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The Duke

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On the way into work today I was listening to a morning talk show on the radio. The topic of discussion was being in love with multiple people. Some woman calls in to say she loved two men at
the same time for a period of 2yrs. Eventually one of the men she was dating proposed marriage to her. The other guy she dated had been in the picture for a long time but never wanted "to take the relationship to the next level". Which likely meant he didn't want marriage and she did.

So which guy did she stay with? lol, the one who proposed marriage of course!

So the female radio show host then asks if this woman ever thought of the other guy. At first she denies ever doing so. Then she says only when her new husband isn't around. Then the host gets her to admit that she wishes the other guy would have been her 1st choice for marriage. It was obvious that the talk show host had done something similar as well.

Fella's.....stories like this happen all the time. Some women have such a strong desire to be married that they are willing to forgo their desire for the man that flips all of her emotional switches in order to get a little "security" in the form of marriage. Don't be the guy that is the consolation price.

The guy she married will pay the price. She'll cause discontent in that marriage all because she isn't happy with her decision. That poor fool will likely never know why either. Her attention will be focused on the one that got away and knew how to make her vagina tingle.

Never be the guy that proposes marriage. Let that woman beg you to marry her. Make her beg for several years before you cave in. Its the only way to filter out things like this.
 
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hence why I told all my friends (im24) that jumping into marriage and you’ve only known these women for 1-2 yearsis STUPID. No one listens. Hell I see divorce all over my Facebook along with more young couples getting married.

One dude I know knows a girl who did p0rn and STILL asked her to marry him after only dating for a year.

Stay single or at least don’t get married.
 

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Yep, I'm putting marriage in the 'maybe later' category.

As long as I can attract women of all ages... Being single, I am way more dangerous. Even if I'm only making just a crack, society will eventually break at some point. The human race can't continue under these conditions.

As long as ladies know there's guys like me somewhere out there, orbiters have no hope!:D
 

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On the way into work today I was listening to a morning talk show on the radio. The topic of discussion was being in love with multiple people. Some woman calls in to say she loved two men at
the same time for a period of 2yrs. Eventually one of the men she was dating proposed marriage to her. The other guy she dated had been in the picture for a long time but never wanted "to take the relationship to the next level". Which likely meant he didn't want marriage and she did.

So which guy did she stay with? lol, the one who proposed marriage of course!

So the female radio show host then asks if this woman ever thought of the other guy. At first she denies ever doing so. Then she says only when her new husband isn't around. Then the host gets her to admit that she wishes the other guy would have been her 1st choice for marriage. It was obvious that the talk show host had done something similar as well.

Fella's.....stories like this happen all the time. Some women have such a strong desire to be married that they are willing to forgo their desire for the man that flips all of her emotional switches in order to get a little "security" in the form of marriage. Don't be the guy that is the consolation price.

The guy she married will pay the price. She'll cause discontent in that marriage all because she isn't happy with her decision. That poor fool will likely never know why either. Her attention will be focused on the one that got away and knew how to make her vagina tingle.

Never be the guy that proposes marriage. Let that woman beg you to marry her. Make her beg for several years before you cave in. Its the only way to filter out things like this.
Hahaha.

Gotta laugh with this.

I've been in a couple LTR, they all wanted marriage and babies. Some even tried to preg 1st and force my hand into marriage.

Get this, they all married some poor schmuck and after a couple of years tried to hook back with me .

Found out some of those poor schmuck were just waiting around for years and years. I just felt deep pity for those blokes.
 

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My game plan was to date a woman in her early 20s and make her wait until age 27 to make any kind of commitment to her. Age 27 is when you absolutely need to make the decision of whether you should keep her or get rid of her. If she's past age 27, she's no good for commitment because some other guy has already been there, and she'll be thinking about him or possibly even contacting him while she's with you.

I've got 3 years left with my GF before she turns 27. I've known her for 4 years, been with her for 2. By the time she turns 27, she will have had 7 years to prove her worth. Not only should that be enough time, but that's when the biological clock starts ticking louder.
 

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My game plan was to date a woman in her early 20s and make her wait until age 27 to make any kind of commitment to her. Age 27 is when you absolutely need to make the decision of whether you should keep her or get rid of her. If she's past age 27, she's no good for commitment because some other guy has already been there, and she'll be thinking about him or possibly even contacting him while she's with you.

I've got 3 years left with my GF before she turns 27. I've known her for 4 years, been with her for 2. By the time she turns 27, she will have had 7 years to prove her worth. Not only should that be enough time, but that's when the biological clock starts ticking louder.
Every man here should make this his SOP.

In a way it is a form of kindness to let off a woman when she hits 26-27, don't keep her hanging when you have no intention to marry her.
 
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