so I recently broke up with my ex, one of the reasons we didn’t work out (besides from her being a total nut) is that she said I was too controlling and that I wouldn’t let her be herself.
For example, she would get overly loud and obnoxious when she would drink and I would get pissed off every time. Her response to all of this - I won’t let her be herself. When all I wanted was a chick that could handle her liquor without embarrassing me in public.
She would post sexually suggestive things on Snapchat and I would get pissed off. Her response- “you can’t handle dating a hot chick and You just don’t like the idea of other men finding her sexy (lol she really say this)”
When she would go out and drink, she would get so in the moment with her friends having a conversation she would fail to communicate with me...about when she would be home for example. I told her I felt like I couldn’t rely on her and she didn’t show me enough responsibility for me to consider having kids or a future with her.
After I told her that our relationship went downhill and the disrespect got worse...I stopped taking her out, No dates, ignored her, treated her like a ****buddy ....figured she would get the message but still dealt with the same old crap. . I finally left her because I realized she’s never gonna change.
girl grew up without a dad around maybe that had something to do with it.
Extremely frustrating situation because I had a deep connection with her and we had great chemistry, but felt like as a man it was necessary to leave to keep my self respect. Sometimes you gotta do what you gotta do.
Anyone go through anything similar? It’s unfortunate because sometimes the chicks you know aren’t relationship material you tend to have the most chemistry with...even if your not compatible as people
For example, she would get overly loud and obnoxious when she would drink and I would get pissed off every time. Her response to all of this - I won’t let her be herself. When all I wanted was a chick that could handle her liquor without embarrassing me in public.
She would post sexually suggestive things on Snapchat and I would get pissed off. Her response- “you can’t handle dating a hot chick and You just don’t like the idea of other men finding her sexy (lol she really say this)”
When she would go out and drink, she would get so in the moment with her friends having a conversation she would fail to communicate with me...about when she would be home for example. I told her I felt like I couldn’t rely on her and she didn’t show me enough responsibility for me to consider having kids or a future with her.
After I told her that our relationship went downhill and the disrespect got worse...I stopped taking her out, No dates, ignored her, treated her like a ****buddy ....figured she would get the message but still dealt with the same old crap. . I finally left her because I realized she’s never gonna change.
girl grew up without a dad around maybe that had something to do with it.
Extremely frustrating situation because I had a deep connection with her and we had great chemistry, but felt like as a man it was necessary to leave to keep my self respect. Sometimes you gotta do what you gotta do.
Anyone go through anything similar? It’s unfortunate because sometimes the chicks you know aren’t relationship material you tend to have the most chemistry with...even if your not compatible as people