Women & Flaking

[DEEZEDBRAH]

She gave you your shot and you blew it. Not much else to say.

+1

I would add, a huge component of game is DON'T **** UP! I lost count on pulls resulted from some dork fumbling and doing the robbery. Telling a girl it's time to go and leading her back to my gingerbread house takes no time.

OP flaking isn't going to stop but you can better reduce the probability by handling logistics and #next modern women. You want stupid high interest level or don't want. If she's a fence sitter go get more girls. Discard based on a lack of compliance.

 

[BadBoy89]

Within 10 mins of her leaving she texts me

HB7: "come to XYZ"

Bingo - Cant , come to my place

HB7 - "it's too far can you pick me up"

Bingo- maybe we'll see, text me later

HB7 - ok deal

*I did ring HB7 at about 2am hoping to get a last min booty call , no answer*

I then today WhatsApp HB7 just saying " shame you left early last night "

HB7 reads the message and then ghosts me

I mean it's just baffling isn't it , i dont understand the thought process of

"guy i was interested in is making an effort with me i wanted to sleep with him last night but now i'm gonna ignore him"

You were assuming because she was turned on when texted you, she should have been turned by you the whole night. Should know by now, there is NOTHING consistent about women. A woman could want to sleep with you at 11:00 pm, and never want to talk to you again at 11:07 pm.

With women the best thing to do is to live in the moment.

 

[RangerMIke]

She gave you your shot and you blew it. Not much else to say.

True... all women have a window of opportunity you have to hit... some the windows are open wide and stays open long, some, like this one... you get a crack and it closes fast. The OP did nothing wrong... he was out with his friends... If he'd dropped them and gone chasing after this chick, there is no guarantee that anything would have happened. He could have just as likely tried to meet her someplace, gone to all the trouble to get there, only to discover "Awwww. I just left (sad face EMOJI)"

My advice would be wait a week, text her again and try to make a date... then see what happens.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

@DEEZEDBRAH hey I love this I just saw a tweet of Roissy said in his book.
50% of game is not fcking it up.
Or putting your foot in mouth haha

Essentially getting in your own way.

Described that peak with a girl. At which point you pull. No hesitation. The alternative lends itself to a **** outcome.

 

[Willie Naylor]

Bros before Hoes

...the battlecry of sexless men across America.

When I was single, me and my guy friends had an agreement in place. If one of them met a girl while we were out together, they would bounce.

No explanation necessary. None of us other guys felt abandoned by our friend.

It's just the game. Gots to strike while the iron's hot.

 

[Stuffnu]

It happens. There’s girls out there too that just want to get laid.
She found the void for carnal knowledge somewhere else.
I lost a number of opportunities to pound especially during my younger years due to bad timing or logistics.
Don’t waste any more time as her ghosting speaks volumes.
Get out there a slay the next one...

 

[Modern Man Advice]

She gave you your shot and you blew it. Not much else to say.

@Bingo-Player this. ^

I don't think she wanted to keep in touch or date. She wanted you right then and there. She wasn't interested in anything past it (perhaps she has a bf, visiting, etc, etc).

I think you missed your chance when:

HB7 - "it's too far can you pick me up"

Bingo- maybe we'll see, text me later

Unless you are doing something more important then that's cool but if on the other hand, you were trying to play hard to get she probably found someone else or was over it.

Remember, women are very moment-to-moment driven (fueled by how they feel in that exact moment). She felt it when she saw you, talked to you, and when she texted. The moment you played aloof (which is not bad) she went into another moment and that moment didn't include you. Simple.

The real question is, did you want to bang this girl? If so, then yes playing aloof via text is a risk you must understand with a girl that might have been looking for a ONS.

Last but not least, keep in mind its may be been a day since she read the text. May be she'll reply once she feels it again. But at this point, don't pursuit and do not double text. Let her come to you if she genuinely connected with you.

Carry on.


Modern Man Advice

 

[derby1]

...the battlecry of sexless men across America.

When I was single, me and my guy friends had an agreement in place. If one of them met a girl while we were out together, they would bounce.

No explanation necessary. None of us other guys felt abandoned by our friend.

It's just the game. Gots to strike while the iron's hot.

I dont submit to p*ssy, it happens when Im ready, she comes round my house, or it doesnt happen

Im too long in the tooth dealing with women and Ive got more battlewounds than you

also you need to employ a masculinity coach, with your constant use of feminine shaming language and lack of masculine honour

 

[Willie Naylor]

I dont submit to p*ssy, it happens when Im ready, she comes round my house, or it doesnt happen

Im too long in the tooth dealing with women and Ive got more battlewounds than you

also you need to employ a masculinity coach, with your constant use of feminine shaming language and lack of masculine honour

I'll get on that.

 

[derby1]

I'll get on that.

Ive noticed you mess with your profile picture more than some attention ***** messes with her Whatsapp picture.

Indecisive as well I see, another feminine trait

 

[Willie Naylor]

Ive noticed you mess with your profile picture more than some attention ***** messes with her Whatsapp picture.

Indecisive as well I see, another feminine trait

Okay.

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

Would say you could have escalated more quickly. Not necessarily a missed opportunity, just maybe played a bit too cool. She said pick me up, you said maybe later. Maybe she just got a more immediate certain offer. Maybe you yourself came off as disinterested. Would agree with you about not looking for or applying logic though. A woman's attraction levels will indeed fluctuate over the course of her cycle. Sure there's research out there about it. Particularly noticeable in relationships. Anyway, only seven. No great loss. Aim higher next time.

 

[Zimbabwe]

OP put Bros before Hoes

good lad.

His clearly not happy about being blue balled though

 

[Willie Naylor]

His clearly not happy about being blue balled though

Who is that in your avatar?

 

[Zimbabwe]

Who is that in your avatar?

George Costanza combined with Will Smith