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The Edge

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Originally posted by WatchMeWalk
And agreeing with whatever nonsense is posted here is the only way to truly avoid flames and name-calling.

I've heard all this shytt before..... But back to my point...

Listen to me.... The only reasobn why peopke are still on this site years after they read the Don Juan bible, is because they buy into the theoretical aspect of this site..

First they get caught up in reasoning and arguing to show fukkyn intellectual superiority.. Hence the Anything Else forum..

Then they buy into arguing with some guy named POOK... Who the fukk is he??...and what the fukk has he truly done for them??? Except keep the most seasoned DJ's from actually turning off their computers and doing the road work...

Stop trying to be more than this site offers... get into women... There is a shyttload more than the DJ Bible offers, and that my friend is only offered out there, away from your fukkyn computers, and theories, and the Suggestion Forum...

This site can be a friend to you, and offer you solace in time of need... It can make you learn how to argue and agree with specific threads....On the other hand you can use it to fukk the shytt out of women you were intimidated to talk to back in the day..

I choose the later, and because I owe no type of explanation to anyone, I would recommend heartily that some of you try it..

Even you Mr Pesimist!!!:rolleyes:

The Edge ' Some have it, and some don't
 

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Pook does WHAT? How dare he!

Apparently, there must be other Pooks running around on the forum again. I keep saying there is no philosophy with women, bashing the wonderful land of theories, making posts telling people that to even go out there and FAIL is better than hatching new 'theories' on the female, and what do I read?

Then they buy into arguing with some guy named POOK... Who the fukk is he??...and what the fukk has he truly done for them??? Except keep the most seasoned DJ's from actually turning off their computers and doing the road work...
This is what is frustrating. I am saying 2 + 2 = 4 but The Edge is saying that I said 2 + 2 =5.

First they get caught up in reasoning and arguing to show fukkyn intellectual superiority.
Which the Edge has demonstrated with this thread. Apparently, you guys do not know that you must turn off the computer to get girls, so the Edge is informing you of it.

Then they buy into arguing with some guy named POOK
Which, by the choice of his words, the Edge is clearly doing.

Stop trying to be more than this site offers...
This quote is funny because The Edge's theme is to be more than what this site offers.

get into women... There is a shyttload more than the DJ Bible offers, and that my friend is only offered out there, away from your fukkyn computers, and theories, and the Suggestion Forum...
This is referred to us through a computer, as a theory, on a suggestion forum. The irony here is delicious.

This is a classic example of how when a person condemns, they end up condemning himself.
 

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I think what the Edge is trying to say is that you gotta put it all into practice, no point just reading this site if you don't go out and use the info, you gotta go out and do it, you know, it's the whole, knowing the path and walking the path distinction.

And that much I agree with.

There's only so much theory that needs to be done, the rest can be learnt in practice.

But don't revolve you're life around women, that's never a healthy thing. Sure put all your focus into your approaches and all but still have a normal life.
 

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The problem with making women your first priority is that you may end up neglecting a lot of other things that are important. If you're a student, you probably need to concentrate on your schoolwork, or all that money that's being put into college will go down the drain. If you have a job, you need to focus on that, because if you aren't doing it sufficiently, you may find yourself without a source of income. If you have a reasonably functioning family, maintaining relationships with them is important, because they are the ones who will still accept and care for you when no one else will. These things need to take precedence, otherwise you may find yourself a very poor, lonely individual.

I admit that I have a tendency to put my women troubles before everything else in my life, to the point where I have difficulty concentrating on other stuff like school, or enjoying simple things like family and friends. I've become quite an unhappy person. That's where the danger lies in putting women so high up on your list. The idea is that if you concentrate on other things, you can more easily deal when something goes wrong in your love life (or whatever you want to call it).
 

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Girls are just an oranment, they make life better, there are many other parts of life that I think deserve much more attention. I want to become a force to be reckoned with, to do so I need to focus on changing my personality. Once I do this, I can get any girl I want. Like I would go crawling around on my knees in desperation to a GIRL! YEAH RIGHT! I WILL be the dominant force in the relationship, the man, I do not have all those things, I get them, then I focus on girls. But unless I dive right in, how am I ever going to change? I am NOT. So focus on women, but get your sh!t together first.
 

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Hey Edge, there's still room on the short bus for one more bro.... :)

Honestly though, we all know sometimes you go on these lunatic rants for attention, and we all get a laugh out of it, because I think in your mind, you see yourself as some kind of Yoda of the DJ World, on crack or something. I just have one suggestion, if you want to get better at being a ladies man, like yours truly, ya got to learn to take advise from others sometimes. It's actually pretty easy, and it's worked for the rest of the human race for a long time. Just next time, someone has a different view, try hard not to be so defensive, they just trying to teach you something you don't know. Hopefully, you'll get the message before ya hurt yoself, or somebody else.

Honestly, it's hard sometimes to take you seriously with rants like, '...you no longer are a DJ if you're in an LTR... First of all, you can no longer be mysterious and a challenge.. DING!! DING!!... You are now legally boring.'

Christ man, you're not in a LTR, and speaking for myself personally, dunno about anybody else but, DING!! DING!! ..your boring the hell out of me. Just not logical thinking... like you don't think before you spew this crap... like, 'No more different women, especially if you're not the cheating kind. You're stuck with the same boring-ass puss for the rest of time. And stop fukkyn lying to yourself.' .....that's a mind one fry short of a happy meal bud... it's reasoning, and suggestions like this, gets people hurt. You blew a fuse on me crying about how I'm not a DJ because I choice to be with the same woman. Then when I expressed some peeps might read this wrong and think being a DJ means f*cking everybody, and the dangers of doing this, you replied, 'My problem is with the LTR guys shelling out advice for DJ's.... '
We all know you have this problem Edge, but again, you seem to have this issue with peeps who want to give good advise...

Where were you Ronin I posted about catching something after he f*cked some chic he just met in a bar? If ya haven't read it, maybe you should. It will probably change your mind on the whole 'f*ck a different chic every night' mentality you've been preaching about.

What I'm trying to say is, you mean well, but sometimes, it seems you're wacked out on wacky-tobacy when you post this sh*t. Like you're not thinking this out clearly. Just like this post... first ya say, 'I have no idea who perpetuated the myth that, not making women the focus of your life helps you attain the best women out there... Yeah right..what the fukk ever Jack...If you stop making women the focus of your life you lose... Stop, lieing to yourself and start focusing on them.... Otherwise you will be here forever'

Ok, there's so many things wrong with that statement, I don't know where to begin... how about I ask you how long YOU'VE been here? Seems like forever don't it? ;)

I think it wasn't long ago when you said this....

IT MAKES NO SENSE TO CONSIDER YOURSELF A DJ IF YOU'RE NOT GOING TO PURSUE, DATE AND OH YEAH FUKK WOMEN. THIS MAKES YOU A PLAYER.... YEP I AM SORRY, BUT ITS TRUE... A PLAYER DATES MANY WOMEN AND MAKES WOMEN HIS FOCUS.. A DJ MAKES HIMSELF THE MOST IMPORTANT THING IN HIS LIFE , AND AS SUCH HE BECOMES SUCCESSFUL. BUT THE END RESULT IS THE SAME. HE DOES ALL OF THIS, SO HE CAN ATTRACT ALL THE FUKKEN WOMEN POSSIBLE....

Speaking for myself Edge, I'm the focus of my life, not women, me. I only come here to help peeps like you, and sometimes seek help from peeps, like you. (That's a trippy thought.) Make women your main focus, that's funny Edge. :) If I were to tell my buds that, they'd revolt my Dude card, like you should have yours.

If ya want peeps to start considering your advise Edge, you are going to have to stop and think about what you type down, BEFORE ya type it. I'm not trying to do anything but drop some knowledge on ya... sometimes peeps got to get taught.
 

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Originally posted by InLawsHateMe


Where were you Ronin I posted about catching something after he f*cked some chic he just met in a bar? If ya haven't read it, maybe you should. It will probably change your mind on the whole 'f*ck a different chic every night' mentality you've been preaching about.

For the record it was a false alarm (and it was a BJ not a f*ck). It was pretty freakin' scary though and it definitely changed my outlook on things.
 

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It's not about finding the woman to make yourself happy. Its about making yourself happy to find the woman.

Difference between typical players stuff and Pooks stuff is Pook focuses on bettering himself first and then letting the women come to his newer better self.

Whereas the player mentality is to become what the girl wants so you can get laid.

Both methods work problem with the player mentality is that if you ever do find that one you want to keep your going to have to pretend to be someone your not the rest of your life because thats who shes attracted to...once you become yourself the woman is going to see a different person and see that you were acting your way into her pants and its all over from there.

Whereas the place that Pooks at in his life focuses on him doing the things he wants to do, doing what makes himself happy without a woman then finding the woman that wants to be in the world that makes him happy. There is no acting involved so there is no guard to keep up and there is no particular reason for the girl to resent the fact that he acted his way into her pants because he didnt and if shes happy living in the world Pooks created for himself shes gonna be around for a long time.

This essentially is the difference IMO between a player and a natural. If your happy ****ing different woman all the time without ever having a meaningful relationship with any of them then by all means be a player but if your getting older and looking to settle down then being a player is going to be your biggest downfall.
 
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