The theme of this article is from personal experience, not philosophy.
To gain a better understanding of women, we must establish a foundation. To begin with, sex remains unknown and undetermined UNTIL the introduction of hormones.
Some might say spirituall we are DECLARED to be 1 sex or the other at conception, but I want to throw this out there as purely REAL WORLD, and not theory or probability or philosophy. In a purely real sense, Testosterone or Estrogen makes a man or woman what they are.
As outlined by JVesti and books like "Heroes, Rogues, and Lovers," you can hormones carry the key to the future. It's almost like, genes have specific directives to carry out, and to bridge this gap between their sequencing and the results they desire, a chemical or action must be introduced to do so. Testosterone and Estrogen fit these actionary profiles.
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Hormones, as illicit as they are, are very, very powerful. They are monitored substances, only legally obtainable through Dr's prescription.
Women, built as they are, have little, to no capacity for logic. My intent is to RESPECT the substance of what women are, because, more often we DISRESPECT them by ASSUMING they are LIKE us. They are not. They are in fact the COMPLETE opposite (or expected to be) from guys.
Would men like it much if women said, "You're just like us, you SHOULD understand?" Do we men even believe we are 1% like women?
Hell no.
We like them, but we are not LIKE them. We are in almost no way like them. And what society has done is attempted to blur those lines. The warped intentions now of feminism is to have people believing we are all the same people, and just because we are humans, we are EQUAL. No.
We are entitled to EQUAL rights and opportunities, this however does not assume we are meant for him or as capable as one another. And to me, this is where we DISRESPECT basic elements of life.
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How often have you been in an argument with a girl, where no conclusion ever came of it? You were at each other's necks and you felt she wouldn't get you, and you wouldn't get her? That you weren't getting through and you were ready to just...pack it in?
We've all been there, and it's likely WHY most cames here, or continually COME here. I'm in fact guilty of poor communication and understanding many times. And though we enjoy the single life, or the PUA lifestyle, or whatever your fancy, STILL, when you find that one woman, it can't be "well fvck that, I'm done." When you committ, it's a constant give and take, the only thing you have to find is a girl who gives as equally as you.
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My case study on this is varied. As recently as my own father, who blasted his mother (grandmother) for not understanding each other to my own girl, and many of you also have your experiences.
I said the following to a girl...
"I'm tired of being on separate pages. Today, while golfing, I thought alot about our disagreements, how being at each other's throats only creates anomisty, bitterness, and anger. What are we together for if this is how things are? You tell me I don't understand you, that you don't get me, that we can't see each other's point of views. This is true, and will always be true. Men and women are entirely different creates. You, you're a woman, with banging tits and an even more banging azz. Me, I'm a guy. We're hairy, we beat our bodies, usually to save women like you. I think my way, you think your way. Neither way is wrong or right, they are how they are. When you say your female friends agree with your side of the issue, that's because they are FEMALE. Of course a woman would agree. Likewise, my guy friends agree with my side of the stories, because we are MEN. We have the same vision on things, on life, and can see from our male perspective. Again, neither is wrong or right, but we both must know that this exists and will never change. I don't mean we can't understand each other, or not communicate, but when you frustrated or think I don't care, it's likely I just see things different. Too easily we assume in life, in society, that men and women should see things the same, or otherwise one of us is crazy. Nuts. Not so, take for instance how many relationships are failing. Mostly due to lack of communication, all built on the assumption men and women are so alike in the brain, that we should easily agree. We can either understand together you're woman who sought me as a man, or go our separate ways. None of what we are will change. None of it. It is foolish to assume you will see things as I do, through my eyes, when we are 180 degree apart from each other. I am saying this because I won't deal with the fighting.
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I'd been up to my neck in sh!t with a girl I truly care for and found myself at a wall, until the answers smacked me right in the face. Fact is, society has us all so programmed to accept that men and women must see things alike, and if not, divorce, that we are careless with our communication. Too often we assume a woman's hyper emotional state must absorb our logic while women assume men should absorb their hyperemotional state into our logical self.
We say women are crazy for being emotional, for being sensitive, but isn't that why we like them to begin with? Many of the butch women we have, that cuss, and smoke, and booze til they drop come from this blurring of the lines and the fact we want women to be like men, and vice versa. We want us to SEE things alike. How boring is that?? A world of all sameness. BLAH.
It isn't that way. Women must be accepted AS IS. There's no changing a creature as emotional as a woman. None. See...
A woman only knows feelings. That's it. Everything she perceives in life is through that filter. "How she feels. How it makes her feel." When she's hurt, she wants to feel better. But she also doesn't want her feelings to be belittled, because that's all she is. Just as men are mostly viewed as logic, women are just feelings with a smattering of logic. When they're hurt, they won't seek to speak about WHY, they want their feelings validated. And this is where men go wrong...
Even I've done it.
The ISSUE you 2 are upset about might be wrong, BUT her feelings are never wrong to her, and telling her she's wrong only wrecks her world more, in which she views you as hero or a villain. Many times 2 people argue, and men go all logical on a woman, telling her his thoughts on WHY. Doesn't work, never will. We can't curse the essence of a woman anymore than we can curse our own essence, or that of nature itself. Water is what it is. Air is what it is. So is fire. And so are women. It's foolish to hate that which we inevitably love, just because we haven't paid much attention to learning about it.
To me, this is more an issue of RESPECT for the essence, being and nature of a woman than it is disrespect. The division of sexes was set about for unknown reasons. One of the known ones is survival. It was dangerous for the whole existence of 1 species to be built on only 1 sex.
We can't for the life of us know, truly know, what women think, feel, do, know or want, BUT, we can seek to understand communicate and level with them.
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This isn't an absolute, it's only 99.99% sure. A world is not perfect, nor are humans. However, the greater tendency is there to be LIKE THIS. Women cannot be condemned for their feelings, anymore than men can. It's not that it is right they do, anymore than what men do according to their own b.s. logic is right. However, we must grasp what the essence of each sex is to know how to deal with them.
A-Unit
To gain a better understanding of women, we must establish a foundation. To begin with, sex remains unknown and undetermined UNTIL the introduction of hormones.
Some might say spirituall we are DECLARED to be 1 sex or the other at conception, but I want to throw this out there as purely REAL WORLD, and not theory or probability or philosophy. In a purely real sense, Testosterone or Estrogen makes a man or woman what they are.
As outlined by JVesti and books like "Heroes, Rogues, and Lovers," you can hormones carry the key to the future. It's almost like, genes have specific directives to carry out, and to bridge this gap between their sequencing and the results they desire, a chemical or action must be introduced to do so. Testosterone and Estrogen fit these actionary profiles.
------------------------------------------
Hormones, as illicit as they are, are very, very powerful. They are monitored substances, only legally obtainable through Dr's prescription.
Women, built as they are, have little, to no capacity for logic. My intent is to RESPECT the substance of what women are, because, more often we DISRESPECT them by ASSUMING they are LIKE us. They are not. They are in fact the COMPLETE opposite (or expected to be) from guys.
Would men like it much if women said, "You're just like us, you SHOULD understand?" Do we men even believe we are 1% like women?
Hell no.
We like them, but we are not LIKE them. We are in almost no way like them. And what society has done is attempted to blur those lines. The warped intentions now of feminism is to have people believing we are all the same people, and just because we are humans, we are EQUAL. No.
We are entitled to EQUAL rights and opportunities, this however does not assume we are meant for him or as capable as one another. And to me, this is where we DISRESPECT basic elements of life.
----------------------------------------
How often have you been in an argument with a girl, where no conclusion ever came of it? You were at each other's necks and you felt she wouldn't get you, and you wouldn't get her? That you weren't getting through and you were ready to just...pack it in?
We've all been there, and it's likely WHY most cames here, or continually COME here. I'm in fact guilty of poor communication and understanding many times. And though we enjoy the single life, or the PUA lifestyle, or whatever your fancy, STILL, when you find that one woman, it can't be "well fvck that, I'm done." When you committ, it's a constant give and take, the only thing you have to find is a girl who gives as equally as you.
---------------------------------------
My case study on this is varied. As recently as my own father, who blasted his mother (grandmother) for not understanding each other to my own girl, and many of you also have your experiences.
I said the following to a girl...
"I'm tired of being on separate pages. Today, while golfing, I thought alot about our disagreements, how being at each other's throats only creates anomisty, bitterness, and anger. What are we together for if this is how things are? You tell me I don't understand you, that you don't get me, that we can't see each other's point of views. This is true, and will always be true. Men and women are entirely different creates. You, you're a woman, with banging tits and an even more banging azz. Me, I'm a guy. We're hairy, we beat our bodies, usually to save women like you. I think my way, you think your way. Neither way is wrong or right, they are how they are. When you say your female friends agree with your side of the issue, that's because they are FEMALE. Of course a woman would agree. Likewise, my guy friends agree with my side of the stories, because we are MEN. We have the same vision on things, on life, and can see from our male perspective. Again, neither is wrong or right, but we both must know that this exists and will never change. I don't mean we can't understand each other, or not communicate, but when you frustrated or think I don't care, it's likely I just see things different. Too easily we assume in life, in society, that men and women should see things the same, or otherwise one of us is crazy. Nuts. Not so, take for instance how many relationships are failing. Mostly due to lack of communication, all built on the assumption men and women are so alike in the brain, that we should easily agree. We can either understand together you're woman who sought me as a man, or go our separate ways. None of what we are will change. None of it. It is foolish to assume you will see things as I do, through my eyes, when we are 180 degree apart from each other. I am saying this because I won't deal with the fighting.
----------------------------------------
I'd been up to my neck in sh!t with a girl I truly care for and found myself at a wall, until the answers smacked me right in the face. Fact is, society has us all so programmed to accept that men and women must see things alike, and if not, divorce, that we are careless with our communication. Too often we assume a woman's hyper emotional state must absorb our logic while women assume men should absorb their hyperemotional state into our logical self.
We say women are crazy for being emotional, for being sensitive, but isn't that why we like them to begin with? Many of the butch women we have, that cuss, and smoke, and booze til they drop come from this blurring of the lines and the fact we want women to be like men, and vice versa. We want us to SEE things alike. How boring is that?? A world of all sameness. BLAH.
It isn't that way. Women must be accepted AS IS. There's no changing a creature as emotional as a woman. None. See...
A woman only knows feelings. That's it. Everything she perceives in life is through that filter. "How she feels. How it makes her feel." When she's hurt, she wants to feel better. But she also doesn't want her feelings to be belittled, because that's all she is. Just as men are mostly viewed as logic, women are just feelings with a smattering of logic. When they're hurt, they won't seek to speak about WHY, they want their feelings validated. And this is where men go wrong...
Even I've done it.
The ISSUE you 2 are upset about might be wrong, BUT her feelings are never wrong to her, and telling her she's wrong only wrecks her world more, in which she views you as hero or a villain. Many times 2 people argue, and men go all logical on a woman, telling her his thoughts on WHY. Doesn't work, never will. We can't curse the essence of a woman anymore than we can curse our own essence, or that of nature itself. Water is what it is. Air is what it is. So is fire. And so are women. It's foolish to hate that which we inevitably love, just because we haven't paid much attention to learning about it.
To me, this is more an issue of RESPECT for the essence, being and nature of a woman than it is disrespect. The division of sexes was set about for unknown reasons. One of the known ones is survival. It was dangerous for the whole existence of 1 species to be built on only 1 sex.
We can't for the life of us know, truly know, what women think, feel, do, know or want, BUT, we can seek to understand communicate and level with them.
----------------------------------------
This isn't an absolute, it's only 99.99% sure. A world is not perfect, nor are humans. However, the greater tendency is there to be LIKE THIS. Women cannot be condemned for their feelings, anymore than men can. It's not that it is right they do, anymore than what men do according to their own b.s. logic is right. However, we must grasp what the essence of each sex is to know how to deal with them.
A-Unit
