Chicks are emotional... they go where their emotions take them. The only thing that is consistent is that the ONLY way to keep a chick around is for her to believe that she can do no better than you. The problem is that what she 'believes' she needs will change with her emotions, but it does fall along Maslow's hierarchy of needs. The reason Western chicks are so fvcked up is because society takes care of the five basic needs. She's not going to go hungry, or lack a place to sleep, she is relatively safe (although she will tell you she isn't). She has the love and support of other women and a society that continues to tell her how awesome she is. Western women have such an over inflated sense of self worth it is almost hilarious. They no sh!t REALLY believe that they can do anything a man can do, only better. It's the whole Ginger Rodgers had to dance backwards in heels with Fred Astaire so she was better.... well, let's see Ginger toss Fred in the air and catch him without falling on her @ss and break something.
Anyway... what society can't do for chicks is meet their self actualization needs.... and this is where chicks live in their emotional stew... behaving like absolute idiots with 1st world problems. This is why they make career choices that do not pay as well as men.... because.... well.... men are not going to have society hand them ANYTHING. We have to REALLY worry about our hierarchy of needs, and the needs of our families... we have to MAKE MONEY and DO SH!T or we and our families will be on the street. It is the RARE man that actually gets to worry about 'self-actualization'.
But this is where many chicks spend their time. And MANY of them rely on the men in their lives to give them esteem, and purpose... and if you can't.... because she does not believe you are the best she can do.... well..... you get replaced.
The sad truth is that if you start acting like a simp in the futile attempt to make her happy.... as the sands shift on what actually makes her happy.... you come off as weak and she will lose emotional attraction for you.... after all.... 4 or 5 needs are already covered by Government and White Knights.
Mike i love you... But you wrong on 1 part.
Women income is raising faster than Male.
Women are estimated to be in control of 46% of the wealth (in Canada) by the 2020-2030.
Why? They going at all the "high paying job" (médical, law, high bureaucrate, nursing, engineering).
"High paying job" aka "university degrees" where they start at 60 000$+
The only 60 000$+ job for Men field are in "engineering, Plumbing, construction, business owning" . (Actually man can also apply on all the field... But they only 30% of the university student population.... So 70% of the high income programs are women)
Also, Women are more efficient in crédit card and investment than men.
It's a USA survey.
Western chick believe they are goddess due to society (cause they are now 100% indépendant, and they biological needs ask them to control everything). They have issues now "settling down" because it soo easy to change and have "more" (better dude).
Western male have been "féminized" by éducation and western society.
However do you know where you meet also "female-man" ? In ASIA.
It's so easy to pickup married Japanese women. Why? They man are womenly and work 20hours a day. Its a traditional society too, so a women expected to stop working when becoming a mother.
Still, Asian Women have traditionnel value and a comparaison scale that make "western man" a good choice in the "average scale"
Asian and European rich are far more richer than USA/western rich... Its just the wealth is diversified and calculated differently (trust fund, royal estate, governmental control).
We living in a Women world now.
However, an Alpha Male and Good Guy with his focus and control... He will get the girl and likely good LTR options. The rule of the game never changed... Its the 1% take
The current situation also brings: Women are catching up Male Life expectancy (so they actually losing life expectancy... The male are catching up.... Its a first in history). Women are increasingly drinking alcohol, and increasingly have road rage. They also seek to avoid "motherhood" more. They prefer internet validation to real human validation (male are the same).
Have you noticed politically that Politics for Women hasnt been good in the past 3 years: Clinton lost and corruption issues, all the female politiciens and "président" have been caught in sex/finance scandal (argentina, Korea, brazial, italy, UK, Canada, usa)... Only in Germans a female leader seems "fine" (shes starting after 18 years to get some opposition lol).
Also, Luc Besson (big French producer known in USA for the Fifth élément with Bruce Willis) was accused of Raping a 25 years old women. He's 60.
The 25 years old women has accused Luc Besson of having sex with her volontarily for 2 years (she is a plate) but it didnt produce the work she wanted and she doesnt love him anymore. WTF!
Anyhow. Its in a female nature to blame others. Its in the male nature to be associated with results.
Male now might give "empty validation" ... And there is a reason why Incels (like usa and Canada récent mass murder) are going crazy... There is a reason male suicide rate is 75%. There is a reason suicide rate is exploding everywhere since the 1960 (likely data collection methods, and lack of family unit, goals, stress).
Anyway. Life is hard.
People are feeling more and more squashed by corporate work / family demands.
Life aint getting easier. We going back to the 1930s... Without the religion and the families units