Women are afraid of bachelor guys

[oldmanofthesea]

And the women are resentful because they take it as an insult, because you date young women instead of THEM. Come on, they hate you for dating women who are younger, cuter, and more fertile then they are. Deep down inside, old women are always jealous with young women not because of the age difference but because all the high-quality men are only after the young women, not them old hags.

It is true, and I can't date girls in my social circle any more because the women in my circle c0ck-block me. Recently met a girl at a party in my social circle and she was new to the group. Had a fantastic and deep 20 min conversation with her and I could tell she was into me. A few days later I sent her a friend request on FB and at the same time sent her a FB invite to a party I'm throwing in a few weeks. She rejected my friend-request (which is way more deliberate than what I and most people do if they aren't interested which is to just ignore the friend request) and responded "can't go" to the party invite. 100000% guaranteed she asked some of the girls in the group about me and they c0ck blocked me which is what prompted such a harsh response from her that was incongruent from my interaction with her at the party (and I know she's single and looking BTW).

They used the word "creepy" as a manipulative mechanism to shame you. And for what? For dating juicy and tasty and sexy young chicks? Haha, jokes on them.

Yup. A single guy in the group told me about them talking about it and my response to him was, "I don't care what they think about who I choose to date because I don't need their approval and even more importantly, it has NOTHING to do with them."

 

[TheNewStyle123]

Hi gentlemen,

I have noticed a very interesting phenomenon: One of my buddy's wife has been acting as if she's afraid of me lately. At first, I had no clues why, but eventually, I learned that she's afraid of me because while both of them have been married for 3 years, I'm still single. Now, I was friend with the both of them before their marriage, everything was ok, but now, I can't help but notice her resentment and fear towards me.

So, I have developed a personal theory for this phenomenon:

To women in general, they can only feel safe as long as they have successfully "locked down" a guy, and his resources. A bachelor guy (like me) can never make a woman really feel safe because he can always goes out there and fvck other women. In my friend's case, even though she has already "locked" him down, but she still sees me as a "threat" perhaps because, on a subconscious level, a bachelor guy like me hanging around her wife might be a bad source of influence upon her husband.

She's afraid that, her husband, in seeing me enjoying my free life without the burden of a woman, might (even though the chance is close to zero) someday crave that lifestyle and leave her.

What do you think, SS brothers? Has any of you experienced the same thing I did?

Totally agree man! I've experienced this with my friends in both marriages and engagements.. even LTRs.

 

[HaleyBaron]

In my industry, I see tons of men who brag about his wife supporting him as his best friend through his projects, or seeing such a thing written in the foreword of multiple books written by men. It's like they treat their wife as their best friend, which is the saddest thing ever. Even before I learned about all of this stuff, I use to ask why so many guys thought of their lovers as their bestest friends. Mostly cause I use to be upset, or at least disappointed, that whenever my friends got gfs, they just stopped hanging out all together. Suddenly, they were spending most of their time with their girlfriends. I do not know about you, but I thought there use to be a time when men made it a thing to get away from their girlfriends and wives, not make them into your emotional support.

 

[manfrombelow]

In my industry, I see tons of men who brag about his wife supporting him as his best friend through his projects, or seeing such a thing written in the foreword of multiple books written by men. It's like they treat their wife as their best friend, which is the saddest thing ever. Even before I learned about all of this stuff, I use to ask why so many guys thought of their lovers as their bestest friends. Mostly cause I use to be upset, or at least disappointed, that whenever my friends got gfs, they just stopped hanging out all together. Suddenly, they were spending most of their time with their girlfriends. I do not know about you, but I thought there use to be a time when men made it a thing to get away from their girlfriends and wives, not make them into your emotional support.

Men succumbing to women is the way modern leftist society wants.

 

[SW15]

It's a projection of her not being able to deal with the prospect of becoming single, especially if she has let herself go and is no longer attractive enough to play the game.

Yes, this is it! The women who know that they will be in demand once they hit the market don't act this way.

Although, demand is rising for all women, even the unattractive ones, so I don't think you'll see as much of the behavior described in this thread among off market/married women in the future. Married women now know that they'll be heavily pursued once they breakup and put themselves on swipe apps.

Lots of married women are getting their Facebook, Instagram, and LinkedIn DMs blown up by men looking to have sex with them.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

It is true, and I can't date girls in my social circle any more because the women in my circle c0ck-block me. Recently met a girl at a party in my social circle and she was new to the group. Had a fantastic and deep 20 min conversation with her and I could tell she was into me. A few days later I sent her a friend request on FB and at the same time sent her a FB invite to a party I'm throwing in a few weeks. She rejected my friend-request (which is way more deliberate than what I and most people do if they aren't interested which is to just ignore the friend request) and responded "can't go" to the party invite. 100000% guaranteed she asked some of the girls in the group about me and they c0ck blocked me which is what prompted such a harsh response from her that was incongruent from my interaction with her at the party (and I know she's single and looking BTW).



Yup. A single guy in the group told me about them talking about it and my response to him was, "I don't care what they think about who I choose to date because I don't need their approval and even more importantly, it has NOTHING to do with them."

Its wold how they want to own you and control your decisions.

 

[RangerMIke]

That's because you have the same income, but you don't spend it on all the crap that your friend's wives want.

Women will spend money you DON'T have. They will always find a reason for you to take on debt. They think having a number of credit cards with high limits is something to be proud of.

First thing I did after my divorce was to consolidate all the credit card debt into one low interest rate loan secured with property at a 20 year term and have been paying this off for 15 years now. I'm not going to tell you what it was... because frankly I am embarrassed that I let that sh1t get out of control. But I will say that the principle on this loan TODAY is $4,835.53... NONE of that was mine... NONE OF IT. But that was part of the divorce decree that I take this on. I could just pay it off, but my investments are gaining an average of 9% per year, and this loan is costing 2.375%... so it's a net gain of almost 6%. And the property I have this loan secured with has increase in value by the interest rate, adjusted for inflation. SO it's basically free money.

I went from having 10 credit cards to 2... a Brooks Brothers card I only use to get the card discount on clothes which I pay off when I use it, and a back-up card that I only use in emergencies, again I pay that off every month. Really the only time I use that card is when I rent cars when I'm on trips because almost all car rental places insist on using a credit card. Other wise I just use my bank debit card.

First let me say that ALL WOMEN are not like this, but when I take on clients that are female small business owners, whose businesses are in trouble, more often than not, they have MASSIVE amounts of high interest rate debt. If they don't let me address this, consolidate their debt, burn their credit cards, and commit to fiscal prudence, I will not take them on as a client. Your finances are the life blood of your business... if you don't fix your cash flow issues, it's like someone getting a triple bypass operation and then refusing to stop eating at McDonald's every day.

 

[manfrombelow]

Women will spend money you DON'T have. They will always find a reason for you to take on debt. They think having a number of credit cards with high limits is something to be proud of.

First thing I did after my divorce was to consolidate all the credit card debt into one low interest rate loan secured with property at a 20 year term and have been paying this off for 15 years now. I'm not going to tell you what it was... because frankly I am embarrassed that I let that sh1t get out of control. But I will say that the principle on this loan TODAY is $4,835.53... NONE of that was mine... NONE OF IT. But that was part of the divorce decree that I take this on. I could just pay it off, but my investments are gaining an average of 9% per year, and this loan is costing 2.375%... so it's a net gain of almost 6%. And the property I have this loan secured with has increase in value by the interest rate, adjusted for inflation. SO it's basically free money.

I went from having 10 credit cards to 2... a Brooks Brothers card I only use to get the card discount on clothes which I pay off when I use it, and a back-up card that I only use in emergencies, again I pay that off every month. Really the only time I use that card is when I rent cars when I'm on trips because almost all car rental places insist on using a credit card. Other wise I just use my bank debit card.

First let me say that ALL WOMEN are not like this, but when I take on clients that are female small business owners, whose businesses are in trouble, more often than not, they have MASSIVE amounts of high interest rate debt. If they don't let me address this, consolidate their debt, burn their credit cards, and commit to fiscal prudence, I will not take them on as a client. Your finances are the life blood of your business... if you don't fix your cash flow issues, it's like someone getting a triple bypass operation and then refusing to stop eating at McDonald's every day.

I cancelled all my credit cards a long time ago and now all I'm having is all but one debit card.

Being all by myself, I realize that as a single man, I have very little material needs in life.

When I quit smoking and drinking about one year ago, my spending was decreased even lowered.

 

[BadBoy89]

She's afraid that, her husband, in seeing me enjoying my free life without the burden of a woman, might (even though the chance is close to zero) someday crave that lifestyle and leave her.

The woman could also think there is something wrong with the man because he can’t get married.

 

[BMX]

The woman could also think there is something wrong with the man because he can’t get married.

Whatever helps their useless brain shutdown at night .