Women Love Sex

[BadBoy89]

This dating coach. Chase, slept with a lot of women, has an article that women love sex.

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Book Excerpts: Women Love Sex

There are a few key differences between a man who's confident and experienced with women and one who's neither confident nor experienced with women. One of those differences is the confident, experienced man's approach and demeanor: he knows how to act in a way that will most attract women to...

www.girlschase.com

“Women love sex. They love it. If it makes you uncomfortable to read that, or you think it isn’t true – good. That’s why I’m telling you. When they have a chance at intimacy with an attractive man who knows what he’s doing, it can be four or five times more pleasurable for them than it can ever be for a man. And just like men, women get horny and go through dry spells and get desperate for the release of relations and have one-night stands with people they aren’t all that into sometimes and allow themselves to be swept off their feet and taken off into a whirlwind romance that “just happens.”

A lot of guys don’t believe this. A lot of guys think things like, “Women don’t really like sex,” or, “Women have to really like a guy to sleep with him,” or, “Women won’t sleep with a guy until they know they’re in a relationship.” Or, they hold an even more insidious belief: “Yeah, women hook up fast with some guys, but I’m just not the kind of guy they do that with.”

Take all these beliefs and throw them in the garbage because, well, that’s where they belong.

Women are not the chaste virginal saints society often portrays them as. Women aren’t perfect models of restraint and virtue. Rather, they’re regular people just like men.

Women love sex. That's not a bad thing, like some men think if they've gone a long time without sex only to find that in fact women are having more sex than they imagined (as are other many other men). All it means is that a little tweaking is in order to bring your mentality more in line with the way of the world, and your behavior and action patterns too.

Before you know it, you're one of those guys women love sex with - a lot - as well.

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Thoughts?

 

[Solomon]

Water is wet and the sky is blue...the guy is right. Women love sex, and if she likes having sex with you, she will have sex a lot

 

[forcerecon01]

Women are sexual

 

[The Duke]

I've never experienced a woman that didn't enjoy sex. There have been several women I've ran across that were in dry spells. I just happened to be the right guy at the right time and place.

There is also a misconception out there that women don't enjoy p0rnstar style sex. Thats so far from the truth. I've never met one that didnt want to be a dirty sluht and act out fantasies seen in p0rn.

Inside of my long term relationships, it's always been her that wanted sex more than me over time. Most always wanted sex 2-3 times a week or more if they could.

If you aren't experiencing what the author has described, I'd say you aren't doing something right.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

One of the more obvious statements to start a thread on this board about of all time.

 

[Dr.Suave]

Only thing I would disagree is "women go through dry spells", that´s a bunch of rubbish. Women could have sex whenever they wanted it. Its maybe something more along the lines of "Women would rather not have sex in months (or years) than have sex with someone they consider beneath them".

On one hand some of you guys keep saying "The wall is a cope", "there is no wall", "the wall got softer, women always have options at any age, bla bla bla" On the other hand you claim "women go through dry spells". You cant have it both ways guys, pick a lane.

 

[Solomon]

Only thing I would disagree is "women go through dry spells", that´s a bunch of rubbish. Women could have sex whenever they wanted it. Its maybe something more along the lines of "Women would rather not have sex in months (or years) than have sex with someone they consider beneath them".

On one hand some of you guys keep saying "The wall is a cope", "there is no wall", "the wall got softer, women always have options at any age, bla bla bla" On the other hand you claim "women go through dry spells". You cant have it both ways guys, pick a lane.

I do think there are women who take breaks from sex, is it for years? i don't belive it. However some women might take a few months in between partners etc. I know sosuave wants to belive women are getting pounded 7 positions every day until Sunday, But there are some girls who are only sexually active when they have committed partner, or who take breaks from dating and men.

 

[Dr.Suave]

However some women might take a few months in between partners etc. I know sosuave wants to belive women are getting pounded 7 positions every day until Sunday, But there are some girls who are only sexually active when they have committed partner, or who take breaks from dating and men.

I agree with all of this. But:

I do think there are women who take breaks from sex

Yes, but its a voluntray break. I wouldnt call that a "dry spell" if its voluntary.

I know sosuave wants to belive women are getting pounded 7 positions every day until Sunday,

I believe they could, if they really wanted to.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

While we all know women love sfx. Others either have been brainwashed by the Disney Princess Blue-pill or they are incels. One of my incel friend told me; ‘a man has to trick a woman into sfx.’

 

[Solomon]

I've never experienced a woman that didn't enjoy sex. There have been several women I've ran across that were in dry spells. I just happened to be the right guy at the right time and place.

There is also a misconception out there that women don't enjoy p0rnstar style sex. Thats so far from the truth. I've never met one that didnt want to be a dirty sluht and act out fantasies seen in p0rn.

Inside of my long term relationships, it's always been her that wanted sex more than me over time. Most always wanted sex 2-3 times a week or more if they could.

If you aren't experiencing what the author has described, I'd say you aren't doing something right.

This correlates my experience, most women I have dealt with enjoy sex a lot. I'm not saying it's me but if a woman is attracted to you, this is a nonissue unless you're dealing with a prude, however, since I turned 40 this has turned nuts. I on average date women 28-40. I noticed in the last 10 years women are into some kinky sex, freaky sex etc. I can't remember the last time I got a BJ and a woman used her teeth by accident ha ha

 

[pipeman84]

I thought it was an already established fact on SS that Chase is full of sh!t.

women get horny and go through dry spells and get desperate for the release of relations and have one-night stands with people they aren’t all that into sometimes

That's porn fantasy ... women don't get into ONS because of how horny they are ... they do so because they're hoes and they're under the influence of drugs/alcohol.

I do believe that women love sex and in a relationship with the right guy they want it even more than the man, like Duke says above. But I think those cases are few and far between ... all I see and read about are dead bedrooms and sex out of pity/duty.

 

[Bokanovsky]

In other groundbreaking news: fat people like to eat.

 

[DJ Novice]

If a woman is truly into you then you should be able to get her to act out all your p*rn star fantasies over time.

If you can regularly make her come then she won’t be able to get enough of it.

I’ve got my current girlfriend into s*x toys. If you think size doesn’t matter, try using a toy on her that resembles a piece of horse anatomy. Be prepared to have your ego destroyed; I guarantee you won’t hear the noises she makes when you do the deed.

The caveat is some older women can lose their libido due to menopause

 

[Hamurabimbi]

I was a blue-pilled Disney-princess dork who believed women aren’t all that into sfx. The girl who took my V-card forever disabused me of this nonsense. She was very horny & loved sfx. To the point that she demanded I stop wearing underwear so she could have access whenever she wanted it.

 

[pipeman84]

I’ve got my current girlfriend into s*x toys. If you think size doesn’t matter, try using a toy on her that resembles a piece of horse anatomy. Be prepared to have your ego destroyed; I guarantee you won’t hear the noises she makes when you do the deed.

If she makes those noises with the toys, then what's your role? Aren't you superfluous in the bedroom? Aren't you stepping into cuck territory when you sit there watching your woman using a big black dildo? What if in the future she'll want a big black man so she can make even louder noises?

The idea of a woman using sex toys when she's with her boyfriend/husband just doesn't seem right to me. Do you use sex dolls while you're with her? Why not go a step further and bring a real life woman for a threesome? Where do you draw the line?

As I see it, if she's really in love with you, she'd have an orgasm just by thinking of you or you two having sexual talk/texting (which acts like foreplay).

 

[SW15]

Only thing I would disagree is "women go through dry spells", that´s a bunch of rubbish. Women could have sex whenever they wanted it. Its maybe something more along the lines of "Women would rather not have sex in months (or years) than have sex with someone they consider beneath them".

If a middle aged or younger woman (18-54) goes without sex for a while, it is by her own choice in most cases. She's unsatisfied with whatever options she has in her life at the moment.

On one hand some of you guys keep saying "The wall is a cope", "there is no wall", "the wall got softer, women always have options at any age, bla bla bla" On the other hand you claim "women go through dry spells". You cant have it both ways guys, pick a lane.

I'm in the camp of a softer wall. I think it is possible even with a softer wall for a woman to opt against having sex for a time.

Men not having sex is far more involuntary than voluntary. Women not having sex is more voluntary than involuntary up until age 55 or so.

After age 30 or so, women also tend to consider commitment more when they have sex.

Women are sexual

Women enjoy sex in most cases. This is a good article about female sex drive.

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Most of what I've dealt with are "Normal Sex Drive Women"

 

[BadBoy89]

I'm in the camp of a softer wall. I think it is possible even with a softer wall for a woman to opt against having sex for a time.

It depends in terms of what we are talking about with “the wall”. In terms of the normal, average guy;

In terms of sex, if a woman takes care of her body and looks decent, could go up to 55. Any man would do Jennifer Looez right now wouldn’t they?

In terms of commitment, the wall is around 35 I don’t think any man is looking to commit to anything higher than 38

Men not having sex is far more involuntary than voluntary.

Depends on age of women and her looks.

I’ve flatly rejected older woman and single moms who have almost straight up asked me for sex

Women not having sex is more voluntary than involuntary up until age 55 or so.

She would have to be really good looking over 40. I think women’s looks crash and burn after 38.

After age 30 or so, women also tend to consider commitment more when they have sex.

At 30, it’s almost commitment first and then sex for women.

 

[characternote]

they do. not that chase would know!!! just a fantasist/writer/marketeer

 

[SW15]

In terms of commitment, the wall is around 35 I don’t think any man is looking to commit to anything higher than 38

There is a huge market of men willing to commit to a woman 40+. The typical beta male 40+ will commit a 40+ woman in order to get sex.

@BeExcellent is an example of a woman who got commitments at 40+.

I’ve flatly rejected older woman and single moms who have almost straight up asked me for sex

You did. Those women who you flatly rejected found sex and likely found commitment rather quickly.

 

[Manure Spherian]

That's porn fantasy ... women don't get into ONS because of how horny they are ... they do so because they're hoes and they're under the influence of drugs/alcohol.

I don’t agree with this because of my own experiences. I had a one night stand with an Asian med-school student. She was not drunk or high.

Another woman I dated, a nice public-school teacher who was very kind and didn’t live recklessly, said on the third date, as we were making out, "OK, look, I haven't done it in awhile. I want you to **** me." No, that wasn't a one-night stand, but sex was had rather quickly (three dates in).

A four-month fling I had from online dating in the late aughts, a graduate of Villanova, and high-earning boss babe who worked in Manhattan, invited me to her house for a first "date". She was not stupid, had a home, and had a kid. She asked me during our first phone conversation for a d-ck pic. While I was at house for the date we were obviously getting hot for each other just talking and she said, "If you take your d-ck out, I'm gonna have to blow you." We had sex three times on our second date. Again, not a one-night stand, but sex happened quickly. And that was followed by four months of god knows how much screwing in such a timeframe.

A gym friend I had in the late aughts brought out three women separately on several occasions to take turns with us. They were never high or drunk and weren't stupid.

I've had other such experiences but this tells enough, I believe. I'm not an exception, nor was I a "chad" that had to fight women off. Many other men have experienced similar situations with ordinary women. I can only imagine how many some chads experience.