Women are so delusional

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A girl said she wants to wait until she achieved all her dreams and settle down to marry when she is 28

I asked her "what quality guy is going to choose a 28 year old instead of a young 21 year old?"

She blocked me lol
 

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A girl said she wants to wait until she achieved all her dreams and settle down to marry when she is 28

I asked her "what quality guy is going to choose a 28 year old instead of a young 21 year old?"
I agree that women are delusional. I don't agree that this example proves anything.

In the United States, women's median age at first marriage is 28.

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The Knot has data points on all marriages, including second marriages and beyond. They also use the average statistic too. The average woman marrying in the United States in 2021 was 33, with men being 35. While this data is less valuable in general, it's valuable enough to show that there are enough average frustrated chump males/beta males/simp male out there marrying women in their 30s and beyond.


A woman who gets married 28 is typically settling into an LTR around 24-26, which isn't that much different than a 21 year old.
 

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Yeah but he said quality guy. No high value men will choose to settle down with an 28 year old women and that’s what they want, but they know they have to settle for less because their looks fade
High value men will go for a hot 28 year old. They will be older, quality men of course and not in their 20s. But it is a bit of an over-generalization otherwise to say no "quality man" will go for a 28 year old.
 

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High value men will go for a hot 28 year old. They will be older, quality men of course and not in their 20s. But it is a bit of an over-generalization otherwise to say no "quality man" will go for a 28 year old.
A 28 year old crossing over into her young to mid 30's might feel like she missed out and switch up on the guy, in our culture a huge risk complete with many hundreds of thousands of examples. All of the man situations have been done many times over.
 
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Yeah but he said quality guy. No high value men will choose to settle down with an 28 year old women and that’s what they want, but they know they have to settle for less because their looks fade
dang you must live in Yemen because 28 is decent here. My friend is 32 and serial dates rich successful men.
 

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There is no such thing like over generalization. In general it is how it is, if she is 28 young hot then why not, this is an exception. It shows she took self-care and has a healthy life style, Shakira would be an example of this. Sometimes even women in their 24 look like they are 30.

Self care, young and beautiful those are mostly women in their 20s in general, better the younger and earlier she started with working out. High value men have in general high standards
Not disputing that typically the younger a woman is the hotter, on average, she is vis-a-vis an older woman. That wasn't the original statement I was addressing though. Your post I responded to (and OP) seemed to be saying "no high-value man will ever 'settle' for a 28 year old woman." This is objectively false. A guy who is 40-45, has his sh1t together, makes good money, would certainly "settle" for a good-looking 28 year old woman. The hypothetical situations where he may even prefer a woman in her mid to late twenties over one in her early twenties are endless.

Sometimes people on this board get blinders on about pulling "the hot 18-22 year old" and think this is what it is all about. The older you get, the more you will understand that this is not always what it comes down to. It is always important - but not the sole element. Unless of course, you are simply looking to spin plates.
 

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A 28 year old crossing over into her young to mid 30's might feel like she missed out and switch up on the guy, in our culture a huge risk complete with many hundreds of thousands of examples. All of the man situations have been done many times over.
Not disagreeing. There is always risk though with LTRing any woman of any age group. Typically, if we are speaking LTRs, I think 25-27 is actually the sweet spot as they are a little more mature while still maintaining their youth and looks. I understand this is probably a minority view on SS.
 

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I didn’t say the younger the hotter she is, I said the younger and earlier she started with doing things that improves healthier lifestyle the higher the chances a high value men would choose her with that being hot and healthy comes naturally.

Many women use makeup don’t forget this, with that even 40year old women look like in their 30s 20s.

I know that from myself, I have already maxed out my smv, except in the financial area since I’m a student. You have high standards, I don’t **** with fat women, neither I do sleep with women I consider 7 based on looks. It’s either above or not. It’s either she can vibe with me or she is gone. Looks + self care + fun is high on my list
And I agree with how you approach women. It is what I have done as well. Right now, the thought of being with a woman 28 years old may seem unfathomable to you (I assume you are 25 based upon your profile); but in ten or twenty years you may (in fact I would venture likely) will change your opinion even if you are a "high value man" at that juncture.
 

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OP example isn't great but modern women do have delusions of grandeur

The amount of girls i see posting instagram content with that " Lato - big energy" song in the background

The lyrics are something like " I'm a bad B , there ain't so many that can handle me"

i had to laugh when i broke a$$ single mother did it

I was thinking to myself plenty CAN handle you but many probably don't want too :rofl:
 

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A 28 year old crossing over into her young to mid 30's might feel like she missed out and switch up on the guy, in our culture a huge risk complete with many hundreds of thousands of examples. All of the man situations have been done many times over.
"All of the MANY situations have been done many times over."
 

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A girl said she wants to wait until she achieved all her dreams and settle down to marry when she is 28

I asked her "what quality guy is going to choose a 28 year old instead of a young 21 year old?"

She blocked me lol
Sounds like she was trying to tell you that she was DTF.
 

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A girl said she wants to wait until she achieved all her dreams and settle down to marry when she is 28

I asked her "what quality guy is going to choose a 28 year old instead of a young 21 year old?"

She blocked me lol
So, you said something stupid to her and screwed yourself out of pVssy. Nice job
 
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Sometimes we worry so much about game that we screw ourselves retarded
The fact that something as natural as mating/intersexual dynamics is so hard for modern men to achieve, to where they have to obsess about saying the right thing or acting the right way to such a degree, is a relection of the sad state of modern society.
 

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A lot of them these days, but not as many as at 21. She is also discounting something as or more important than being less attractive and less access to quality men with age: the psychological damage of playing the game too long (or at all). The wall in 2022 is more about psychological damage than looks.
but simps would accept that , as long as they can tap some ass from time to time
 

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A girl said she wants to wait until she achieved all her dreams and settle down to marry when she is 28

I asked her "what quality guy is going to choose a 28 year old instead of a young 21 year old?"

She blocked me lol
I'd say any successful 35yo and older male that wanted to be married would settle down with an attractive 28yo female.

Age is relative.
 

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In my late 30's after I had conquered enuff pu$$y, I realized that I needed more than hot and fun if I was going to take a girl serious. I needed to be attracted mentally as well to keep my interest. It comes with age. You younger guys will understand this later in life.

I had a 24yo when I was early 40's. She was a nanny and going to school. Could have potentially made a great long term partner. But connecting to her mentally, she just wasn't on my level. She had not experienced enough of life. Still had those Disney fairy tales in her head.
 
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A girl said she wants to wait until she achieved all her dreams and settle down to marry when she is 28

I asked her "what quality guy is going to choose a 28 year old instead of a young 21 year old?"

She blocked me lol
No offense but you are being a dip ****. It's been the same advice on not spitting Red Pill. Waiting till her best years are over = CC until the millk goes bad. Did you tell her that too? What did you expect???

A harder flex is pulling the 21 yr old baddie and not talking about it to morons.
 

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I'd say any successful 35yo and older male that wanted to be married would settle down with an attractive 28yo female.

Age is relative.
I blame really low T &&& wackkkk game. This is why dudes get divorce raped at 40+ and she goes for another CC ride on his resources. #cuckD
 
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