Women don't approach
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So you got approached a few times and have seen it happen. Yes it does happen, noone is saying it NEVER happens.
It doesn't disprove the important concept (which I really don't think is an excuse, because it's a fact).
There are of courses times when chicks will approach. For example if they are drunk, desperate, attention wh0res or even if they see you as below their level and so are not intimidated by you. A lot of the time they have an agenda, e.g. they just got dumped by their BF and want an ego boost/show you off to him, need a date for an important event, they need someone to use as social proof to get another guy etc...
But if you sit around waiting for it to happen you are a fvcking chick yourself. That's what they do, they make eye contact and flirt to get a guy to make a move on them.
The guy on the other hand sees what he wants and goes after it. Think how much more chicks are available to you if YOU are picking, not waiting around to be picked. Now understand why chicks get so frustrated - they don't have this option. They can only choose form what makes themselves available to them. So make sure you DO!
Put it like this. You know how an AFC really likes a girl and looks at her all the time but has no guts to talk to her? Or if he talks to her he has no guts to ask her out? That is how chicks act too, they don't make the first move.
That's just the way it is, get used to it.
It doesn't disprove the important concept (which I really don't think is an excuse, because it's a fact).
There are of courses times when chicks will approach. For example if they are drunk, desperate, attention wh0res or even if they see you as below their level and so are not intimidated by you. A lot of the time they have an agenda, e.g. they just got dumped by their BF and want an ego boost/show you off to him, need a date for an important event, they need someone to use as social proof to get another guy etc...
But if you sit around waiting for it to happen you are a fvcking chick yourself. That's what they do, they make eye contact and flirt to get a guy to make a move on them.
The guy on the other hand sees what he wants and goes after it. Think how much more chicks are available to you if YOU are picking, not waiting around to be picked. Now understand why chicks get so frustrated - they don't have this option. They can only choose form what makes themselves available to them. So make sure you DO!
Put it like this. You know how an AFC really likes a girl and looks at her all the time but has no guts to talk to her? Or if he talks to her he has no guts to ask her out? That is how chicks act too, they don't make the first move.
That's just the way it is, get used to it.
Bonhomme
Master Don Juan
Looks, style, and attitude
Yes, women approach men, but most women don't. I largely agree with JJ's post above, except for the analysis of why women approach men. Some women just like to go after what they want.
I get approached most often when I'm dressed really sharp and obviously having a good time. The style provides them with an instant opener.
It has to do with appearance and perceived approachability. If you're mingling with lots of people and enjoying their company, a woman will obviously see little risk of rejection, and will be more likely to approach you.
But don't depend upon it.
Yes, women approach men, but most women don't. I largely agree with JJ's post above, except for the analysis of why women approach men. Some women just like to go after what they want.
I get approached most often when I'm dressed really sharp and obviously having a good time. The style provides them with an instant opener.
It has to do with appearance and perceived approachability. If you're mingling with lots of people and enjoying their company, a woman will obviously see little risk of rejection, and will be more likely to approach you.
But don't depend upon it.
_Machiavelli_
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I'm not very attractive either, in fact opinions about me change from girl to girl, there are the ones who find me attractive and eventually demonstrate that and the ones who dont. I'ts false that women don't approach guys, they are used to us giving the 1st step... and sometimes they mask their intentions, like the do u have time approach, 2 hot girls have approached me like this, and they had a clock, so go figure 
vdk
Don Juan
if you havnt noticed, in the animal kingdom 99% of the time its the male that gets off his ass and initiates the mating ritual with the females. Why should humans be different? Stop reading this, get off your fat lazy ass and go pickup some women!!!!!!
