Women are more shallow than men, here's why...

[neghitzbrah]

At this point, I can't tell whether you are looking for advice or not. To be honest, your last few posts have been complaints about scenarios.

What do you want? It doesn't sound like you want the hot women, yet you look at them all the time. Do you want us to acknowledge your statement about women being more shallow than men? It's about the same, just in different ways.

I've had ugly friends come onto women stronger than I do. I consider myself a pretty good looking guy because initially I get a lot of attention. Then, the social parts comes out where I'm not so strong. Yes, I do hook up with girls, but you gotta have the whole package to bag the really good ones. And by whole package, I don't mean looks. I mean all of the qualities described in the earlier post (don't wanna scroll up/back). The good news for myself is that this can be worked on and improved as it can for everyone.

As a guy, I'm glad I'm not a women. Women, you are either good looking or not. That seems to be the highest deciding factor for most men, including myself. And to me, it sounds like it is for you, but settle for what you are getting. If you're not satisfied, don't complain... make a change. Be a fvckin Alpha, bro.

 

[joeEtata]

I'm half venting about women, half working on myself/looking for support just like most guys on here.

I'm taking the necessary steps to get what I want (getting a better body so I can attract hot women for sex.) I'd much prefer a woman that attracts me on the outside and I get along with...but I don't desire it at this point in my life or crave it. Having sex with women of my choice is what I want in the present and near future...I just have a lot of sexual frustration.

 

[neghitzbrah]

Gotta make things clear though. We all need vent, but it just seems that you were being a bit naive toward making emotional/non-physical changes. You seem to be all for getting in shape, but you are missing the most important part.

Your inner-game. Work out all you want and it will make you feel good to a certain extent. It will make approaching easier, but from there you need to work on other things. Conversation, body language, charm, i.e. that list. If you have the inner-game down, it doesn't matter if you look like a fvckin gremlin. Inner game = DJ. Woman can sense it the second they meet you. And the great part is, you don't need to exercise to get it down.

Not trying to shat on you bro, just letting you know what's up. It looks like you have the wrong mindset just by looking at the title of this thread.

 

[joeEtata]

Where I live (small towns surrounded by small towns) it's all looks. Even the two women I dated...one of them hot...the other cute...primarily liked my looks. Yeah we clicked when we talked too...had things in common...but the looks drew them in.

I definitely know that in other parts of the country it's different...especially when attractive women are all over the place and not as much of a commodity. When I was in Florida and Virginia Beach, I saw plenty of decent/regular/ok and in some cases even average and ugly guys with attractive women...but here, you see similar people with similar people...really hot girls with other male 10s...in some cases, 10s that don't even look comfortable despite looking alpha.

 

[Forty0ztoFreedom]

A lot of girls are definitely shallow. Look at their music choices, movie choices, etc.

Almost all of them are based on some dreamy guy they like. Justin Beiber, the Backstreet Boys, Patrick Swayze, 'Leo' in Titanic, Edward Cullen in Twilight, all these 'dreamy' acts they fall in love with. 3 weeks ago Justin Beiber was trapped in a hotel, because of 200 girls outside trying to see him.

I know these girls are (mostly) young girls, but can you imagine 200 teenage boys trapping Miley Cyrus inside of a hotel for a glimpse of her? It would be on national news as some sex-craze epidemic of predators.

Or imagine the musical choices of men being based around some girl we want to bang. We'd all be kicking it to Katy Perry and camping out for tickets to her shows. And we'd be there for opening night of "Spice World."

On some level, girls are equally shallow, if not more so.