Women and Myspace

[Luveno]

Here's something else to think about on myspace:

Do not request that a girl be added to your friends list. That is a move of supplication similar to leaving a picture comment. If a girl asks to be on your list, then you can add them if you want - it doesn't really matter at that point because you already got their AIM and set up a date, right?

I find keeping a friends list pared down to actual friends and lovers you know in the real world is more effective. It conveys an air of exclusivity. And that is true because you have high standards, right?

 

[mountain]

I cannot believe that people are trying to "teach" the ON-LINE thing in a "DJ" room. DJs don't need the Internet to get laid or find relationships...UNLESS they are going througha draught or is having several days of bad luck...then and only then, I feel is appropriate to use the Internet as a tool to get jump-started.

I've personally never used the internet to meet women. But I don't see anything wrong with it. It's a changing world and along with it comes a shift in social conventions. Do you remember the early 90s when computers were just for dorks? Things change and being a DJ is about adapting to your environment and using every tool that is avaliable.

 

[SoCalMike]

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Personally I've had bad experiences with the internet. Using all the techniques Luveno mentions I've ended up on dates with girls who look nothing like their pics (i.e. fat), or single moms, druggies, etc.

If you think about it, why would a hot girl with no issues need to go on myspace to find a man? Obviously she wouldn't. Too busy? Common now, who is too busy to go out once in a while? Even if she never went out she'd be getting hit on left and right at work, grocery store, etc.

It's been my experience that the number of hot, quality women online is very low compared to the real world. Sure it's possible, but why bother when your chances are better other places?

 

[insidious]

Well we certainly have our opinions about the internet, don't we!

I was a big detractor of online PU and dating. I still think it's not a great idea, especially for men. But I may be coming around. I've hooked up a couple of internet 'chats' lately. Thing is, anything you do on the internet should only augment your existing real-life game. I see, too many times, mostly women, who tend to supplant their entire social life with computer dating.

I meet a few chicks here and there, we chat, but I have a life outside of that. My priority is working on the old-fashioned face game. Putting my personality, my charms, to use.

The internet is one-dimensional. It reduces you to statistics, to paper. It allows women to judge you based on lame-ass vague criteria cause they are chicken-**** when it comes to trusting their own instincts. Better to have match.com or myspace make the decision for them. Women have become bigger cowards than men in this game. It's a wake-up call for us, guys. Women are scared ****less of us.

I'm one of those people who 'to know me is to love me' :yes: But I take ****ty photos and my physical dimensions aren't scintillating enough lol but seriously, I'm fine with myself and I know I can hook most chicks if you give me some face time with them.

 

[rapless]

It is a mistake to assume that the women on Myspace and other websites that facilitate meeting people are nasty "problem" women, and that women with no issues/baggage don't need the internet.

You could go somewhere and meet an HB9 who has her sh!t together, and for all you know, she could have a Myspace profile. Many women are sick of experiencing the same sh!t when they go out...being approached by guys with lame-a$$ lines. It would save more time and be a lot more comfortable for them to weed through that stuff from a computer, wouldn't you say?

Chances are that a lot of attractive women you've all seen out there have done the Myspace or chatroom thing.

 

[Luveno]

It is always a bad idea to make sweeping generalizations about anything. Saying that all women who use myspace are problem women is an impossible statement that cannot be backed up.

Just as with anything in life, there will be desirable people, and there will be undesirable people. It is our job to fine-tune our filters so that we find those that are worthy of our time, regardless of the medium.

 

[ER!C L!VE]

The internet is a smooth means to an end for many people. If online dating works for you, great. If it doesn't, then find something that does.

Above all else, do not discourage people from utilizing every social medium available to meet women - especially mediums that work (EG internet dating).

 

[PowertripII]

Guys, some of this is just going in the wrong direction.

MySpace, personals, etc are all about marketing yourself. It's giving women a way to get in touch with you and do some research before she decides to 'buy'.

Look at it in the sense that there are TV commercials (myspace) and products (you). Both have to work together to reach their objectives, neither does it alone. Do not go on-line and starting cold-calling potential candidates (which for the females must be the equivalent of getting a telemarketing call about refinancing their mortgage during dinner); live your life, put the highlights on the 'net and let them beat down your door.

 

[disciple]

The truth is that it doesn't matter how or where you meet women. P*ssy is p*ssy.

I've f*cked chicks I met in person and online.

I've met attractive women with both.

If you only use the internet because you are too afraid of rejection to communicate with a woman in person, then you need to check your game.

Otherwise, what the f*ck does it matter?

 

[Latinoman]

I've personally never used the internet to meet women. But I don't see anything wrong with it. It's a changing world and along with it comes a shift in social conventions. Do you remember the early 90s when computers were just for dorks? Things change and being a DJ is about adapting to your environment and using every tool that is avaliable.

It is very pathetic to rationalize the obvious ("changing environment", etc.). ANYONE can get good "hits" in the Internet. ANYONE with rustic level of communication skills.

The INTERNET is so "fake" that even FAKE "ids" are used.

The fact remains...intimacy is a PERSON to PERSON thing. And because of that, it takes a REAL DJ to deal with succesfully with the REAL world.

 

[Latinoman]

Personally I've had bad experiences with the internet. Using all the techniques Luveno mentions I've ended up on dates with girls who look nothing like their pics (i.e. fat), or single moms, druggies, etc.

If you think about it, why would a hot girl with no issues need to go on myspace to find a man? Obviously she wouldn't. Too busy? Common now, who is too busy to go out once in a while? Even if she never went out she'd be getting hit on left and right at work, grocery store, etc.

It's been my experience that the number of hot, quality women online is very low compared to the real world. Sure it's possible, but why bother when your chances are better other places?

EXACTLY.

Men in the Internet find what's left.

 

[Latinoman]

You could go somewhere and meet an HB9 who has her sh!t together, and for all you know, she could have a Myspace profile. Many women are sick of experiencing the same sh!t when they go out...being approached by guys with lame-a$$ lines. It would save more time and be a lot more comfortable for them to weed through that stuff from a computer, wouldn't you say?

Chances are that a lot of attractive women you've all seen out there have done the Myspace or chatroom thing.

Dude...you are starting to sound like a woman. Take a masculinity pill!

 

[Latinoman]

The truth is that it doesn't matter how or where you meet women. P*ssy is p*ssy.

I've f*cked chicks I met in person and online.

I've met attractive women with both.

If you only use the internet because you are too afraid of rejection to communicate with a woman in person, then you need to check your game.

Otherwise, what the f*ck does it matter?

Excellent point! I don't disagree with this either.

However, people are talking like the Internet is a place to find quality woman. Or that they have "game" because they seek Internet.

In reallity...the Internet is a LAST resource to find puzzy. Because NOT even a healthy relationship can come from there (unless both are Ls). And because the BEST is not in the Internet.

So...you have to settle down for LESS.

 

[Luveno]

Let's get this straight:

In order to game on the net you need superb face-to-face DJ skills.

Why?

When meeting a girl off the net in real life, you must have the ability to actually talk to, and seduce, her. You must channel the fear she is feeling from meeting a stranger for the first time into lust - they are both very similar emotions.

Like I said before, the net isn't where you converse with these girls. It's like a catalogue where you search for the best looking one, get her contact info, and then take your game to reality. It's so efficient!

Those who are saying that using the net is not a valid method of finding good girls are wrong. On the contrary, to use the net effectively you need to have beyond excellent face-to-face skills!

 

[Latinoman]

Let's get this straight:

In order to game on the net you need superb face-to-face DJ skills.

Why?

When meeting a girl off the net in real life, you must have the ability to actually talk to, and seduce, her. You must channel the fear she is feeling from meeting a stranger for the first time into lust - they are both very similar emotions.

Like I said before, the net isn't where you converse with these girls. It's like a catalogue where you search for the best looking one, get her contact info, and then take your game to reality. It's so efficient!

Those who are saying that using the net is not a valid method of finding good girls are wrong. On the contrary, to use the net effectively you need to have beyond excellent face-to-face skills!

Dude...you still pathetically justifying things.

I spent about 2 years studying the "dating" and regular "forums" in the Internet. I did that prior to finally getting out of my house (divorce) and to avoid getting together with REAL LIFE woman. Research...and I was VERY good and succesful with both (especially the 'forums').

You don't need DJ skills. All you need is an attitude and a good picture. Most of those women are desperate anyhow.

If you are so "dj"...then go to the Library or Book Store or Park or Museum or Bus Stop and find yourself a quality woman. Instead of settling for desperate Internet chicks.