Women are more narcissistic than men

[jhonny9546]

My wife basically leads in terms of the house, the family. That’s what a woman is for. Also socially. However, on the big issues - finances, work etc I am in charge.

This is a good point because there are people which have a "family run business" where the women also want to raise her voice.

But, also, it's not only "where" she might have her power, but also "how" she talk to the men.

 

[BaronOfHair]

My wife basically leads in terms of the house, the family. That’s what a woman is for. Also socially. However, on the big issues - finances, work etc I am in charge.

Your ol'ball'n'chain has successfully created the illusion of you having any real power(Instead of being a human ATM), and you've bought into it, in other words

 

[jhonny9546]

Your ol'ball'n'chain has successfully created the illusion of you having any real power(Instead of being a human ATM), and you've bought into it, in other words

you can move forward in the relationship knowing that women do this.
Just make sure she's not disrespectful and ticks your boxes

 

[Fruitbat]

Your ol'ball'n'chain has successfully created the illusion of you having any real power(Instead of being a human ATM), and you've bought into it, in other words

my human ball and chain has never costed me a penny. My costs are the same if I were single.

not halved - i have to be honest. She hasn’t paid 50/50. But, I pay the the mortgage and my own bills. I’m probably better off with her as she pays for food, childcare and holidays. So I’m most definately better off - and I have sechs on tap. To my specification. I am the director of our love life, something most men can dream of. Plus I get children and a legacy. Fair trade inn my view

 

[jhonny9546]

not halved - i have to be honest. She hasn’t paid 50/50. But, I pay the the mortgage and my own bills. I’m probably better off with her as she pays for food, childcare and holidays. So I’m most definately better off - and I have sechs on tap. To my specification. I am the director of our love life, something most men can dream of. Plus I get children and a legacy. Fair trade inn my view

I know one couple exaclty like you, but reverse the women and men POV,

 

[Hamurabimbi]

I took that Dark Triad test. My Narcissism
was over 90%.

 

[FlexpertHamilton]

True narcissism is rare, it's a sick pathology of the mind, only about 4% of the population has it. Women throw the term narcissism out any time a guy says "no" or has boundaries, or they use other shaming language like "insecure" or "controlling". I suspect more women than men nowadays have undiagnosed personality disorders, cluster B or whatever, and I can support this by the fact that women have very high rates of mental illness nowdays. I don't know if narcissism is more common in men, but i'm sure it's higher for men nowadays, too.

Put the device down and go outside.

Bro I literally overheard women complaining about it in a coffee shop the other day.

 

[BaronOfHair]

I suspect more women than men nowadays have undiagnosed personality disorders, cluster B or whatever, and I can support this by the fact that women have very high rates of mental illness nowdays

Chicks seek out psychotherapy more often than anyone else also... Shrinks don't stay afloat by informing their clients: "You just need to stop emulating Julia Fox, who's the epitome of megacu-tery"

 

[jhonny9546]

and I can support this by the fact that women have very high rates of mental illness nowdays.

They might have a predisposition for it. (Given the times, it's more free now than before)

 

[darksprezzatura]

I don’t listen to women I’m not involved with complain about things irrelevant to them or me.

 

[Chow Mein]

Indeed, the same goes for people whose exes are all 'NPD' or 'BPD' or 'Psycho'. I already wrote in another thread that you attract what you are. When my dark triad traits were more obvious in my younger years, I attracted my share of dark triad trait women, but when I cleaned up my act and matured, the quality of the women I dated also improved.

It would awesome to hear how you cleaned up your act.