Yea, it just ain't worth it. When I was having a discussion with my divorce lawyer as I was finally able to sign the papers to free me from the marital prison I was in. I asked him, so counselor, any sage advice for me? He said don't let this ruin any chance at love or getting married again. I said no chance, but I understand us men need to continue to sign stupid one ended contracts like this to keep you in business. I then asked, are you married? He said, no divorced. Recently? No, 20 years ago. Why haven't you married again? He responded, just have not found what I am looking for. Marriage is like playing the lottery. Everyone has a chance to play and should, but the chances that you will be successful is very slim. I then said, 53% - 76% of marriages fail according to stats, he agreed. I asked him, if I gave him a car with only about 25% of the lug-nuts tightened, would you drive the car off the lot? He smiled and said no, good chance I'll get hurt or die. Well, similar to divorce. He said, you made out fine... Yea, all the fees when to you and the health insurance. He said, if you stayed in just one more year, it would had been much worse. You are just lucky you timed it perfectly. Yea, perfectly I said... A perfect fvckin disaster and waste of time.
Gentlemen, have fun with women, entertain women if you wish, just don't marry or have kids with them. Unless you really want to feel used, alone and stuck in a prison. I do not know one man who is happily married. On father's day, this came up and since my entire family only has one surviving marriage (4 divorces, others died), I asked, tell me one person any of you know who's happily married? I didn't say love or not love their kids, I said happily married. I was given silence and then a funny answer... There has to be some. Sure, who?? No one gave an answer. No one. My mother retorted, so what's the answer, be miserable and alone? Well, be miserable and alone is better than miserable and married. At least if you are miserable and alone, you have room to go up and prosper. In marriage, you do not have this at all.
Hope the feminists are happy with their decisions.