Women project their self-hatred onto others - don't be the pawn she vents on

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Boyos, women are insecure as f/ck, especially in this era of Instgram and TikTok. They compare themselves to other women and measure their worth by how much male attention they get COMPARED to other women.

For example, we all know that a middle-age 300lbs whale can still get tons of attention from desperate SIMPs, but that's the caveat: the only attention they can get are from low-value SIMPs. The men of good looks, high net worth, and high social status are focusing their attention on Stacy.

And deep down, this triggers the insecurity in these women. They're frustrated that they can't look as good as Stacy. They see Stacy's gorgeous hair, hair slim face, her glowing smile, her firm thighs and thick (but shapely) booty and they KNOW deep down inside that they are a lower tier compared to Stacy.

This frustrates them. But their entitlement complex prevents them from accepting personal responsibility for their looks. And so they compensate by formulating these weird copes like "big is beautiful" or "it's toxic masculinity to expect women to look a certain way" even though they themselves covet the look that Stacy possesses.

Since their entitlement prevents them from accepting personal responsible and accountability, what do they do? Well, they project their self-hatred on to others, and it's usually the men in their immediate orbit. Because they know that these men (by virtual of being in their orbit) are low quality and therefore it's perfectly fine to mistreat and disrespect them.

NOTE: They sometimes project their hatred onto other women as well in the form of "fit shaming". For example, whenever a fit gorgeous mother posts pics of her workout on Instagram, these whales will start hating on her for "perpetuating unreasonable standards of beauty which (of course) feeds into toxic masculinity".... In what Twilight Zone universe is it unreasonable to expect women to be under 200lbs?

Boyos, it is necessary for your own peace of mind and mental health to avoid these toxic entitled women at all costs. They will just drag you down and use you as an emotional punching bag to vent their own self-hatred.

Aim high, only focus your attention on hot Stacy and Tiffany, because ironically, Stacy and Tiffany will probably treat you better than obese Bertha because Stacy and Tiffany aren't saddled with self-hate and insecurity.
 
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Good post but I'm curious as to where you found the term "Boyos"?
 

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Good post but I'm curious as to where you found the term "Boyos"?
"Buddy Boyos" was first popularized by the legendary Saint Hamudi - The Blackpill Messiah.... It has gone on to gain popularity in the Blackpill community as a way to pay homage to Hamudi ever since he got banned from youtube.

But most guys just say "boyos" for short.

Wherever Hamudi may be, I hope he is well. There was a certain level of charm in him, he was Blackpilled but generally seemed like a gentle soul.
 

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Oh, okay. I'm getting back on the scene and this is the first time I've heard "Blackpill". Not sure what that one is. Would you care to provide a link or explanation? Thank you.
 

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It's not a mistake if you're a high-value pre-selected guy. It's a buffet.
Sure you can get laid easy but the effects it has on society and the social issues it creates is not good. I know some guys want to ride the wave of decline but others actually care about what happens to our civilisation.

Society's current winners are all women, and the top 5% of men. Women are able to pursue their hypergamy, and have a reliable supply of betas-in-waiting for when she's done chasing the top c0ck. The top 5% of men, through social media, have access to the entire global marketplace of women.
How long will this last until the bottom 90% begin to rebel? You can't have a socuety function when most men are sexually frustrated
 

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"It is unreasonable and toxic to expect women to conform to unrealistic beauty standards... but we still only want guys that are 6'2" with a full head of hair, 6 figure salary with a lean swimmer body...."
 

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Oh, okay. I'm getting back on the scene and this is the first time I've heard "Blackpill". Not sure what that one is. Would you care to provide a link or explanation? Thank you.
It's people that have a negative almost hatred view of women that are on the extreme spectrum. They will of course claim otherwise but it's pretty obvious what their thoughts are once they start spouting them. Think of it like radical view of things like other radical groups.
 

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Women are never happy. It's not in their wiring to be happy. Women's unhappiness is what drives evolution forward.

If a woman gets what she wants, then she just moves the goal posts.

In this case, if a woman is banging millionaires on Insta, then she's uphappy that she's not banging billionaires. If she's banging billionaires then she's unhappy that she's not banging trillionaires. If she's banging trillionaires then she's unhappy that she's not banging God. And on and on it goes.

Just because women are unhappy getting pumped and dumped by Chads does not mean she wants commitment from Betas.
That's humans in general, not just women. It's amazing how many posters here spew this stuff as of it only applies to women but somehow men are immune to this type of stuff.
 

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The bottom 90+% are so cucked and BluePill that they will never rebel. It's like a cow rebelling against a farmer. It just won't happen.

Caring about civilization's decline is pointless. It's already over. I agree that it's a tragedy, but there's nothing we can do about it. People can't save themselves anymore and the level of bluepill brainwashing has penetrated too deep.

Try to tell a bluepill dude about the situation he's in and you'll see what I mean. It's pointless. Even guys on this forum, who should know better, can't accept it and cling to bluepill conditioning.
On their own they will not rebel , but usually civilizations crumble only for something better to come out of the ashes , and also that one after a point will crumble and another one will surface

it has been like this for milenias

it is nature way to weed out the unadapted

most likely the next update of people is that we will not have ugly people anymore , as they will not reproduce
 

Create self-fulfilling prophecies. Always assume the positive. Assume she likes you. Assume she wants to talk to you. Assume she wants to go out with you. When you think positive, positive things happen.

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Nope. Men mostly date down mating hierarchies. Women date across and up mating hierarchies. That's why Female CEO's can't find men, and they get pissed that the male CEO's are all marrying their receptionists.

No one is spewing anything. You just want to believe that Men and Women are the same. They are not the same, and I'm neutral about this. It's just reality.
Go read psychological studies and get back to me. Humans always want more than what they have and aren't satisfied in general. If they have a bike then they want a car. At first they might be happy with whatever car they can get. Then at some point they will see all the things their low end car can't do that other cars can and they want something better. Once they get a mid range car they will be happy with that for a while then will see all the things their car can't do that luxury cars can and will want a luxury car...you can extrapolate this out to pretty much every aspect of human existence. Houses, careers, relationships, etc...

Pretty much all of these studies done have come to the same conclusion.

There are plenty of difference between men and women but let's not act like there are more differences than similarities. That's just nonsense.
 

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On their own they will not rebel , but usually civilizations crumble only for something better to come out of the ashes , and also that one after a point will crumble and another one will surface

it has been like this for milenias

it is nature way to weed out the unadapted

most likely the next update of people is that we will not have ugly people anymore , as they will not reproduce
I think you're right. It will still take several generations to not see ugly people anymore as women must only be impregnated between 18-22 years old so eggs are fresh and healthy. I'm tempted to say men's sperm should be the same age range but I'm open to learning if guys in the manosphere are right about older sperm still being healthy and fresh. I should get that book sperm wars.
 

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The opposite is happening though. It's the dysgenic 3rd world that's breeding. The supposed civilized West aren't having kids anymore.

What's more likely is there will be 99% troglodytes being controlled by a cyberborg immortal superhuman elites.
hmmm, that's way beyond even your kids' lifetimes.

The genes typing these words will never see it. I forget what someone here quoted or referred to in the past year but only a tiny percentage of your actual dna identity is passed down by the great grandchild level.

I better look up these words you used to be sure I understood your post. Sometimes I just wing it thinking I know definitions by the context they were used in.


Appreciate your consistent views and sharing lay reports and such posts pan87, I'm so curious to see if there's a point in a man's life he doesn't seem to practice his dualistic mating strategy as much. Found it interesting you got bored? or whatever dissatisfied with the 8 women in 8 days thread. Sorry, I'm casually studying you and guys here on sosuave.
 

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In the sexual market place, a woman wants a man who is above her in value. This is because women love leadership, dominance and an alpha bringing his reality to her.

A man wants a woman who is submissive, feminine and nurturing. This is the complete opposite.

Come on man. This is very basic male/female polarity stuff.
I am not explicitly talking about the SMP. I am talking about humans in general. Yeah of course a woman wants that, but how you can express that as a man isn't necessarily dependant on being rich or better looking or higher status. Self confidence, assertiveness at the right time and in the right way and acting non needy and non desperate will take you a long way.
 

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welcome back! I was PPRF back in the day and we used to argue about setting boundaries. I am now completely and totally on your side on that one, my bad.
Thanks, bud. You're the first one to welcome me back. Appreciate it.
 

Create self-fulfilling prophecies. Always assume the positive. Assume she likes you. Assume she wants to talk to you. Assume she wants to go out with you. When you think positive, positive things happen.

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Women are super competitive and they hate each other. This is crucial step towards understanding women better.

There is no "sisterhood."
i think there is one depending on how you define a sisterhood.
It doesn’t mean that all girls love each other and team up in order to fight men.
There are some ideas that are threatening to all women so they collectively fight them.
If you sit in a room full with women and then you tell them that younger women are better than older women with kids, they will suddenly support each other when arguing with you but as soon as they go out of that room they are enemies.
 
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In the sexual market place, a woman wants a man who is above her in value. This is because women love leadership, dominance and an alpha bringing his reality to her.

A man wants a woman who is submissive, feminine and nurturing. This is the complete opposite.

Come on man. This is very basic male/female polarity stuff.
That's not even the same subject. Man you and your posts are so fvcking full of shyt.
 

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Women are never happy. It's not in their wiring to be happy. Women's unhappiness is what drives evolution forward.

If a woman gets what she wants, then she just moves the goal posts.

In this case, if a woman is banging millionaires on Insta, then she's uphappy that she's not banging billionaires. If she's banging billionaires then she's unhappy that she's not banging trillionaires. If she's banging trillionaires then she's unhappy that she's not banging God. And on and on it goes.

Just because women are unhappy getting pumped and dumped by Chads does not mean she wants commitment from Betas.
Correct this is one of the most important things to understand. When dealing with women it is only a matter of time till they start being bratty. They cant help themselves, unhappiness is in their DNA. Its like they have to activley look for what they are UNgrateful for.
 

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What I realized is that women with natural looks are less entitled and less bratty than compared to those that put effort to look good

Since most of the women are in the 5-6 range naturally , I think that it makes sense to not be secured , since they know that they are lying and try to cover their flaws all the time
 

Never try to read a woman's mind. It is a scary place. Ignore her confusing signals and mixed messages. Assume she is interested in you and act accordingly.

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