Glassguy
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I only have one answer for that question- Be their best option.Well you're the top 5% then, and I'm not, so how do I get them to flake less?
I only have one answer for that question- Be their best option.Well you're the top 5% then, and I'm not, so how do I get them to flake less?
The way a woman treats someone that she has 40% interest in compared to someone she has 90% interest in is night and day.You can’t. You’re supposed to just eat that sh!t sandwich and other sh!t sandwiches that women get away with. And alot of guys give them a free pass and excuse their ****ty behavior, they’re the real simps in my opinion because they refuse to hold women accountable but demand men act a certain way towards bad behavior. It’s weird. You can’t stop a crappy person from being a crappy person.
I’m not arguing that’s how dating is, my argument is it’s still ****ty. Women crated the current dating market. The thing about flaking is you better make damn sure those perceived better options are solid because if they end up falling through, you’ll be left with no options. It’s like leaving your solid job for a better paying job, but oh wait, that better paying job ends up closing and laying you off in a year. Now you have no job.The way a woman treats someone that she has 40% interest in compared to someone she has 90% interest in is night and day.
If you are not her best option, you have a chance to get flaked on if something better comes along (even something to do with her friends and not necessarily another date).
I flaked on 3 different chicks this past weekend because better options/offers came along. I didnt even look for those better options. They came to me. Thats how dating works.
Can you blame them? Just because guys aren't in the top 10%, doesn't mean they don't have sexual needs.Women can do it if they are in the top 30% due to so many thirsty men who lower their standards to shower these women with attention.
Not doing it right kuz. Your career isn't what gets her wet. It's fallback for as the milk goes bad.What's going on? I've recently made big progress in my careers (full time job as well as my creative side hustle), but women keep flaking more and more, it's like it's impossible to get a simple coffee date nowadays. I know I have to start working out again, but even when I was at my fittest (and a little less successful than now, which was 2 years ago), it was the same. Now all of them just wanna chat chat chat but when it's time to meet up IRL, it's crickets. I've asked out a few girls recently after I established a good dialogue and positive energy, but after I do, it's either crickets or excuses (or they say let me know when you're around next time).
I flaked on 3 chicks this weekend (for better options).
So hopefully I made a small dent in balancing out the women/men flaking ratio bahahaha.
And guess what? 2 of the 3 women I flaked on have texted me non stop about when we can reschedule.
I wonder how many of you dudes do the same thing when a woman flakes on you?
Have you tried not burping after you introduce yourself?What's going on? I've recently made big progress in my careers (full time job as well as my creative side hustle), but women keep flaking more and more, it's like it's impossible to get a simple coffee date nowadays. I know I have to start working out again, but even when I was at my fittest (and a little less successful than now, which was 2 years ago), it was the same. Now all of them just wanna chat chat chat but when it's time to meet up IRL, it's crickets. I've asked out a few girls recently after I established a good dialogue and positive energy, but after I do, it's either crickets or excuses (or they say let me know when you're around next time).
I totally disagree.I’m not arguing that’s how dating is, my argument is it’s still ****ty. Women crated the current dating market. The thing about flaking is you better make damn sure those perceived better options are solid because if they end up falling through, you’ll be left with no options. It’s like leaving your solid job for a better paying job, but oh wait, that better paying job ends up closing and laying you off in a year. Now you have no job.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
If you're getting flaked on then it's something you're doing wrong that's causing the flakes. I rarely ever get flaked on. I get flaked on once a year at the most. I've done plenty of OLD too. Step your game up.What's going on? I've recently made big progress in my careers (full time job as well as my creative side hustle), but women keep flaking more and more, it's like it's impossible to get a simple coffee date nowadays. I know I have to start working out again, but even when I was at my fittest (and a little less successful than now, which was 2 years ago), it was the same. Now all of them just wanna chat chat chat but when it's time to meet up IRL, it's crickets. I've asked out a few girls recently after I established a good dialogue and positive energy, but after I do, it's either crickets or excuses (or they say let me know when you're around next time).
You got that abundance mindset. Modern day Robert munch.... stories for days. I'm biased on my perspective for pickup but the aftermath puts into perspective the value or lack thereof in women. The game is catch and release. If a fella acquires a unicorn in the process, let it ride. Don't hold your breath.I totally disagree.
I flaked on 3 chicks last weekend. 2 of the 3 have blown my phone up wanting to know when I can get free to get together. Correction- the other chick messaged me asking when I am free to "try again". So 3 for 3.
And honestly its all about abundance/options. The chicks I went out with and the chicks I flaked on arent the only chicks that are showing high interest in me.
It takes balls to flake on a chick, especially an attractive chick with higher value. Does it always work out this way? No. But this past weekend, for me, showed that 3/3 women will chase if I cancel the date.
Probably should get on that. I also have the exact opposite problem, girls I have no business going on dates with don't flake. I know PUA says for us to get a date asap, but I think that's horse shvt, you are probably too aggressive and needy.What's going on? I've recently made big progress in my careers (full time job as well as my creative side hustle), but women keep flaking more and more, it's like it's impossible to get a simple coffee date nowadays. I know I have to start working out again, but even when I was at my fittest (and a little less successful than now, which was 2 years ago), it was the same. Now all of them just wanna chat chat chat but when it's time to meet up IRL, it's crickets. I've asked out a few girls recently after I established a good dialogue and positive energy, but after I do, it's either crickets or excuses (or they say let me know when you're around next time).
Yep. It's good you asked for the number. If she doesn't want to give it out then next and move on. Otherwise might be talking for weeks.I'm going to use this thread to post a recent OLD convo that I had. I'm so used to **** like this happening, but it's still amazing.
Me: is that cute pupper yours?
Her: Sadly no it was my friends in X location
Me: Oh cool, I'm actually thinking of moving to X location, you'll have to tell me about it sometime
Her: We can do that over drinks
Me: Hahaha, that's bold of you. What's your number?
*Unmatches me*
In my experience, a lot of women completely shut down as soon as you try to set up firm plans. I've taken to asking 3 of them out on the same night, expecting 2 to flake.
the job thing..I’m not arguing that’s how dating is, my argument is it’s still ****ty. Women crated the current dating market. The thing about flaking is you better make damn sure those perceived better options are solid because if they end up falling through, you’ll be left with no options. It’s like leaving your solid job for a better paying job, but oh wait, that better paying job ends up closing and laying you off in a year. Now you have no job.
That guy is never going to have no options. People who have the right looks never seem to have problems. Right looks means more women like you, means preselection and social proof and less bs like flaking. Always notice what posters have a different reality with women compared to others?I’m not arguing that’s how dating is, my argument is it’s still ****ty. Women crated the current dating market. The thing about flaking is you better make damn sure those perceived better options are solid because if they end up falling through, you’ll be left with no options. It’s like leaving your solid job for a better paying job, but oh wait, that better paying job ends up closing and laying you off in a year. Now you have no job.
To be brutally honest, use your money and get plastic surgery on your face. Your face needs to be improved otherwise career or gym is a waste of time. The face has most of that attraction factor and everything else just complements it.What's going on? I've recently made big progress in my careers (full time job as well as my creative side hustle), but women keep flaking more and more, it's like it's impossible to get a simple coffee date nowadays. I know I have to start working out again, but even when I was at my fittest (and a little less successful than now, which was 2 years ago), it was the same. Now all of them just wanna chat chat chat but when it's time to meet up IRL, it's crickets. I've asked out a few girls recently after I established a good dialogue and positive energy, but after I do, it's either crickets or excuses (or they say let me know when you're around next time).
If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.
Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.
This will quickly drive all women away from you.
And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.