Women subconsciously raising the bar to test for persistent high-quality men

[CMNILS87]

If a woman wants to be chased that much is she really worth it? At a certain point shes making you focus on her and not your career or your hobbies. These guys that chase these women and finally get them are the ones in marriage where they say that they basically "work" and teh rest of their free time is taken up by their wives cause they're put up on that high of a pedestal.

 

[Poon King]

If a woman wants to be chased that much is she really worth it? At a certain point shes making you focus on her and not your career or your hobbies. These guys that chase these women and finally get them are the ones in marriage where they say that they basically "work" and teh rest of their free time is taken up by their wives cause they're put up on that high of a pedestal.

Agree.

Society has trained the beta man to offer women as much as possible to "win them over". The alpha mindset is to offer women as little as possible while spinning plates. Let the worthy women prove themselves before they can extract significant resources from you. This is the challenge all women crave.. to beat out other women for a top man.

Most men are too desperate and thirsty to go down this road.. hence the reason men who do it are so much more attractive. A thirsty beta is a dime a dozen. These faggots are everywhere. If you think chasing a woman hard makes you "stand out".. think again.

 

[JohnChops]

In your earlier post, you acknowledged being a 'newbie'. There is a ton of stuff here that you can read and learn from. So the DJ Bible is good, if long and sometimes disjointed. On the web, there are plenty of vendors that will relieve you of as much as your money as you're willing to part with on the subject of women and relationships.

Not that I think he's the be-all, end-all, I think that you should get Corey Wayne's book "How to Be a 3% Man" and read it a few times. I don't agree with some of what he writes, nobody likely does. But it's a cogent, focused piece on dating and relationships. It may help you to get grounded.

I like how he isn't all about just banging and throwing away women. I like how he advocated finding a good healthy relationship , if that is what you're looking for. Also, I like how he doesnt bull**** you with PUA tactics and tells you to improve yourself (like this forum). He's not bad at all. The book rambles on though, it's 240 pages or so.