women don't want jerks, they want winners

[Player_Supreme]

This post should be renamed...

Women want jerks but they need winners!

It was not my intention to degrade this wonderful idea or post...I just don't like to see men or boys mistake the jerk for the ass*hole.

Like I said women would call me a jerk because I am untaimable...I don't put them on a pedistal and worship at their feet...I don't take shyt from them...I'm quick to dump them if they act up...I stand for what I bielieve in and don't take crap from anybody.

In the past these were not the qualities that was preached about being a "man". Like I said above it's funny how the tides are changing.

You fellas might pick up the book "how to be the jerk that women love" you will learn alot about the psychology of women.

 

[learningdaily]

honestly player . . .

I have no idea what book your talking about that I'm regurgitating. I'm just expressing my opinion based on personal experience. Maybe I'm wrong, maybe I'm right, I'm just trying to have a discussion (hence the name "Discussion Forum").

 

[Player_Supreme]

Ok. Cool!

 

[jbbrain]

player, insofar as i know, not taking shyt from women ALWAYS was a subset of being a man!

 

[SeldomSeen]

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Women want a little bit of everything! What we all fail to realize is that what we all want is a little bit of DOUBT! Without DOUBT its really hard to appreciate what you have and you tend to take what you have for granted. Doubt is what makes your heart race when you aren't sure of what your lover/GF/date is thinking. Repeat this to yourself: Without any DOUBT involved there is that feeling that no matter what that person will always be there for you and if you have that in mind they you will slowly lose respect for what you have. Doubt Ignites Passion! Passion is one of the cornerstones to seduction. It is not rocket science but basic human psychology. I will tell you about a situation years ago when I was dating a girl and she was pretty much using my emotions as a stepping stone because I let her. Instead of spending time with me on the weekends she would go out with her friends to the club and I would hear reports of guys humping and grinding her on the dance floor to which she didn't mind. When I would bring it up she would curse me and I would get quiet and say I'm sorry. Can you believe what a chump I was in this situation? And the reason I was such a chump was because she was igniting that passion in me for her by being nice one day and then mean, and uncaring the next. Then one day my friend told me to "dump that bi***" and watch what happens. And I said why and he said because eventually she is going to dump your a$$ for someone with more balls. He said trust me on this just do it. Normally I wouldnt have but he was a true player who had his way with women. So........

.....usually I call her unless she wants something she will call me but usually it was me calling her supplicating. I didnt call her for two days and finally that Friday she called me and said "you cant call nobody? " and I simply replied "I'm on my way out the door, let me get back with you" and she laughed and said no I dont think so and I laughed right back and said "you're right I wont get back with you because I think you're straight up wack...I've got a date tonight (I really didnt) so I hasta lavista baby!!" and I hung up. Dont you know my phone blew up like a call center for days and finally I had a girl spend the night and answer my phone that next morning to add insult to injury and my ex was like "who the fu** is this!" and I took the phone and said "hey dont call here no more " in a very calm voice and hung up. I could go on about that story - for months she tried to coerce me back and one day I did sleep with her and got up and left right after that ..hahahahha Doubt = passion. YOu want what you cant have but you go crazy over what you have and is no longer yours!!!

 

[Juan_Man]

Being a "winner" (however you choose to define the word: money, fame, etc.) is not enough. If you are boring, predictable, or don't create any sparks with the girl, then you will get played. Every girl will say they want a successful partner (who doesn't?). But we all know that there is a difference between what a girl says they want and what they actually respond to. If you think that being a success is enough, then you are sadly mistaken.

 

[Stackthestyles]

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