Something I have noticed, and would like feedback, this is probably more geared to LTRs.
Women will say many things about how men SHOULD behave. For instance, they like to be called often because it shows you care. Or, they want you to let them know how much you care, and to be honest about your feelings, etc. etc. And, their belief seems to be, if the man is not actively pursuing, and "proving that he cares", then he must not be that great to have around....
ETCETERA.
But of course, these SAME women, who say they want all these things, what happens when this doesn't happen? What happens when the guy DOESN'T call all that much? What happens when he's a little aloof and not to expressive about his feelings? Or if he puts the girl in her place, knowing damn well it's the right thing to do... what happens?
It drives the chick nuts! They become OBSESSED with you, and all they can think of "does he care? Does he still care? Does he still want me? Is he mad? Why doesn't he do what I wish he would do?"
I guess my question is... do women actually KNOW what they want from a guy? Because all the things they SAY they want, when you do the opposite, is what makes them chase after you.
I know this is probably obvious, but there seems to be a big disconnect from what they say, and what really turns them on. This may be cynical, but I'm getting to the point that I think if a woman says she wants something, you should probably do the opposite. Thoughts?
Women will say many things about how men SHOULD behave. For instance, they like to be called often because it shows you care. Or, they want you to let them know how much you care, and to be honest about your feelings, etc. etc. And, their belief seems to be, if the man is not actively pursuing, and "proving that he cares", then he must not be that great to have around....
ETCETERA.
But of course, these SAME women, who say they want all these things, what happens when this doesn't happen? What happens when the guy DOESN'T call all that much? What happens when he's a little aloof and not to expressive about his feelings? Or if he puts the girl in her place, knowing damn well it's the right thing to do... what happens?
It drives the chick nuts! They become OBSESSED with you, and all they can think of "does he care? Does he still care? Does he still want me? Is he mad? Why doesn't he do what I wish he would do?"
I guess my question is... do women actually KNOW what they want from a guy? Because all the things they SAY they want, when you do the opposite, is what makes them chase after you.
I know this is probably obvious, but there seems to be a big disconnect from what they say, and what really turns them on. This may be cynical, but I'm getting to the point that I think if a woman says she wants something, you should probably do the opposite. Thoughts?