women are slvts

[Truman181]

Hey guys, it's been a long time since I've posted here....

Here's a brief history of my recent dating...


A year and a half ago I met a 'quality woman'. She seemed to GET me in every way no woman ever had before. Further, her interest level was through the roof and she told me she loved me first. She and I talked of marriage, yada yada yada.

6 months into the relationship I noticed things had changed. She was distant, asking for space, ect. Well I got suspicious. I knew she had always been an 'internet dater' so I looked for her on Match.com. I was crushed and broke up with her immediately. I begged her to take her profile down for weeks but she wouldn't do it. Finally she said it was over and done, for good.

A few weeks went by and I caved....I texted her and told her how much I missed her. She said "I hate to tell you this but what I have now is even better than what we had.

That was a year ago today. To tell you the truth part of me misses her and feels like I won't ever get over her. The other part of me hates her guts.

A few months went by and I ended up dating this 'bigger girl' that I met through a friend of a friend. Though I felt I was shallow and that the girl was beneath my standards, she was nice and seemed to want me.

Yada yada yada my neediness got to me and I fell for her. But as soon as I had feelings for her, she smelled it and pushed me away. A few weeks ago she broke it off with me for the SECOND time.

Alright, here is what I am really writing this post about

Today, I just banged a married chick. How did I meet her? I posted an ad on craigslist. After a few emails and a few IM's, we met and she sucked me off in my car, swallowed my ***. Then she looked up me and asked "is there any more?" (I just had to share THAT). Then she climbed on me and we fvcked.

This woman prides herself on being a slut. She told me she slept with 4 different guys on 4 different nights on a recent trip. She feels absolutely no guilt about swallowing my cvm then going home to her husband and 3 year old.

I feel absolutely no guilt either. The woman sleeps around. If it's not me, it's with other men. You can say I'm betraying my fellow man but really, she would sleep with any other man that came along so why not me.

And you know what? This is what I want. I want to have the good stuff with a woman and none of the bullsh1t. It's not even fvcken worth it to get attached emotionally to a woman because the second you do, they push you away.

At least the slvt is honest. She admits what she is. I know what to expect with her. There's no empty promises.

You may think that I'm really negative or angry in this post. That is far from the case. It's almost a feeling of liberation. Finally, I think I've "toughened up" enough to see through bullsh1t and not be lured in by women's false promises.

You may judge me for sleeping with a married woman but don't be too quick to be harsh. Marriage is a sham. My so called "one" showed me that. Women will lie, cheat or manipulate in a heart beat and they won't feel the guilt that us men do.

 

[Luthor Rex]

It really seems like 90% of women have attachment issues doesn't it?

 

[STR8UP]

"Quality"....heh

Sounds like you might have learned a few things over the past year and a half.

Every day that goes by I question more and more if these guys who constantly yammer on about "quality" women have had more than one girlfriend their entire lives.

Any man who has spent a considerable amount of time around women WITH HIS EYES OPEN knows that the vast majority of women today are virtually worthless for anything other than sex.

Welcome to the dark side my friend.....

 

[decades]

so you want "all of the good stuff" with this woman and none of the BS? Good luck with that. Welcome to School again buddy. Open your book and turn to page 58.

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

Every man wants a slut, he just wants her to be HIS slut.

 

[goodfoot]

It sounds like you got too needy and killed both your relationships.

 

[jophil28]

A year and a half ago I met a 'quality woman'. She seemed to GET me in every way no woman ever had before. Further, her interest level was through the roof and she told me she loved me first. She and I talked of marriage, yada yada yada.

6 months into the relationship I noticed things had changed. She was distant, asking for space, ect. Well I got suspicious. I knew she had always been an 'internet dater' so I looked for her on Match.com. I was crushed and broke up with her immediately.

Firstly, she was always a slvt maquerading as a quality woman. Con artists always initially misrepresent themselves, but eventually reveal their true motives and lack of scruples.

Secondly, when you discovered that she was 'still shopping' on Match you should have dumped her azz in one skinny microsecond , and then lost her number. That was the moment when your healing needed to start.
Instead, you made several mistakes in trying to beg and plead her back into your life. She used one such occasion to stick the knife in by telling you that she found a better replacement. Why did you put yourself in that vulnerable of a position and suffer that pain?? Why not just poke a sharp stick in your eye ?

A woman who wants to get back together will contact you in some way at some time. Then YOU have the control and YOU decide if she gets another chance, BUT the minumum requirement is that she chases you and asks/begs for a reconciliation.. if she does not call you ,she has moved on ( and found another chump)

Next, some women seem to relish causing men that kind of pain after a breakup. Men who dump women try (mostly) to minimize the pain that they cause the woman. Perhaps men generally are more compassionate ?

Lastly, she did not cheat on you because you revealed your feelings, she cheated because she was a cheater who disguised herself as a decent prospect. You confused the wrapping with the contents ...it happens to us all at least once.

 

[jophil28]

BTW, Truman, some of that first woman's behavior reeks of HPD, BPD.
Check out the BPD threads on this site for more info.

 

[TheBucketOfTruth]

BTW, Truman, some of that first woman's behavior reeks of HPD, BPD.
Check out the BPD threads on this site for more info.

You're reading too much into it. If every woman meeting his description had a "mental illness" as you describe, we'd have an epidemic on our hands.

Yes there is a shortage of quality women out there these days. Unfortunately I found one over a year ago, but I'm not close to ready to settling down into monogamy at this point in my life.

 

[Duffdog]

Good job Truman181, you finally figured out how the world really is!

Sometimes I feel like I want another girlfriend and to hold her hand and all that nice stuff, but then I get disgusted by the fact that every hot girl I know has never considered that there is such a word as "loyal".

 

[Nutz]

Every man wants a slut, he just wants her to be HIS slut.

Sig'd.

Lastly, she did not cheat on you because you revealed your feelings, she cheated because she was a cheater who disguised herself as a decent prospect. You confused the wrapping with the contents ...it happens to us all at least once.

Interesting way of looking at it. I can honestly say I've never thought of it that way before. However, I'd be wary of using this an excuse for neediness being the cause.

 

[Luthor Rex]

You're reading too much into it. If every woman meeting his description had a "mental illness" as you describe, we'd have an epidemic on our hands.

Honestly, there are days when I do believe that there is an epidemic of mental illness in America. Or at least mental illness like behaviors have become more 'normalized'.

Seriously, no one else looks at the world around them thinks, "I'm surrounded by the mentally retarded"?

 

[Truman181]

so you want "all of the good stuff" with this woman and none of the BS? Good luck with that. Welcome to School again buddy. Open your book and turn to page 58.

That's a possibility.

On the other hand, I have no illusions about this woman being 'the one' or about her and I having a future beyond sex. I don't want a relationship or to be emotionally attached to anyone at this point! I don't see myself getting emotionally attached to a self described slvt. I am the absolute king of deluding myself into believing how great a woman I'm seeing is BUT even I won't see this woman for more than what she is.

The way I figure it, she should be good for a once a week fvck for as long it may last.

 

[Truman181]

Every man wants a slut, he just wants her to be HIS slut.

Yep. However, this time I know I'm dealing with a slut that will never be mine outside of the bedroom. No false expectations.

 

[Truman181]

Firstly, she was always a slvt maquerading as a quality woman. Con artists always initially misrepresent themselves, but eventually reveal their true motives and lack of scruples.

Exactly. I respect a 'straight out slut' more than a lying, manipulating, cvnt at this point.

Secondly, when you discovered that she was 'still shopping' on Match you should have dumped her azz in one skinny microsecond

I did that

and then lost her number. That was the moment when your healing needed to start. Instead, you made several mistakes in trying to beg and plead her back into your life.

That's where I went wrong.

She used one such occasion to stick the knife in by telling you that she found a better replacement. Why did you put yourself in that vulnerable of a position and suffer that pain?? Why not just poke a sharp stick in your eye ?

The plus side of poking a sharp stick in your eye is if you cause enough pain, MAYBE just maybe you learn not to do it.

A woman who wants to get back together will contact you in some way at some time. Then YOU have the control and YOU decide if she gets another chance, BUT the minumum requirement is that she chases you and asks/begs for a reconciliation.. if she does not call you ,she has moved on ( and found another chump)

You have no idea how much I've kicked myself for not doing that.

Next, some women seem to relish causing men that kind of pain after a breakup. Men who dump women try (mostly) to minimize the pain that they cause the woman. Perhaps men generally are more compassionate ?

So true. I show compassion to a fault. On the other hand, women who profess their love and adoration for you think nothing of crushing you when you no longer suit their purpose.

Lastly, she did not cheat on you because you revealed your feelings, she cheated because she was a cheater who disguised herself as a decent prospect. You confused the wrapping with the contents ...it happens to us all at least once.

Yes, this one disguised herself as a "good prospect" and I fell for it hook, line and sinker. Worse yet, I've fell for it far too many times in the past when the woman clearly wasn't a "good prospect" yet I convinced myself otherwise.

If anything, I needed to learn this lesson and it will make me stronger in the long run.

 

[Trader]

women are slvts

So I'm sure that includes your mother as well.


Actually these gross generalizations remind me of something that happened a while back when a girl came out and said: 'All guys are just dogs that will hump anything that moves.' There were 3 other guys in the room - none of them dared to say anything. I was the one that called her out on her BS and put her in her place.

Both you and that girl are equally lame.

 

[edger]

But guys need to remember something also: it is important to realize that even the so called "sluts"(I don't mean "slut" in a demeaning way) are picky, and will not just sleep with anybody.

 

[Truman181]

So I'm sure that includes your mother as well.


Actually these gross generalizations remind me of something that happened a while back when a girl came out and said: 'All guys are just dogs that will hump anything that moves.' There were 3 other guys in the room - none of them dared to say anything. I was the one that called her out on her BS and put her in her place.

Both you and that girl are equally lame.

Wow, instead of debating the issue, you resort to personal attacks. Classy.

Is my mom a slut? Probably. Do I mean that she will sleep with hundreds of guys? Nope. But she is a woman and women have no problem doing what feels right to them emotionally in the moment regardless of who it hurts.

I'm just playing by those rules now.

By the way, was it Rollo who compared women to dogs? You wouldn't trust a dog to not eat a big, juicy stake right in front of him, now would you? But you can trust a dog to ACT like a dog and eat the stake.

Similarly, you can trust a woman to act like a woman. That is, once you figure out how women really are.

 

[Truman181]

Actually these gross generalizations remind me of something that happened a while back when a girl came out and said: 'All guys are just dogs that will hump anything that moves.' There were 3 other guys in the room - none of them dared to say anything. I was the one that called her out on her BS and put her in her place.

Boy, you must be real fun at a party! I've seen women riding a high horse like that but never a guy. Let me guess, you were the kid that tattled on all the other kids when the teacher left the room.

 

[Solomon]

Truman

Funny story

you gonna hook up with that chick again?