Women that write off or ban entire countries or states based on 1 bad relationship

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I remember dating this 1 chick in her early 20's that told me she refuses to visit or date anyone that lives in California, Maryland, or Florida because she had a relationship with someone that lived there in the past and it ended badly.
She basically wrote off the entire state based off 1 person that lives there.

Another woman I dated briefly in her late 30's told me she hates all Venezuelans because she had a bad relationship with one. Now the entire country of Venezuela is banned.

I could imagine women like this in Europe that would ban men from entire countries from meeting her based on 1 bad relationship.
Like the entire country of France would be banned because she dated someone French and it didn't end well.

Have you ever met women like this before?
 

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I have not met women like this before.

It might be reasonable for a woman to eliminate men from a certain geography after she asks some questions and finds out he fits some stereotype of an area that she does not like.
 

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Have you ever met women like this before?
Yes, I met them. Very briefly. Most of them lack the mind to intrigue me. And I don't date down.
 

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I remember dating this 1 chick in her early 20's that told me she refuses to visit or date anyone that lives in California, Maryland, or Florida because she had a relationship with someone that lived there in the past and it ended badly.
She basically wrote off the entire state based off 1 person that lives there.
There’s a former poster who would do that here, in addition to bashing various demographics. He even flipped out and went on a scathing tirade about the county I live in. After awhile I concluded he hated all of mankind.
 

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Never heard of anything like that before. You should thank them.

Don't stick your d!ck in crazy.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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I have never experienced anything like this before.

On the other hand, I have experienced situations where my nationality comes with certain stereotypes that actually benefit me. For example, my nationality is often associated with being a player. Other times, women dated some from where I am from, annd even though the relationship had a messy breakup, these men provided a good time and gave her the “feels”. In these cases, they may still have lingering feelings. Ultimately, this works in my favor because either they want to relive the good times or they believe they can reform me.

I guess the other side of the coin is that they won’t date you due to negative stereotypes attached to your nationality, in which it has happened as well, but not to the extend that they hate everything about the country in ever regard.
 

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They also do that with astrological signs. If a girl has more than a passing interest in your sign run in the opposite direction.
 

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I remember dating this 1 chick in her early 20's that told me she refuses to visit or date anyone that lives in California, Maryland, or Florida because she had a relationship with someone that lived there in the past and it ended badly.
She basically wrote off the entire state based off 1 person that lives there.

Another woman I dated briefly in her late 30's told me she hates all Venezuelans because she had a bad relationship with one. Now the entire country of Venezuela is banned.

I could imagine women like this in Europe that would ban men from entire countries from meeting her based on 1 bad relationship.
Like the entire country of France would be banned because she dated someone French and it didn't end well.

Have you ever met women like this before?
This reminds of a certain prolific (and presumably male) poster on this forum :lol:
 

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Have you ever met women like this before?
I once met a gal who was highly wary of amateur filmmakers, so I sent her Leonard Lake and Charles Ng's way, so that her apprehensions might be assuaged. Never heard from said gal again, thus I can only speculate as to what became of her
 

Create self-fulfilling prophecies. Always assume the positive. Assume she likes you. Assume she wants to talk to you. Assume she wants to go out with you. When you think positive, positive things happen.

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I was once 'dumped' when I refused to be a pitbull mule for a girl who wanted to walk around the world.

Didn't upset me at all. :) Not all dumps are bad.
 
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