Women are so self obsessed

[CaptFinnBad]

So was just talking to a client.

Asked how her weekend was, woe is me. She's spent a couple our tidying her house, the weekend was so hard e.t.c.

Thought I'd add to the conversation you know in the back and forth, mine was difficult too. I cut through a main gas pipe in the street with a shovel whilst doing some DIY.

Having to deal with the gas emergency teams. Them doing safety checks everyone's house e.t.c.


She literally acknowledged it for about two seconds. "That's unfortunate", then straight too "weeding is so hard here" then goes into the ins and outs of hard her life is having to pull out a couple weeds in a concreted driveway.

That's how she could relate to my story.

It was was funny.

 

[CaptFinnBad]

Next client. Her mother was in the house. Just visiting and helping hy client move house.


I get on with her mother (not that I've known her long), she's an old school down to earth Irish women.

She was telling me how she's flown over from Ireland, hasn't seen her daughter in a year. She's been here for two weeks. Has organised and carried out her daughter's move practically on her own.

Her daughter hasn't even considered taking any time off work and has been working the whole time.
Also when her daughter gets home from work, everynight she complains how hard her day has been, is too tired to do anything regarding the move, eats, stays up for about an hour/playing with the dogs age goes to bed.

Hahaha

 

[bat soup]

So was just talking to a client.

Asked how her weekend was, woe is me. She's spent a couple our tidying her house, the weekend was so hard e.t.c.

Thought I'd add to the conversation you know in the back and forth, mine was difficult too. I cut through a main gas pipe in the street with a shovel whilst doing some DIY.

Having to deal with the gas emergency teams. Them doing safety checks everyone's house e.t.c.


She literally acknowledged it for about too seconds. "That's unfortunate", then straight too "weeding is so hard here" then goes into the ins and outs of hard her life is having to pull out a couple weeds in a concreted driveway.

That's how she could relate to my story.

It was was funny.

I think I know this girl. Was her name Karla?

 

[CaptFinnBad]

I think I know this girl. Was her name Karla?

Her name does start with a "K" confidentiality.

 

[The Duke]

Its better to listen to all of their drivel, than have them all up in yours. I'd rather they not know every detail, the how, when, and the why I do what I do.

But yes, most are self absorbed. Long term relationships always end up focused on them and all of their perceived problems. Women solve their problems by talking. They don't actually have to solve anything, just talk about it. Makes little sense to a man but that's how it works.

Most dates I go on the woman talks about herself 60-70% of the time. I laugh when they say, I feel like I've told you everything and I know so little about you! LMAO.

 

[tksniper]

A lot of men allow women to get away with being self absorbed. Have you guys been out and about lately? Most guys walk around like a bunch of valueless zombies/NPCs . Like maybe 1 out of every 20 guys look like he’s got an ounce of value. Meanwhile just about every borderline cute woman walks around like she’s the main character.

 

[RazorRambo24]

Irony. Guy who makes a generalized "women are so" statement, just to make a post sounding like a woman when they generalize sht about men..

Its just small talk bud. Shes making small talk.

Its dense dudes like you who work a job where you find yourself alone with women in their homes, but probably have not smashed a single one of them in however long you worked this job.

If a woman starts telling me shes having it hard, or talking in that sense that things have been hard lately, I would tell her I got time on <day> and would love to come help her with some "house chores".... ofc i see life through a diff lense than you dudes who are slaves to their jobs.

 

[CaptFinnBad]

Dudes like you are dense. Women are masters of indirect communication. If shes venting or talking abotu stuff in a manner like its been hard lately, thats a good cue to let her know you got time on <day> and would love to come over and help her with her "gardening". Ofc you dudes dont think like some of us do.. Idk where your heads at.. Its like you're just absorbed by your slave lifes.

You're doing the type of work that allows you to be in womens house while they're alone and you probably never smashed a single one of them because you dont understand their indirect communication.

Then again im looking at life through a diff lens than some of you. From where I'm at the view is just way different...You focus on the nothings they say, and then make a post about it.. I'm focused on something else.. That's probably why our results are different.

Actually you are on point witt this one. This particular client , over texts, sends me in business related texts at weird times.

Same day has her moan, on my return answered the door holding a hammer and box of nails.

She told me the draw under her bed had broken, and she was just trying to fix it but didn't know how, then says "I'll just probably call me dad to come over and fix later it's probably really simple ".

I told her I needed to go. She then directly invited me in. Which again I declined and left.

So I know what this particular client wants.

Admittedly I didn't see the correlation between the morning moan and basically being invited in to hammer her bed in the afternoon.

Just found the self obsessiveness woe is m of the morning moan interesting. Thank you for your perspective on it.


I don't want to have sex with her. I have a girlfriend. Although I am aware she's into me, I use that what I'm having a quite day.

I'll text her in the morning and ask if she requires my services which she usually yes. So adds a little extra money to quieter days (which I did yesterday, woe is me morning, bedroom DIY day).

 

[RazorRambo24]

Actually you are on point witt this one. This particular client , over texts, sends me in business related texts at weird times.

Same day has her moan, on my return answered the door holding a hammer and box of nails.

She told me the draw under her bed had broken, and she was just trying to fix it but didn't know how, then says "I'll just probably call me dad to come over and fix later it's probably really simple ".

I told her I needed to go. She then directly invited me in. Which again I declined and left.

So I know what this particular client wants.

Admittedly I didn't see the correlation between the morning moan and basically being invited in to hammer her bed in the afternoon.

Just found the self obsessiveness of the morning moan interesting. That you for your perspective on it.

I'm glad you caught the quote before I edited it but yeah man, I been aroun d the block man, I have far too much experience with women to not see things through that lens. Like I said, women are masters of indirect communication. You gotta be more aware.. I understand that you're just like doing your job but once you start thinking on this other sphere of influence-- you'll catch some great opportunities that other dudes only fantasize about. and no problem.. I hope you get something out of it.

 

[CaptFinnBad]

I'm glad you caught the quote before I edited it but yeah man, I been aroun d the block man, I have far too much experience with women to not see things through that lens. Like I said, women are masters of indirect communication. You gotta be more aware.. I understand that you're just like doing your job but once you start thinking on this other sphere of influence-- you'll catch some great opportunities that other dudes only fantasize about. and no problem.. I hope you get something out of it.

Money is my only motivation. If I were single it would be a different story. I'm only training and walking dogs, so nothing high profile.

I'd say 90% of my clients are single women. So deal with quite a lot of this, although I'm still pretty naïve to it a fair bit .

I didn't even comprehend that the morning rant was even related to the afternoon incident.

I'm kinda getting good at reading situations, their moods how to get what I want from a business sense.

 

[RazorRambo24]

Money is my only motivation. If I were single it would be a different story. I'm only training and walking dogs, so nothing high profile.

I'd say 90% of my clients are single women. So deal with quite a lot of this, although I'm still pretty naïve to it a fair bit .

I didn't even comprehend that the morning rant was even related to the afternoon incident.

I'm kinda getting good at reading situations, their moods how to get what I want from a business sense.

I appreciate the fact that you're a good guy man.

 

[I_have_BDE]

Its better to listen to all of their drivel, than have them all up in yours. I'd rather they not know every detail, the how, when, and the why I do what I do.

But yes, most are self absorbed. Long term relationships always end up focused on them and all of their perceived problems. Women solve their problems by talking. They don't actually have to solve anything, just talk about it. Makes little sense to a man but that's how it works.

Most dates I go on the woman talks about herself 60-70% of the time. I laugh when they say, I feel like I've told you everything and I know so little about you! LMAO.

Ive noticed this too. Especially first dates. Self centered.

My mom is turning 76 and even notice this with her all my life. Complains about her problems but if I complain or want to talk about an issue I have I get shutdown after a minute.

This is why you see girls posting every life detail on facebook every 5 minutes.

 

[Gamisch]

Actually you are on point witt this one. This particular client , over texts, sends me in business related texts at weird times.

Same day has her moan, on my return answered the door holding a hammer and box of nails.

She told me the draw under her bed had broken, and she was just trying to fix it but didn't know how, then says "I'll just probably call me dad to come over and fix later it's probably really simple ".

I told her I needed to go. She then directly invited me in. Which again I declined and left.

So I know what this particular client wants.

Admittedly I didn't see the correlation between the morning moan and basically being invited in to hammer her bed in the afternoon.

Just found the self obsessiveness woe is m of the morning moan interesting. Thank you for your perspective on it.


I don't want to have sex with her. I have a girlfriend. Although I am aware she's into me, I use that what I'm having a quite day.

I'll text her in the morning and ask if she requires my services which she usually yes. So adds a little extra money to quieter days (which I did yesterday, woe is me morning, bedroom DIY day).

great to see a man being humble after receiving some tough love. Nowadays everyone's so dense and sensitive...THIS, gentlemen, is how you'll learn and get better !!!

 

[EyeBRollin]

The female brain is theorized to have more language proteins in it. Talking is therapeutic for women. That’s why they never stop doing it.

Regarding caring about you.. they don’t give a rats ass about you as a man. Only about your utility to her…

 

[Bokanovsky]

So was just talking to a client.

Asked how her weekend was, woe is me. She's spent a couple our tidying her house, the weekend was so hard e.t.c.

Thought I'd add to the conversation you know in the back and forth, mine was difficult too. I cut through a main gas pipe in the street with a shovel whilst doing some DIY.

Having to deal with the gas emergency teams. Them doing safety checks everyone's house e.t.c.


She literally acknowledged it for about two seconds. "That's unfortunate", then straight too "weeding is so hard here" then goes into the ins and outs of hard her life is having to pull out a couple weeds in a concreted driveway.

That's how she could relate to my story.

It was was funny.

Start charging them by the hour. You will never hear a story like this again...