Women helping me solidify why I hate women...

[SKOL Vikings]

Thanks for the responses and wisdom. No matter where I am in life, wisdom is always helpful.

Now I just have to scold my "buddies" for setting me up with a complete AW :box:

What's an AW?

 

[expos]

I'm told by one of my buddies in the gym that a girl was asking about me (said I was cute or some sh!t and asked who I was), so I'm like "okay, she's pretty hot. Maybe I'll actually try and see what happens." I talk to her two different nights. Second night (yesterday) I said we should grab drinks and got her number. Texted her after work today and got no response. Started skyping with my friend several hours later and decided to play a little game... Told my friend to text her and see if he gets a response. Within 2 minutes she texts him back asking who it is. L-O-f*cking-L. Apparently he said some dumb sh!t and they ended up having a brief convo. Bout 20 minutes later she actually texts me back. Hit her back asking what she's getting into tonight--no response. For f*cks sake... She had more interest in texting a completely random number than me.

Like 99% sure I'll see her in the gym next week. I can't stand this sh!t.

DELETE HER NUMBER. She is low interest. You can find someone better.

 

[DaddyLongShanks]

What's an AW?

Alpha witch?

Some women setup their entire persona in the man eating, teardown , demasculating, head shrinking space. This means everything she does is designed to get you down.

 

[Korrupt]

"I'm upset because a girl didn't text me back."

Stand in front of a mirror and repeat that 100 times. You too will begin to see how pathetic that sounds.

It's more of the lying/bullsh!tting, leading on, and attention wh0ring that "upsets" me.

 

[Obsidian]

I don't know that a woman necessarily qualifies as an attention wh0re just because she acts somewhat interested, and then backs off. There are other variables at play. For example, with some girls you have to create more rapport. Apparently you only talked to her once, and then got her number. Obviously, that works well on some girls. But for others, even if they find you attractive they might still want more rapport before dating you. (I'm not even a chick, yet I personally don't really like to go out with a stranger just because she's attractive.)

Another poster touched on the issue earlier, suggesting that "maybe she doesn't drink." That could be it. Or she might only date people of a certain religion. There could be any number of things.

All this girl did was indicate that she found you good-looking, and then when you actively asked for her number, she didn't reject you to your face. A true attention wh0re would be someone who actively flirted with you, or maybe who asked you out, and then flaked.

 

[Alvafe]

or you could notice she is trying to game you and see how you would react, also since you can talk with her in person I would not even bother to hit her up with a msg I would do the whole convo in person.

also if you are annoyed that easily that is ok you can learn to control it later, just never show it to her in person or when texting/talking with her act like it was nothing or even better you didn't even notice.

one good thing to learn too is drop the sniper act(all effort in a single target) and be more like a shotgun(just keep shoting in a wide area in hope to land something) that lazer poonking was talking about.

now if you really want to keep her hamster going, try to talk with other woman in the gym quick banter something quick to make then smile, in a time it don't get in the way during your training and hers, just enough to amke then willing to talk with you again

 

[Korrupt]

Honestly, I think what bothers me the absolute MOST about situations like these isn't the rejection, isn't the lying/bullsh!tting, isn't even the attention wh0ring... It's the fact that the reason for rejection/low interest is completely unknown to me. The "why" always bothers me. I'm someone who likes and wants to improve through experience, so not knowing what I f*cked up on, or what about me physically/mentally is f*cked up, bothers the hell out of me. If she'd have straight up said: "Sorry, I think you're ugly/stupid/lame/awkward/weird/creepy/etc..." I probably wouldn't have even made this topic. I don't like having to guess about where I f*cked up.

 

[jurry]

Dude you never even dated the chick you're way overthinking this. Why are you assuming you "f*cked up"? Not everyone will be attracted to you, everyone has their own thing going on, you have no idea whats going on with her.

Just move on to the next, if you are always worried about what you might be doing wrong you will come off as insecure and having low confidence, and it will be very stressful. Just relax and enjoy yourself.

 

[LMFAO]

Honestly, I think what bothers me the absolute MOST about situations like these isn't the rejection, isn't the lying/bullsh!tting, isn't even the attention wh0ring... It's the fact that the reason for rejection/low interest is completely unknown to me. The "why" always bothers me. I'm someone who likes and wants to improve through experience, so not knowing what I f*cked up on, or what about me physically/mentally is f*cked up, bothers the hell out of me. If she'd have straight up said: "Sorry, I think you're ugly/stupid/lame/awkward/weird/creepy/etc..." I probably wouldn't have even made this topic. I don't like having to guess about where I f*cked up.

Much of the time the woman doesn't know why herself. There are like little kids going to the new thing.

Calm down. I go through about 5 numbers a week and don't give a **** if one girl stops responding. You need to do the same.

 

[Obsidian]

I don't think you messed up at all. It sounds like you did everything well. You gave her a test, and she failed. You need to focus on what you really want, and to do things consistently with your own style. If your own style is to ask out beautiful strangers, then just keep it up and you will probably get one before long.

 

[Korrupt]

Sounds like just another attention seeking retard. Just completely ignore her at the gym. If she wants to do something she knows exactly what to do.

I expect her to reply back within 2-3 days with something like "Sorry <some BS excuse like she's been busy waxing her vagina>". Then agrees to the date then ends up flaking it. Try and see.

Wow man. Are you a wizard? I got outta the gym to see a text from her saying she had "been swamped with school" :crackup: Yeah, suuurrre :yes: I just deleted it without responding. Pretty sure she sent it just so it wouldn't be awkward in the gym tonight.

 

[Thechamp]

I hear ya bro. Wanting to pound a particular woman badly and not being able to can make you insane. Had a similar experience in college when this one particular girl gave me wood you could swing from. She was the sexiest creature I ever met. Huge tease too and would do everything physical but sex. I almost went insane. Eventually exploded on her (anger not c*m) and the relationship ended.

The lesson learned is to lose that laser focus and avoid putting any ONE woman on a pedestal. Getting some is not difficult at all if you flirt with ALL women you find attractive and you get out a lot. Little game is needed because women who are interested usually identify themselves by flirting back and being comfortable with touch.

Basically: If you can act like a "creep" and get away with it.. then she is usually DTF. Also, if you want fast lays you MUST make your sexual interest very clear very early. Otherwise you end up in beta, hoop-jumping, orbiter, provider faggot territory.

Women are good at identifying thirst in men and they get a sick pleasure out of making you wait, wait, wait.. if they sense any beta desperation. They also (often wrongfully) assume that your thirst is because you don't "get any" often enough instead of just being VERY attracted to THEM in particular. Most women don't understand the male sex drive. They also know that sex is their main playing card and if they are dealing with an EXTRA thirsty man.. then they have power in holding off because they can exploit his thirst for their own benefit. Which is why you must neutralize this power by having other options at all times. Therefore, the women chase you.

The only way to consistently get women to chase you (outside of fame and money) is to give them other women to compete with. :yes:

Lose the laser focus. You'll be better off.

Examples of making your sexual interest clear ?

 

[LMFAO]

Wow man. Are you a wizard? I got outta the gym to see a text from her saying she had "been swamped with school" :crackup: Yeah, suuurrre :yes: I just deleted it without responding. Pretty sure she sent it just so it wouldn't be awkward in the gym tonight.

Many women are entirely predictable, so yes easily predicted. It is true that she did it for selfish reasons. Move on.

 

[Love<3]

Nooooo... Plz don't hate us. We aren't all bad

 

[Poon King]

Examples of making your sexual interest clear ?

Trying to f*ck her for one. :crackup:

Flirting and touching very soon after meeting her (if not right away). For instance, if you are introduced to a new woman you never met before, you would immediately tell her she has a sexy name or nice lips or how she is in amazing shape.

Basically all the stuff beta loser b!tches are "afraid" to tell women because they think it comes off creepy or "rude". Who f*cking cares. Your d!ck won't suck itself. Make moves.

 

[mangotot]

Go and get some more numbers and delete this one from your phone book.

 

[Korrupt]

Many women are entirely predictable, so yes easily predicted. It is true that she did it for selfish reasons. Move on.

F*ckin' saw her in the gym tonight. Jesus... Had like four dudes I know talking to her while she was working out, then sat at the desk and talked for another hour. No wonder these chicks have such huge ego's. No man can satisfy an ego built that big. F*ck I need to move outta this area.

 

[Obsidian]

A lot of women seem to value attention more than romantic love. And they know that if they commit to just one guy, they will be sacrificing the attention of the other guys. That's one reason why many women come across as asexual. They value sex a little bit, but they value the attention more. I have known many good-looking women who were perpetually single.

The other alternative would be to sleep with many guys, without committing. Obviously, that can harm them in other ways.

 

[sharkbeat]

:crackup: :crackup:

This is pretty much why I always ignore and be a jerk to cute girls. I am being a Jerk™ not because that's game or alpha or whatnot, it's because they really deserve to be mentally slapped in the face repeatedly.

 

[Korrupt]

A lot of women seem to value attention more than romantic love. And they know that if they commit to just one guy, they will be sacrificing the attention of the other guys. That's one reason why many women come across as asexual. They value sex a little bit, but they value the attention more. I have known many good-looking women who were perpetually single.

The other alternative would be to sleep with many guys, without committing. Obviously, that can harm them in other ways.

I've actually noticed that a LOT of women--especially the very attractive--seem like they have no sex drive (and are single fooorrreeevvveeerrr, which is weird for a female). Your explanation makes a lot of sense as to why.