficial lack of vision should be punished emphatically.

Guilty as charged, I guess.

Same goes for single mothers...not widows, but women who got knocked up and then divorced or knocked up out of wedlock because they were too stupid to realize that the guy wasn't right for them or, even worse, too stupid to protect themselves. F**k them too. It's not "okay". It wasn't "okay" in our parents' time, nor in our grandparents' time, and it's especially not "okay" now, no matter how hard you try to sell it as "normal". You f**ked up. If you can find a guy who accepts that, great...but don't get p!ssy at ME because *I* don't accept it. That's my goddam choice and there's not a DAMNED thing wrong with me choosing not to get involved with you.

 

[Paintballguy]

The thing that pisses me off the most is how fat women think they can get good looking high quality guys. I don't go to the gym 4+ times a week and eat chicken + broccoli to date some fat whale.

 

[DJDamage]

There are lots of dudes who like big women. Are some of you guys suggesting men should stop liking big woman? Like are these men causing that many problems for YOUR life that you demand they change their preferences? Give me a break.

Most men who like big women and go after them, like them because that is the only type of women they can get. I never seen successful men with women who opt for a fattie instead of a size slim weight woman. Being overweight for a woman is unattractive quality and most men on this planet agree with it.

I feel they don't have to please anyone. If they think they are sexy the way they are, let them be. We should all feel good about ourselves no matter what.

I don't think for a minute that big women think that they are sexy. What they are trying to do because they are now the majority is to convince other women that staying fat is 'empowering' and its good to be who you are instead of striving for a higher and healthier goal such as losing all that extra weight.

If your not attracted to them, don't date them.

That is not the major issue here. Due to the increase of overweightness in women in North America the healthy pool of slim women to choose from is shrinking. Which causes the following:

"Female obesity is not just bad for women; it’s bad for men, too, who have to wade through tons of sunbathing walruses before finding the lean babe on the beach, competing furiously for access to her overpriced vagina. (Fat men are no great shakes either, but due to the nature of sex differences in attraction, fat men don’t suffer the same penalty in the dating market that fat women do.)"

This thread reminds me of a discussion I had last year with this chick and her 4 friends who were all in their early 20's.They were going on about how fat women should be ashamed of themselves for being overweight and how they were disgusted at the thought of seeing these women and sitting next to them. One of the girls was a little chunky herself, she admitted. Listening, I kind of felt that their words had a little bit of hate and prejudice in them and I argued with them for like an hour about it. I tossed it up to them just being immature haters.

You did a disservice to these women who were on the right track in handling their chunky friend growing problem D) through the act of shaming.

 

[zekko]

The worst thing about all these women who are overweight is that they are driving the value of genuinely pretty women up to ridiculous levels. It's not like they needed the extra attention and ego boost.

I don't hate fat women, but I do think that anyone who allows themselves to become significantly overweight really does have reason to be ashamed of themselves. It's not taking care of the gift of your body, and accepting mediocrity at best.