Thanks for posting this
@Gamisch.
As a true sub sexually, this is exactly how I feel.
The physical pleasure of it might be be okay, but that is secondary to how it makes a true sexually submissive girl feel emotionally. Which is "ick" and no thank you.
For me anyway, and apparently for the women you're with too Gamisch, or some.
I don't enjoy it, my hubs doesn't either for same reason, that's our dynamic as a sexually dom/sub couple.
For couples who don't have that dom/sub dynamic sexually, hey more power to ya if it turns you both on.