Women hating phase

[bobby87]

For some reason lately ive been going through a women hating phase. They literally all making me sick. All of the ones who ive came in contact with lately are all the same! All stupid girls. Even the girls with high grades are naturally just stupid!

When i see a beautiful girl nowadays, i dont think of trying to get to know her. Ill rather just cuss the sh1t out of her and let her know how stupid she is. I seriously dont know why.

Seriously i havent met a girl that is cool, since my last gf of about 6 months ago. Now she was cool. I aint got oneitis or anything, ive forgotten about her because some things are just not meant to be. But i definitly know she was a unique girl and she was exceptionally hot too..which is rare.

Has anyone gone through a phase like this? Shall i just take a break from being around girls so much? Man i dont know whats up with me. Ive just developed a strong hate for them over the last month or so. And when i watch TV and all these shows like Sex and the City and even Big Brother where there are these stupid ass bimbo girls.... i just get sick.

 

[Austizzle]

My girlfriend just broke up with me for another guy(she was cheating on me). So I too am currently in a women hating phase... Just spending time drinking and partying with my buddies. That does the trick!

 

[crowes22]

I don't think hating them is really wise. Takes too much effort. I know I've been burned, but really, considering my behavior, alot of it was my fault.

I know of a few good young girls. But here is the rub, these girls are not very attractive. Most of the real hot girls I've dealt w/ will make you miserable, if you let them. They want to be in control. This is where I blow it.

I wouldn't cuss them out/tell them they are dumb. If they annoy you that damn much just ignore them as best you can.

 

[wind20mph]

Originally posted by bobby87
For some reason lately ive been going through a women hating phase. They literally all making me sick. All of the ones who ive came in contact with lately are all the same! All stupid girls. Even the girls with high grades are naturally just stupid!

When i see a beautiful girl nowadays, i dont think of trying to get to know her. Ill rather just cuss the sh1t out of her and let her know how stupid she is. I seriously dont know why.

Seriously i havent met a girl that is cool, since my last gf of about 6 months ago. Now she was cool. I aint got oneitis or anything, ive forgotten about her because some things are just not meant to be. But i definitly know she was a unique girl and she was exceptionally hot too..which is rare.

Has anyone gone through a phase like this? Shall i just take a break from being around girls so much? Man i dont know whats up with me. Ive just developed a strong hate for them over the last month or so. And when i watch TV and all these shows like Sex and the City and even Big Brother where there are these stupid ass bimbo girls.... i just get sick.

Ewww! what happened to you guys?

Girls are lovely, cute and playful creatures. So what is the problem? You can't figure out girls?

Tell us what is your problem. We might want to help you figure that out.

wind20mph

 

[Ricky]

I have been going through the women hating phase too.

The fact is after this break up with the ex, I have lost alot of respect for women. Maybe they aren't all like that, but all the girls I've dated seem to be.

So what do I do to change the way I feel? Think of women as my play things! They are toys, not to be taken seriously. That will stop the hate.

What do you do when you get bored of your toy? You get another! What do you do when your toy breaks (girl acts flakey or dumps you), you get another.

Are you happy with one toy, there are toys of all shapes sizes and flavors out there.

And guess what, it's Christmas time out there. In one month after I finish studying for more boards I am going to open tons of presents. I'll play with em, **** em and get new ones.

 

[Schlep]

Recent events have me in this phase as well. They're pathetic and not worth the time and effort 90% of the people posting here put into them.

 

[skeeloo]

for some reason i think the woman hating faze is healthy.
the woman hating faze is good because by that time you truly learn how to live without women. you can see a hb10 and not even raise an eyelid. though afcs will think you are gay. not all guys go through this faze though.

 

[Visceral]

Reading post after post about attention wh0res, gold-diggers, braindead bimbos, feminazis, and b!tches galore, as well as all the effort on my part necessary to get good women, is certainly turning me off to women as a whole.

I've always been fairly indifferent to people in general but this stuff is bringing up that evil question: "Why bother? I don't want to run into these nightmares."

I want to say put all the stuff about bad women in a separate forum, accessible only to the upper levels who don't need to be here, because I can't help but think it's souring me on all womankind ... but then guys would continue to screw up with good women and screw themselves with bad ones.

 

[josekortez]

I agree with skeeloo that woman-hating is a healthy phase to be in. Why? Because you won't care about getting rejected at all when doing cold approaches, and there's more of a chance that they won't be able to get away with doing stupid s*** to you (i.e. they respect you more when you don't care about them).

As I stated in a previous post, I'm on some f*** a b**** s*** 24-7, but IMO it helps me to be a better Don Juan.

 

[JackPrescott]

This all sounds to me like a lot of sexual frustration. Basically, an attractive woman, and in most cases even a SEMI sexually attractive woman, as long as she has breasts, a vagina, and a somewhat pretty face can pretty much get men to give them attention, buy them dinners, drinks, ect, 7 days a week, twice on Sunday. They can have all the male friends they want, and have ZERO problems with the "LJBF" Bullcrap that heterosexual men despise. I personally know of about three, who arent "all that" but still have "poontang power" and are capable of having sex with guys anytime, and can have a steady boyfriend at the snap of their fingers, and I blame this all on the pathetic male to female ratio in this one horse town. They can afford to be picky, and promiscuous, because there are so many males to choose from. Reverse the situation, and these females find themselves out in the cold, if it were 6 females to one male, they would be competing for any guy that would bother glancing at them. And spending many nights alone, but with reality how it is, they basically land up with the guy they choose, who has the big checkbook.

 

[So Many Ways]

I agree with skeeloo, it's a natural phase that you go through as you go about your progression.

First you're a nice guy that thinks women are "sweet and spice and everything nice".

Then you get fu**ed over for the first, second, third time etc...

You realize that everything you've been taught about women is bullsh!t.

You then go through the women hating stage.

Then you realize that alot of your failures with women are almost entirely your own fault, which leads itself to a new perspecitive on things. You figure out that you have the power to change.

You figure out what it is that you actually like about women, which women have the qualities you are looking for and you avoid the ones that are toxic.

This leads to a more healthy, realistic view of women.



I think the women hating phase is natural and healthy, as long as you don't remain stuck in that phase permanently.

 

[NoMoreAFC]

i'm on that phase also buddy, i can be with a girl but my mind just isn't there anymore. sometimes i even think that is better to be alone. i think its normal.

 

[aftershock]

Better to hate women that hate yourself.

 

[Ricky]

This last girlfriend after a string of pretty good success sent me into a women hating phase?

Why? Because when my relationships broke down with the other girls, I didn't mind because either I dumped the girls, or was mutually ready to get out of them.

This last girlfriend was one that I seriously considered marrying. I still think she has great potential and we would have done great, if not for the long distance.

There was just enough doubt in her mind for her to change her mind about moving.

I got sad, pissed and just about every emotion from it.

But guess what happened that is good from this? I realized that I still had some need issues. I was thinking of women as the missing puzzle for a guy with a great career, health, family, etc.

I now realize I don't need a woman. A woman can only complement the happiness that my own body produces in my mind.

I'm still sad, and I still want her back. But I'm ready for new adventures.

Beyond that I"m focusing on me again. I never stopped actually. From high school on, it's been one great growth period.

I'll meet the one someday. And if I don't, it's OK. I love myself and my friends and family. That's all that matters.

There could be plenty of great women in my life, or the next one could be the one. I'm going to have fun with this process.

Screw stress. I work myself to the bone in every area of life. I'm not going to worry about women and dating. I'll talk to, seduce and date any that I'm interested in.

But worry about them or where a relationship is headed? Hell no that's a think of the past.

I understand if you hate. But be careful. Hate is toxic and turns you into a different person.

Value yourself, set standards. Don't let any women or her thoughts on you affect what you feel about yourself.

The only one that can reject you is yourself. It's been said many times on this board many different ways. But build yourself up. Never ever ever give up on yourself.

To close, if you haven't seen Jimmy Valvanos speech when he accepted an award at ESPN, watch it. He was dying of cancer at the time.

He has some beautiful thoughts about life on there.