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I've heard that girls care most about looks in highschool and college. When do girls stop caring about this alltogether and start caring about ambition, success, etc? I know it happends sometime, but not sure when.. Maybe when they want to settle down? Maybe when they leave college and their "clique"? Maybe as college upperclassmen? what do you think...

PS: I'm not talking about club girls. Club girls are looks oriented. I'm talking about girls who are looking for a relationship.
 

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I think you're an idiot. No, wait.... Are you a man or lesbian? I thought only chicks worried about relationships.
 

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dap said:
I've heard that girls care most about looks in highschool and college. When .

you just said it yourself , when they are done with college. Depending on the circumstances on which she needs/realizes money is important is the day she will become to realize -- she needs a supporter. But in the end , Looks will still matter albiet less even in when shes looking for a husband. I bet some women f((k for looks into their late 20s, and only when begin to look for a husband they turn the tide.
 

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Can we ban threads that have anything related to looks?
It gets ridiculous after a while, and you guys shouldn't be posting here if you don't understand one of the most basic messages this site has to offer. Get over it!
 

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Thanks for the insight Monaco!

Anyway, I think that many women (the intelligent ones) stop focusing on the "looks" of guys before college is over. Although looks still bear some importance, these girls realize that they want someone who can support them.
 

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dap said:
Thanks for the insight Monaco!

Anyway, I think that many women (the intelligent ones) stop focusing on the "looks" of guys before college is over. Although looks still bear some importance, these girls realize that they want someone who can support them.

Can you shut it about looks?

If you think looks are important to them and want to make up for that by "supporting" them, you are in for a disasterous relationship.

The fact of the matter is that women fuk guys that take initiative, have confidence and attitude. They will do this if you are supporting them or not. The only thing that women come to "realize" is what is socially acceptable and what isn't. They don't decide that looks are less important.

If you want to sit at home waiting for your turn, then that is your business. But you better have a great marriage councilor to handle all of those what-if's you are going to have.
 

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Sean Cameron said:
Looks are by the most important thing. Evolution is stronger than personality quirks.
Being famous is much more important than looks game and personality when it comes to alluring the hottest babes.
It is obviously good to be a hunk have great PUA skills and an X-Factor type of personality, but the easiest way to fvck lots of hot babes is by doing something far better than most other dudes can.
Learn to sing like Elvis, play basketball like Michael Jordan or act like Clint Eastwood and you will be fvcking every pretty girl that is out there dude, no matter how you look or behave, become an all time great and the hot babes are yours. :yes:
 

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Sean Cameron said:
Status is part of a look when women look at guys.

Just because you didn't evolve a personality, that doesn't mean that rest of us didn't either. If you want to spend an extra 5 hours doing your make-up, that's fine by me.
 

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Guys, you can't be on this site and talk about women on a number system (HB7-HB10) and then complain when your looks matter to them. Of course looks matter. Don't be ridiculous.
 

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I think its fine if women judge on looks. I'm not bad looking. I just am trying to figure out how much it plays into the attraction equation, and how this changes as women get older.
 

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Well many of you not so attractive guys should already know that look do play an important role in attracting beautiful women. I mean really, how many HB10's do you see walkin around or dating unattractive guys? Not many I can tell ya that.

Physical Attraction is important for women as well as men. I know I wouldnt ever settle for a person i thought was unattractive. There are plenty of girls that have awesome personalities that are just unattractive human beings. And these girls are probably the ones that would make the best GF/wife or whatever. But again I already know I can attract some pretty hot girls.

I know im an attractive person because some pretty hot women have flat out told me "youre hot". So thats something I can be confident about. Looks arent everything for sure though.

Some of the hottest girls ive ever met have been the nicest most awesome people ever. But some of them are the scum of the earth because they act like theyre better than people because theyre beautiful.
 

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After a certain age height and body matter more to them then your actual face(granted your not hideous)...

But I doubt they ever stop caring unless they're very horny or desperate..

I've seen some downright "ew" looking dudes with nice chics but most of them were tall and/or in pretty good shape.

I think if you're short you're missing out on most women automatically since they'll write you off..
 

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What about the money factor? How many girls would go after a less attractive guy with money than a more attractive guy that drives a corolla?
 

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dap said:
When do girls stop caring about this alltogether and start caring about ambition, success, etc? I know it happends sometime,
I've been thought school, univeristy age, and now working age and have been asking that question ever since school!

IMHO, the answer is never, looks will always matter to women, in relative degrees. After all, how can they deceide in the first minute odd of meeting you if they are interested or not, if personality was the basis it would take hours?
 

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I like the looks threads because they illustrate a very important point:

The men of our day have turned in giant, gaping vaginas.

Why? Because worrying and OBSESSING (key word) about the way you LOOK is something that FEMALES do. They know that they need to look good to get a guy, so that's what they do!

There's nothing wrong with taking pride in your appearance, but when you obsess over it and focus ONLY on that, you are nothing more than a women with a penis.
 

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dap said:
I've heard that girls care most about looks in highschool and college. When do girls stop caring about this alltogether and start caring about ambition, success, etc? I know it happends sometime, but not sure when.. Maybe when they want to settle down? Maybe when they leave college and their "clique"? Maybe as college upperclassmen? what do you think...

PS: I'm not talking about club girls. Club girls are looks oriented. I'm talking about girls who are looking for a relationship.
When they hook up with men who stop caring about themselves. Complacency loves company.
 
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