Women are simple creatures/women aint that complex

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Women are fecking simple and predictable creatures. The player/mack/don juan uses this to his advantage.

Whereas the bluepilled man constantly fights with their nature and doesn't "understand " what's going on. To a bluepilled man women are complex and "difficult to understand "

Women are predictable, the same all around the globe and they all have the same mannerisms.

Women only become "complex " once they aren't in to you (anymore). To us men a woman is slightly above a monkey; a creature who looks and moves like us ,yet they're driving by emotions and instincts rather than logic.

Here are some questions that a man has when he feels like women are difficult;

-Why would a woman leave a situation that looks seemingly good, or perhaps even her best option?

-When and where does her "demands of attraction " stops?
 

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Women are only confusing to men that think women evaluate, behave, and act like a man. It is the ability of a man to see women as completely different that makes him a DJ.

-Why would a woman leave a situation that looks seemingly good, or perhaps even her best option?
Women are emotional... they exist in the moment. EVERYTHING is temporary. A man on the outside looking in views a situation a woman is in based on HIS value system. What a particular woman sees as 'value' is very different from a man.... and it changes like the wind.

-When and where does her "demands of attraction " stops?
Never. They never stop looking for clues that the situation they are in maximizes her benefit. They will always look for back-up plans. Where they fit in any social structure, they are in is always a concern for women. It could be her circle of friends, her school, her church group, her family. The more attention she gets the higher she sees herself in this social group. The more men, and women they respect, that find her interesting and attractive, the better they feel about themselves. Thier social group is their mirror.
 

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They seem confusing because they don’t act or think like us. This of course has varying levels. Some women are very feminine and display typical traits while some are not as feminine and display more masculine type traits. This notion that all women are nurturing and kind is a fallacy. Some are down right cold and DGAF. Depends on genetics, upbringing and emotional damage they have experienced. This is why an unmarried single woman in her 40s is a red flag. What baggage is she carrying and what drama is she going to bring.

I’ve experienced this concept of relational equity that Rollo speaks of. The notion that when one puts in effort, over time that will garner some type of loyalty. Women are not loyal in this sense. Completely the opposite. Women think in the now. If you are not providing some immediate benefit, they move on to someone else. If she’s not getting a constant stream of feels, your days are numbered. They don’t care about all the good deeds you did, what are you providing at this moment?
 

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Women are only confusing to men that think women evaluate, behave, and act like a man. It is the ability of a man to see women as completely different that makes him a DJ.


Women are emotional... they exist in the moment. EVERYTHING is temporary. A man on the outside looking in views a situation a woman is in based on HIS value system. What a particular woman sees as 'value' is very different from a man.... and it changes like the wind.


Never. They never stop looking for clues that the situation they are in maximizes her benefit. They will always look for back-up plans. Where they fit in any social structure, they are in is always a concern for women. It could be her circle of friends, her school, her church group, her family. The more attention she gets the higher she sees herself in this social group. The more men, and women they respect, that find her interesting and attractive, the better they feel about themselves. Thier social group is their mirror.
Which is exactly why they don't make good long term choices. Society and the laws will need to change before that ever happens again.
 

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You must accept that woman don't operate based upon logic. Even women who get paid to be logical in some fashion (doctor, lawyer, etc.) operate by a completely different set of rules when it comes to interacting with a man in courtship or they are in a relationship with. It is all about how things make them feel. If you are giving her good feelings, you are golden. If she is getting bad feelings from you, she will let you know by usually acting like a child does - shutting down, becoming cold, pouting, etc. You simply have to accept this is how they are and also accept that sitting her down and walking her through why she is wrong NEVER solves anything in your favor. It just makes her dry up and compounds your issue.

This is why silence and distance is always your friend. It is the only sure-fire way to keep the ball in your court.
 

Create self-fulfilling prophecies. Always assume the positive. Assume she likes you. Assume she wants to talk to you. Assume she wants to go out with you. When you think positive, positive things happen.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Women only become "complex " once they aren't in to you (anymore).
Correction: women only become "complex" once they aren't into the man anymore and the man is still into her. It's complex because the man avoids the obvious solution of moving on to better pastures, instead they beat a dead horse.

There's nothing complex about women beyond what we're making it into. Applying logic to their emotional decisions is one common mistake, that gets complicated to the point of being impossible to understand really fast. The simple solution is to learn to think emotionally. Men inherently have the same emotions as any other human being and we can tap into it to understand their "plane of existence" so to speak.

So many men have a severe lack of emotional intelligence that they're effectively blind when dealing with women, simply put they just don't understand women because of this. Understanding the way of emotions is the key to understanding the "lack of logic" from women and unless you're autistic or a sociopath you should be born with the tools necessary to start understanding.
 

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Yeah, remember this was covered in Doc Love books, he called it Interest Level. Guys irrationally protect their ego with low IL women by rationalizing their behaviour rather than moving on. Any IL lower than 50% is friendzone territory. Any IL higher than 50% can be worked on. It was covered in his books.
 

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Women are predictable, the same all around the globe and they all have the same mannerisms.
A woman's mannerisms are not what causes confusion among men. It is a woman's behavior that causes confusion.

A woman's behavior is inconsistent.
It is this inconsistency that has led to a stronger male attachment and why men often get confused and change their behavior as a result.

Generally, a woman will be on her best behavior in the early stages of a relationship. Be submissive, give sex, be kind, all the stuff a man wants in a relationship. Once she has seduced the man and the man gets comfortable, she then slowly introduces change in the relationship. A little more talk back, a little less sex, more expectations, etc. Now the man is thinking; because she has changed, it must be HIS fault, so HE changes his behavior even though he has done nothing different from when they first met. So the woman now thinks "oh, if he is changing, I must be his only access for sex. This means he is not sexually desired by other women, which means I can act differently every day, make him more confused and get more out of him." So one day she gives him blowing sex, and the next day she insults him. This confusion in her behavior makes for a stronger male attachment to her.

This is why it is advised for a man to spin plates and not commit. So when a woman acts up, he doesn't waste his time and energy to fight with her, he goes and finds another woman.
 

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Men are simple creatures, they basically say what they want and go after what they want. Women are inherently more complex in comparison, because their behaviors are not so intuitive to men.

Guy likes girl, guy brings flower to girl because he likes her, OOPS guy just effed everything up because he gave away his power and acted like a romantic sap (unless the girl likes it, in which case she returns his affection. Until she doesn't). Women are more complex in comparison.
 

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If she’s not getting a constant stream of feels
The simple solution is to learn to think emotionally.
So the woman now thinks "oh, if he is changing, I must be his only access for sex. This means he is not sexually desired by other women, which means I can act differently every day
Women are more complex in comparison
So you need to act like a man, which, as you've correctly said, is a simple creature. This means that every time you act, since you have to learn to think emotionally, you will try not to act "simply" by just giving her a flower. Instead, you would ask yourself, "What will happen if I give this flower to her now?" This means that a man will not act simply anymore in his life, since he has to think about the situation, not logically, but emotionally.

What if we just acted simply in the first instance and forever? Would there be a woman waiting for us?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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