Skyline
Master Don Juan
Here's an interesting story...
There's this girl that one of my good friend knows, we'll call him friend A. Before her, it was basically just the three of us. But one day she invited him and all of us over and ended up confessing her "love" to my friend A. Meanwhile, me and friend C were just kind of there to chill and hang out. Friend A ended up essentially friend zoning her and we didn't hear from her for about a year up until now.
What she's like... She is a cool girl. But coolness doesn't always equal desirability. She's kind of nerdy, generally attracts AFC's, a bit chubby, and has a short haircut. I recently found out that she was a "feminist" as well... I can't rate her because there is no point in rating someone that falls below my radar. She's not very desirable sexually in my opinion.
She's also a tester. The amount of sh*t tests she throws me is UNREAL. It's to the point where she doesn't take me seriously when I reply to her and it ends up with everyone laughing because of my ridicules responses.
Anyway, fast forward to about two weeks ago. She starts hanging out with us again and I noticed that she started to talk to friend C a lot more than friend A or me. Friend A never really spoke to her about "breaking her heart" so it's basically an elephant in the room between them.
But here's where the manipulative gaming comes into play...
She talks to friend C a lot as of recently. He and friend C are really good buddies, in fact the three of us all are. I don't think it's an accident that they got really close, because he's very open and and is hard to upset, whilst I can sense when she's sh*t testing me and retaliate. Not only that, he and her started to have inside jokes about friend A. Meaning they, or she, talks about friend A.
Now where I come into play... The sh*t tests got worse. In fact I would say they got really gay. She would always bring up me and friend A in some gay way and it's blatantly obvious that she is still interested in him. But remember how I said she was a feminist? Well not only does she have the short hair cut with minimal sexual desire... But the way she talks to my two other buddies is in a demanding manner. It's like she's got their frames. She'll demand something in a calm manner, demand not ask, and one of them will do it. It's like she wants their attention but not them..? And if she says it towards me, I either tell her to ask more nicely or reply with an indifferent answer.
I didn't realize what was going on until I was one on one with my friend A and he had said that she and friend C were talking about him. And I never thought about it because she never "broke" my frame. If me and friend A DID care about her then we would probably get jealous. Especially friend A.
Don't her moves sound familiar? Haven't you heard something like this said before on this forum? Yes!
"Use other women as jealously against her." - PlayHer_Man.
A girl with minimal sexual desire, whether consciously or not, knew this. That honestly amazes me.
Be careful guys. If friend A cared, he would be upset about friend C and would probably be fighting over her. I also believe that Respect must be made more clear when a woman crosses a line. My buddies are just stroking her ego when she does something obnoxious, like burp really loud and have them 'bless her' while I tell her that that's disgusting...
You can't let women or anyone walk all over you.
There's this girl that one of my good friend knows, we'll call him friend A. Before her, it was basically just the three of us. But one day she invited him and all of us over and ended up confessing her "love" to my friend A. Meanwhile, me and friend C were just kind of there to chill and hang out. Friend A ended up essentially friend zoning her and we didn't hear from her for about a year up until now.
What she's like... She is a cool girl. But coolness doesn't always equal desirability. She's kind of nerdy, generally attracts AFC's, a bit chubby, and has a short haircut. I recently found out that she was a "feminist" as well... I can't rate her because there is no point in rating someone that falls below my radar. She's not very desirable sexually in my opinion.
She's also a tester. The amount of sh*t tests she throws me is UNREAL. It's to the point where she doesn't take me seriously when I reply to her and it ends up with everyone laughing because of my ridicules responses.
Anyway, fast forward to about two weeks ago. She starts hanging out with us again and I noticed that she started to talk to friend C a lot more than friend A or me. Friend A never really spoke to her about "breaking her heart" so it's basically an elephant in the room between them.
But here's where the manipulative gaming comes into play...
She talks to friend C a lot as of recently. He and friend C are really good buddies, in fact the three of us all are. I don't think it's an accident that they got really close, because he's very open and and is hard to upset, whilst I can sense when she's sh*t testing me and retaliate. Not only that, he and her started to have inside jokes about friend A. Meaning they, or she, talks about friend A.
Now where I come into play... The sh*t tests got worse. In fact I would say they got really gay. She would always bring up me and friend A in some gay way and it's blatantly obvious that she is still interested in him. But remember how I said she was a feminist? Well not only does she have the short hair cut with minimal sexual desire... But the way she talks to my two other buddies is in a demanding manner. It's like she's got their frames. She'll demand something in a calm manner, demand not ask, and one of them will do it. It's like she wants their attention but not them..? And if she says it towards me, I either tell her to ask more nicely or reply with an indifferent answer.
I didn't realize what was going on until I was one on one with my friend A and he had said that she and friend C were talking about him. And I never thought about it because she never "broke" my frame. If me and friend A DID care about her then we would probably get jealous. Especially friend A.
Don't her moves sound familiar? Haven't you heard something like this said before on this forum? Yes!
"Use other women as jealously against her." - PlayHer_Man.
A girl with minimal sexual desire, whether consciously or not, knew this. That honestly amazes me.
Be careful guys. If friend A cared, he would be upset about friend C and would probably be fighting over her. I also believe that Respect must be made more clear when a woman crosses a line. My buddies are just stroking her ego when she does something obnoxious, like burp really loud and have them 'bless her' while I tell her that that's disgusting...
You can't let women or anyone walk all over you.
