Women Fvck Beliefs, Not Techniques

[DonJuanForever]

Well, whats up to the don juans, Natural PUA's, don juans in training, and AFC's of sosuave! I believe that no matter what level you are on, everybody will grab something out of this post.

So I have been posting here and there, trying to figure out why I succeed with women and why I fail. I've read D9's site, fast seduction, gunwitch, pook, sosuave DJ bible, etc., over an extended period of time. I have spent most time in the field, failing and getting the results I wanted, but I noticed that no matter what "technique" I used, there was this thing called, FLOW, that when it was on I would be a chick magnet, when off, well......you get the idea.

And I figured out how to turn it on and off!

The Bottom Line is, as one of those wrestlers would say, it all comes down to a strong inner belief. NOW HOLD ON!!

Because I know you're saying, you've heard that time and time again, and so have I. But it's funny, because even though it had been preached a lot, I had not changed my inner belief system. The inner belief is what brings forth REAL CONFIDENCE, and that FLOW that turns me into a chick magnet.

How do you get it? Well, it's a result of what you SEE innerly. The vision that you see on the inside will most times birth itself on the outside, like a self fulling propecy.

You must write some affirmations like, "I see myself being very attractive to every woman in the club," "I see myself bumping and grinding with every chick in the club," "I see myself having sex with beautiful women each week," and so on. Some guys don't need to do this, because they already believe and see this way! I would normally believe this way, then I would lose it at times, now I know how to get back to it.

This strong belief makes you carry a FLOW or GLOW, mainly called, SELF CONFIDENCE, this is what attracts women to you. Once you have that, the method does not matter, remember, it's not the method it's the man.

Peace.

 

[Friendly Otter]

It was funnier when you called it a "force" or force field surrounding you.

Trust the Force ... always....

DF, your point: self-confidence helps. I said it in two words, not twenty posts. But the important thing is: when are you going to tell us that your d1ck gets sucked so much more than what we So-Suave-reading losers experience? Since you talk about it in each of your repetitive threads, all on the same theme, I cannot wait.

And DF, where are there many pics you said you were going to post of women you claim to have fvcked?

 

[DonJuanForever]

When I look at this, guys honestly, I don't see this as nothing but a numbers game. The whole FLOW thing, I would approach women and get about 6-7 out of 10, not bad. But without the FLOW, I really would not succeed as much, mainly because a rejection would stop me, with the proper belief system, it wouldn't.

I am 22 now, I look back over my life and sometimes wish I could have done things differently. I wasted over 3 years of my life in college when I knew I loved sales and I should have been studying my craft. I am turning 23 in August, and I finally learned the strategies I needed to succeed in both my great sales companies, finally. My goal? To be retired before I turn 24! Impossible, nope. With my two sales positions, my service has a whole market, and I finally have the strategy that produces a lot of results, that will take me to a millionare status. Then, I am currently looking for information on investments like Real Estate or other types of investments to have more money, guys info. on that would be sweet.

Next, I move to California and pursue my passion in life. I will be 24 and a millionare, with some investments even on the map, and feeling pretty good.

I am saying this to tell you guys, I am 22 now, but I do feel that I could have gotten where I am a lot quicker. Guys, stop taking dating and women so seriously. Women are not bad people, if we get rejected, just understand there was a wrong type of communication happening, that's all. That same chick that rejected you, tomorrow, you probably be all over you, Aaliyah even wrote about that in her "Try Again" song. I don't know how old most of you are, but I feel that where I am now, I should have been at 19. Guys, take my advice, start TODAY thinking about WHAT YOU WANT, and research HOW TO GET IT. As far as women, just CHANGE YOUR BELIEFS. This will give you that FLOW, and THAT'S ALL YOU NEED TO INVEST IN, for women. You don't need to buy books on seduction, read any more articles, or nothing. Have fun be young, marry at 30, or in my case, about 7.5 years from now.

Guys, let's start chasing our passions, and investing all our energies there, we can do anything! As far as women, there's sooooooooooooo many women in the world, just BELIEVE YOU ARE A WINNER, because you are, and carry that flow around and just go talk with her and have sex with her....and HAVE FUN. Life is too short gentlemen. I wanna live until I am at least 80, retired at 24, and for the remaining 50 plus years, doing my passion in life, which is entertainment.

-Peace Don Juan Forever.

 

[DonJuanForever]

Friendly Other, don't start trolling. I made my point clear, in those 20 posts I was trying to find what it was. If you knew it all along, great, good for you, but I needed to know it. And I don't know how to upload pics on here, I want to do it for my myspace account I will create, maybe you can show me. But I posted that in the other post because I just wanted to see if you guys were in the field or on the computer all day, but it doesn't matter, you don't have to prove anything to me, and I don't have to prove anything to you. And plus Friendly Other, putting a woman's pic on here for the internet to see is kind of rude and stupid don't you think? Troll.

 

[Socialreject]

So what you are saying is that you needed those 20 posts to make things clear for YOURSELF?

Cause if not, i have to say i haven't heard anything 'new' in all of your 20 posts except different terms for what's pretty much common knowledge to anyone who's been here more than 3 month's and is the owner of a brain.

 

[DonJuanForever]

Social reject, you...of all people, wanna talk about somebody posting bullshyt? You've been here for 6 months over me, and all you've posted is shyt about is chicks staring you down, how you svck online, a 3 page field report about jack nothing, and more bitter bull shyt about what you dislike in women? Dude, are you fvcking kidding me? I have no other reason but to think you are a svck-azz keyboard jockey who does not ACTUALLY go out and do anything in the field.

For the record, I sarge, A LOT. When I come back here at night or the next morning, I post shyt to try and discover what's working for me and what's not. And the troll Friendly Other said I made 20 posts about it, I made about 4 or 5, and for the record, I talk to myself. I post it here, because maybe a guy who ACTUALLY GOES INTO THE FIELD, can relate to what I just said and give me some info on it. But you.........you just svck.

Oh and Social reject, from reading your post you seem to blame women for a lot of things and just to let you know: "Cursing women is easy, but accepting that you fvcked up takes balls to admit." Maybe if you focus on being more of a man and not a whining pvssy boy, maybe women would give you some azz. Stay off my threads.

 

[spam]

I totally understand where u r coming from DJF. Good post. I find that I'm successful when i think in ways similar to what u described. And vice versa. Its very important to be in control of your beliefs.

 

[T Money]

Well I thought it was a great post. It's a good mindset to get in that not a lot of people think about. When you say "I see myself..." it makes you think differently of yourself.

 

[Socialreject]

Ohnoes! DJ4eva totally exposed my KBJ azz and blew my DJ cover!!

Hey look man, i'm sry if you took what i said the wrong way and made it into something it's not. I'm just trying to figure out why you keep making these elaborate posts about trying to bring the poor deluded DJ's of SS to 'the light' and repeating stuff that's already been said. Why? Seriously why?

So you have a vision that you find works for you, you meet some girl and feed her what she wants to hear, you go home, bang her, that's it... great for you. And hey, i never said that "adapting your personality" to fit her 'glove' doesn't work. I'm pretty sure it does (why wouldn't it?). But that's your game dude, however you want to play it it's up to you. Just don't go around trying to preach it like the second coming or the 'truth' because it's nothing more than your preference.

What i keep reading in your posts is that it's all about chicks, how many you get and bang, and how it's the way to go. At the same time you make a post that while someone is still on this board they aren't really DJ's because it's still all about women.

On the other hand i keep trying to tell you, i don't give a rats ass if some chick doesn't dig my personality, it's mine to have and to hold and i'm pretty damn happy with it, further more there are ENOUGH women who DO like it, i'll just stick to those if you don't mind.

And then you go and diss me for writing bitter crap about women. So where did you read that man? Seriously, i'm not the one who made an elaborate post about feeling 'bored' and disillusioned with women, how love and romance are fake and chicks are nothing but sex toys... And then you say i'm bitter? No really, what happened and what's happening still is you misinterpreting my posts. If you feel that bad about them feel free not to read them at all.

But don't go flaming my azz with your ad hominem arguments just cause i don't understand where you're coming from and why you feel the need to rechew old information. If you need to lay it out to process it, that's just fine, but don't get all b!tchy when someone wonders about it...

You talk about being a man. Then realize that being a man is mostly about respect and the attitude your swinging my way right now doesn't really convey a lot of respect for ones fellow man. Looks more like an angry kid lashing out cause someone said something he didn't like. So you felt the need to shower me a bit because i said you weren't posting anything new? To bad, if you weren't so caught up in defending your case you might realize it's true. I never said you were talking shyt or talking out of your azz, i just said you were saying nothing new... so why say it?

Anyways, whatever man. You wanna flame my azz and call me a KBJ (whooo i care ;-) ), that's your decision, but it doesn't make you look very manly or mature, just punky. That's not the first impression i got from you at all and that's the only reason i bothered replying to you talking sh!t. Take it however you want to. That's how "me of all people" sees it.

 

[Duke]

Right on, man. In my opinion, inner game is by and large THE most important aspect of the game-- projecting a positive, accepting vibe about to others that reflects back on how you see yourself.

Strangely, WORKING OUT is a great way to build up this belief system. Not just from looking better, but from the constant accomplishment, influx of harmones, etc.

Also, check out the book Psycho Cybernetics for a total self-image repair.

There's a quote I like on ASF by a guy named Maxx:

"Once you no longer believe you're a piece of ****, PU becomes easy."

 

[V-Don]

Absolutely true in every sense.

Only you know yourself. Do what builds confidence for YOU! Its YOUR beliefs and not others. I work hard to look so, I can tell myself I look good.

 

[So Many Ways]

I'm starting to see that now, projecting a positive vibe helps in all aspects of life. I've had some really cool things happen this past week partially due to having a more positive mindstate and more solid inner game.

Also, if you hang out with friends that have the same mindstate, it makes a big difference.

I see where the OP is coming from with this post.

 

[Friendly Otter]

Friendly Other, don't start trolling. I made my point clear, in those 20 posts I was trying to find what it was.

Trolling? From what I see, you're doing the trolling. "Dudes, you all SVCK, why can't you be PLAYAZ like ME? I get laid all the time, hahaha, stop reading So Suave and the DJ Bible, that's just pathetic, it's all crap. I get my D1CK SVCKED by all the women you're trying to nail, because you're such losers. Shut up you asses, don't disagree with me, growl, growl. Let me tell you how many times I've gotten laid...."

Etc, etc, etc. Did I get the geist of it? Yes, and in only one post, too. Who's the troll?

By the way, you're thinking of flaming, not trolling. Trolling is what someone does who comes on a forum not believing in it, even while pretending to belong - like you do. Flaming is to write posts only to harrass, and could be done either by a troll, or by someone genuinely belonging to a forum. But I am not flaming, I'm simply repeating my objection to your *******ry, which I am entitled to since you are constantly repeating the same arrogant stuff again and again. Want my response to stop being repetitive, then stop being repetitive yourself. Stop making a new thread saying the same thing just because not everybody agreed with you in the last one.

 

[reyalp]

this is the reason why people have aneurysms.

 

[Chillisauce]

Self confidence rocks, the problem is when you base it on something that can change in a flash.. then its a house of cards.

 

[mrRuckus]

Anyways, whatever man. You wanna flame my azz and call me a KBJ (whooo i care ;-) ), that's your decision, but it doesn't make you look very manly or mature, just punky. .

For someone who doesn't care you sure act like you care a lot.

 

[Socialreject]

Your right Ruckus, i do care.

Maybe it's not my place to point out that these kind of topics are nothing but mastrubation that doesn't mean i have to put up with being flamed like a piece of crap though.

Anyways, i'm going to take the OP's advice now and stay off this thread...

 

[TxCowboy]

Well, whats up to the don juans, Natural PUA's, don juans in training, and AFC's of sosuave! I believe that no matter what level you are on, everybody will grab something out of this post.

So I have been posting here and there, trying to figure out why I succeed with women and why I fail. I've read D9's site, fast seduction, gunwitch, pook, sosuave DJ bible, etc., over an extended period of time. I have spent most time in the field, failing and getting the results I wanted, but I noticed that no matter what "technique" I used, there was this thing called, FLOW, that when it was on I would be a chick magnet, when off, well......you get the idea.

And I figured out how to turn it on and off!

The Bottom Line is, as one of those wrestlers would say, it all comes down to a strong inner belief. NOW HOLD ON!!

Because I know you're saying, you've heard that time and time again, and so have I. But it's funny, because even though it had been preached a lot, I had not changed my inner belief system. The inner belief is what brings forth REAL CONFIDENCE, and that FLOW that turns me into a chick magnet.

How do you get it? Well, it's a result of what you SEE innerly. The vision that you see on the inside will most times birth itself on the outside, like a self fulling propecy.

You must write some affirmations like, "I see myself being very attractive to every woman in the club," "I see myself bumping and grinding with every chick in the club," "I see myself having sex with beautiful women each week," and so on. Some guys don't need to do this, because they already believe and see this way! I would normally believe this way, then I would lose it at times, now I know how to get back to it.

This strong belief makes you carry a FLOW or GLOW, mainly called, SELF CONFIDENCE, this is what attracts women to you. Once you have that, the method does not matter, remember, it's not the method it's the man.

Peace.

Tack it on your wall and dont ever let someone make you think otherwise! This does indeed apply to all areas of life and not just girls (I.E. job interviews, meeting people in general, speeches, driving a vehicle, etc...)

 

[d9930380]

Bull****

It's not just about self confidence. If you've nothing to back it up with then it's just perceived as arrogance - not attractive.

Girls like confidence bordering on arrogance - not arrogance.

Also if you look like Pee Wee Herman, or have the personality of a news anchorman, you're ****ed either way.

No amount of confidence will help you then.

 

[DonJuanForever]

Okay, Social Reject first. Look bro, lol...sorry if I hurt your feelings, but you started it. The fact is Social, as I stated before, when I post I post to me, and I copy and paste it here to see if some guys might share the same experiences with me and can add to the post......thats it, lol...I don't get paid for this shyt so I damn sure don't wanna be a guru.

Social you attacked me first, saying that I haven't said anything new, as if it's my job to come on here and post THEORIES, I post EXPERIENCES, whether it's new or old, it's my experience. Hell if I posted a thread about how a girl got wet when I fingered her, it's not new, but it's my experience.

Social the difference between guys like me and guys like you, I believe, is that I come here and post experiences, you guys post theories after theories. A theory is nothing but a man's reasoning an explanation on a subject, it means nothing. Posting experience helps other guys lead to a better understanding and myself included, because those who actually go out and sarge can add to that experience. Lol, but Social, I don't have a problem with you I don't really even know you nor care to. It's just when you call me out I respond.

Friendly Other, wtf is this, "Dudes, you all SVCK, why can't you be PLAYAZ like ME? I get laid all the time, hahaha, stop reading So Suave and the DJ Bible, that's just pathetic, it's all crap. I get my D1CK SVCKED by all the women you're trying to nail, because you're such losers. Shut up you asses, don't disagree with me, growl, growl. Let me tell you how many times I've gotten laid...."

Lol, that's what I said? For real? Lol, lol, lol. It sounds like you have some type of jealous mind-set that I have no idea way you carry around, do you get laid my friend? I post threads to see if guys can relate to them and add to them. How the hell can I determine how BETTER I AM then everybody else, as if getting pvssy comes with a C.E.O. or C.F.O. title or stamp on it.

Getting laid is not some accomplishment, hell, it's natural! Everybody would get laid if they do a little three letter word....hold on....what's that word though....ummm,....oh I got it.....

TRY.

Finally, you two guys said that what I say has been said before? I know! Because getting laid is not some technology chemisty project that produces some new discovery each year! What your daddy did 20 years ago, still applies today.

And it's funny, you guys are pissed because my information has been said over and over....but you seem to not care about the AFCs on here asking the same dumb azz questions over and over and not going out and getting laid? Sounds a little keyboard jockeyish to me.......lol, "DonJuanForever, why don't you say something new?" You two are just little keyboard jockeys who log in everyday not to post your experiences, but to read another's guy's experience and "theory." Damn shame, turn your computer's off NOW!!