Dude, your total lack of male/female relationships, axctual understanding of what goes on between Men and Women, and actual survival outside of your parent's shelter leads to your oversimplifying and justification of your life.
I don't like being negative, or coming down hard on others...but Goddamn, man..get a grip.
Get a LIFE.
Women want Men who have lived, because these Men know how to MAKE A LIFE.
They know how to survive. They know how to run a household. They know how to go outside and get a job, get things done!
Men who have lived are tyopically men who have ambition, man.
A man with no ambiton is as good as dead.
In addition, a man who has "lived" is a man with interests, and passions, he has life within him , in that he has Vitality. A lust for life. That is very sexyy to women. You will have many interesting life stories. You have a very cosmopolitan view of peopl and life. You have experience with women!
Women want to know you can provide them with:
FUN!
GREAT CONVERSATION!
A FLIRTATIOUS, SEXY ATTITUDE!
MAKE HER FEEL POWERFUL EMOTIONS!
ECITEMENT!
DRAMA!
DARING ESCAPADES!
EXCITING INTERESTING LIFE STORIES and OBSERVATIONS!
SEXUALITY and SENSUALITY!
A GOOD TIME OUTSIDE OF THE HOME!
A GOOD TIME INSIDE THE HOME!
EMOTIONAL STABILITY!
EMOTIONAL SUPPORT!
FINANCIAL STABILITY!
EMOTIONAL and PHYSICAL INTIMACY!
basically, all the stuff in romance novels, is what women are craving among other things like :don't fart in bed. Make sure you fix things aorund the house when they're broken. Do what you said you were going to do, don't be lazy or procrasinate. "Did you call the plumber?" etc etc...Yes, the more day to day, mundane stuff women want to know they can count on you for these things too.
Now tell ,e. how the fvck is a guy going to do that, have THAT much VALUE as an attractive, sexual and Masculine MAN without "having lived life"???!!
Bro, do you even know how to Date a girl? Do you even know where to take her? How to have fun?
Can you make a woman feel desireable genuinely? Can you excite her? Do you know just HOW to touch a woman? Can you make her orgasm? Repeatedly?
The idea of having a life is mainly two things:
You have a career, gainful employment, andare also on the path to soemthing else that is great and lucrative foryou.
two, you have experienmce socially! You're not a social dork who is a fraid of people! This means you understand women, and can satisfy women's emotional and physical needs. If you have lived life, this usually menas you are Sociallly WELL ADJUSTED.
You have conversation skills, people skills, you know how to make friends, and understand social dynamics. You don't act weird or dorky or inappropriate.
Good conversaion skills, good body language, good people skills, good communication skills (verbal, non verbal, body language, and INTIMACY) are huge turn ons to women.
In addition, Men that have lived and PROVIDE STORIES of their Lives, and LEAD INTERESTING LIVES, are not only sexy to women, but this background gives her the unconscious Nod to succumb to their desires for you. Why?
Well, becaue if you are socialy well adjusted , chances are you have experience with people. If you have experience with people, chances are you also have experience with women.
and if you have experience with women, chsnces are that you know how to satisfy them emotionally and sexually. And if you have satisfied them sexually, and emotionally, chances are that you are not a psycho killer, and are mentally stable.
This is one of the key points in Social Proof.
Being popular, and easy to get along with socially, helps give you the "featherin your cap" with her. This makes you more desireable. Because you are apt to be a go getter, with some spark for LIFE.
There's a reason the notion of Wallflowers not getting any is true.
Women are not going to be SEXUALLY COMFORTABLE with men who cannot even hold a conversation with a woman. How do you expect a woman to be sexually attracted to a guy that may give off "weirdop, creepy, stalker, psycho" vibes?
She's not.
You eject yourself out of the race when you do the wallflower thing, guys.
Why?
Because of women's INHERENT FEAR OF MEN.
If you're not soically savvy, chances are, you are perhaps on the fringes of society.
Pretty sexy , huh?
Nope, it's not. Just messing with you.
It's not sexy at all.
Women have a hard time with men "who don't talk" and "who don't smile". They usually assume the worst. That you're some horrible potential rapist, and for sure are extremely uncomfortable with women, and your ownsexuality, andyour own sexual desires. No expression of sexuality, menas ASEXUAL. No woman wants to be fvcked by an ASEXUAL Man with issues".
When you give her NO CUES, she DOES NOT TAKE THE CHANCE.
Social Proof gives her the "CUES" that you are OK as a human being, and have POTENTIAL as a Sexual Partner, and potential Boyfrined/Husband.
Comprende, amigo?
Women are drawn to men who are adept socially, because they are apt ot be more savvy about women and their quirks, psychology, and their drama.
If you know how to handle yourself socially, chances are that the women's drama will not tear you apart. Chances are also, that you will usually be an interesting partner with whom she might not get BORED WITH.
get it?
OK. I'm done.
Look, I don't want to come down on anybody. but, please, don't act all high and mighty and try to, as I paraphrase Rollo Tomasi's view: "make -failings- by any other name, a VIRTUE."
At the end of the day, if you;re ciontent and satisfied with just staying inside for the rest of yiour life, that;s fine.
No one has the right to judge you.
But, you cannot be that arroogantly selfish and clueless to expect that a woman is going to fall for some boring, dull, hermit!
It's crazy. I see thi sall the time.
Males who believe they deserve high class HB10s, but they just want to sit at home, eat pizza, get fat, are lazy,and play Xbox at home.
