Women and their male friends

[surfdog]

That's not your girlfriend buddy, that's one of his plates. She won't commit because she's waiting on him to commit. Your there to make him jealous, but if it doesn't work...she'll choose you. In fact, the fact that you let him kiss her in front of you means that you will always be plan B. You are trying to make her jealous and it isn't working because she knows that you will stand by and take disrepect (kissing in front of you) so you have lost status in her eyes.

Now I may be completely wrong on how I read this...but good lord man. Grow a pair and move on. If she wants you she'll come to you, if she doesn't, then your out of a horrible situation and you know your anwser. Don't get emotional, just withdraw your attention, and go after those other plates for real.

Hi Warrior74 thanks for replying

The thing is I don't think that's the case, I am pretty sure she only likes him as a friend. What bothers me is how the guy disrespects me by ignoring me..he's also doing it to my friend's gf (like dirty dancing to her...ignoring my friend etc) and that really annoys him aswell.

The fact that the guy is disrespecting me and the fact that my girl is good friends with him is what's bothering me.:trouble:

Last night, I asked her to come out with me..she gave me the good ol BS excuses like "I'm too tired" "My parents won't let me" etc
So I made her think that I was out with another girl. Just to make her angry as well as showing her that if she doesn't want to be with me..there is always 5 or 6 other girls who do, so she can get her priorities right.

When I called her later that night, I could tell that she was really bothered by it..hahaha she almost cried..she tried to make me jealous by saying that the guy I mentioned was coming over to hers..which I didn't buy at all. She kept calling me a d*ckhead/prick for doing that to her. hahaha

But yeah that proved that she does care about us..and then we ended up talking on the phone for like 2hrs (I know! what was I thinking?!?!) but throughout the 2 hrs she was extra nice to me..constantly telling me that she loves me etc.

So yeah I am pretty sure she is on MY team not his..
Just the fact that girls are always going to have male friends and the fact that my girls male friend is a complete a$$ is what's bothering me.

Like I can't tell her NOT to see him, not to be friends with him or throw out ultimatums because I'd come off as insecure and it is pretty much relationship suicide. But if I do nothing about it it is just going to keep bothering me in the future. So what can I do?

 

[Nutz]

I disagree with some of these comments. I have several female friends and can honestly say i do not want to fvck them. Not because the arn't attractive, god one is probably around a hb8. Female friends can be very very useful, the amount of parties i have been invited to through them and also the good things they say about you to their friends which then spread your rep.

But this guy definatley seems to be after her. The same thing happend to me with a guy at my girlfriends college. He sings the song by Mario 'You Should Let Me Love You' to her in psychology haha.

LOL, he speaks from experience. All 16 years of it. Seriously though, he does make a good point that you can't screw all the hotties out there and some you'll just have to settle for them making good inroads into hot social circles. From there you'll have social proof and be able to work social circle game, which IMO is the best type of game out there (at least up to this point it has been IMO).

Anyways, back on point....

Most ATTRACTIVE women have guy friends, many of which will have sex with her if the opportunity presents itself. That's just the way it is.

What you really have to watch out for are the women who almost exclusively have male friends. They're the AWs who claim they "don't like the drama" and "don't get along well" with other women. In reality they just like the attention, favors, NSA sex, etc from what effectively amounts to being a harem of guys. Not all the guys in that harem are getting sex, but SHE is most certainly getting something out of each and every one of those guys.