Women always asking about my weekend/weekend plans

[gaspipe]

I always wondered whether its just small talk or expressing interest when a women usually inquires about my weekend or asks how Ive been:

1. Girl #1: A HB 7.5 receptionist at my office. I sense shes quite attracted to me. Usually asks about my weekend plans.

2. Girl #2: A HB 7.0 who works at an office supply store and whom I see quite often. Shes married but I also sense her sexual attraction to me. She often asks what I did over the weekend or asks how Ive been. Seems genuinely curious about my personal life.

My sense is if they aren't interested why would they constantly ask about my weekend other than to guage whether I have a girlfriend or as a hint for me to ask them out?

Any comments?

 

[DJnoob]

they just bored.. you desperate chump. Relax

 

[The_Crack]

Dont have to over analyse everything bro.. sometimes its just better to accept it the way it is. Simple.
They're just making small talk.. if you want to increase their interest, make a conscious effort rather than just reveling in them being "sexually attracted"

But i know what you mean by being able to feel the sexual tension, and maybe you are right. But if you want something to come from it, initiate convos regularly and do something with them after-work. Gotta start somewhere my man

 

[SgtSplacker]

Over analyze my arse! ANY girl talks to me like that and I'm gaming her immediately. Pay attention to what she is looking at, how she talks, how she regards you, what her answers are to your questions. If considering all this I still think she's interested I'll ask her to have lunch with me, maybe drinks after work, or just ask her out. Who cares if she says no. Just keep it respectful and friendly.

At least now she knows you are interested and if she keeps getting chatty with you after asking her out then shes definitely interested, continue to DHV yourself and build interest with her you already have a foot in the door.

 

[Mantis Toboggan]

I believe he's overanalyzing as well.

If he wants to use this as motivation to ask a girl out, then I support him. But generally speaking, this is the kind of small talk that happens everywhere I go.

Yes, I can tell the difference between a girl who's asking me about my weekend because she's bored, and one who's asking because she wants to be included.

But with the limited details the OP gave us, all I can say is, make a move...or don't make a move. Wondering about why a girl asks about your weekend plans is the sign of a passive player. Be proactive.

 

[Von_S]

Is this really a question or just a "so many chicks on my jock, what am I to do?" post?

 

[Pimp-sicle]

Over analyze my arse! ANY girl talks to me like that and I'm gaming her immediately. Pay attention to what she is looking at, how she talks, how she regards you, what her answers are to your questions. If considering all this I still think she's interested I'll ask her to have lunch with me, maybe drinks after work, or just ask her out. Who cares if she says no. Just keep it respectful and friendly.

At least now she knows you are interested and if she keeps getting chatty with you after asking her out then shes definitely interested, continue to DHV yourself and build interest with her you already have a foot in the door.

Couldn't have said it better! Good post







PIMP

 

[st_99]

Over analyze my arse! ANY girl talks to me like that and I'm gaming her immediately. Pay attention to what she is looking at, how she talks, how she regards you, what her answers are to your questions. If considering all this I still think she's interested I'll ask her to have lunch with me, maybe drinks after work, or just ask her out. Who cares if she says no. Just keep it respectful and friendly.

At least now she knows you are interested and if she keeps getting chatty with you after asking her out then shes definitely interested, continue to DHV yourself and build interest with her you already have a foot in the door.

I certainly agree that as men, I don't think we do a good enough job of picking up on subtle ques from women. 9/10 times interest is expressed very subtly, its just the way it is. Women I think are far better at picking up on covert things to read people and perhaps they expect the same from us. But guys I think just don't care about these sort of things and so we arent that good at it.

 

[gaspipe]

Is this really a question or just a "so many chicks on my jock, what am I to do?" post?

Actually this is a legitimate question. Before Ive had a major problem in picking up signs girls were sending out. And then I would hear "oh she had such a crush on you, why didn't you ask her out?"

I agree with st.99 in that women tend to send out very subtle clues that if we don't pick up on, we lose opportunities. Just wanted to get insights from you guys.

 

[SgtSplacker]

I don't believe women are as decisive as men. A man likes anything that looks good and is even remotely desirable. For women it's more abstract than that. I believe women are more apt to fall in love with a personality more than men do. Women are shoppers and can be convinced to make a purchase more than men. Sh1t I don't even have to be convinced at all when it comes to good looking women, if I can take it home it's coming home with me period lol end of story. Back up the truck I'm taking the whole store!

This is why you must game everything desirable you come in contact with. You never know if you might represent something she wants with something as subtle as a comment, or reaction to something. Heck maybe making that good impression on her causes her to speak highly of you to one of her friends or something. If you get her to start talking about you who knows what can happen maybe one of her super fine friends will decide to go for you. You go home one day thinking your a badarse because this super fine girl totally came on to you, when it really was her priming that 10 with compliments about you.

A long time ago I realized that impressed women are like seeds that grow. You might not eat the fruit today, but you will see that finding those random fruit trees will keep your belly full in your travels throughout your life. I have run into girls years after applying game and they had a very good impression of me from before. And for some reason THAT marinaded game is 1000% more potent than anything I could tell a stranger that night. These girls remember you, your all about those "good times" when they were younger. They trust you because they feel they know you.

This is why it's so critical to break up with a woman in style. Before it turns into a miserable breakup where everyone is drained and empty and feeling horrible & offended. Relationship is going south? "Look honey, I think your not really into me anymore. I dunno I just feel this way. I want to take some time off from us. I still care for you. I'm here for you if you need me 100%. But I'm not going to call you anymore at least for a little while. OK?" and PEACE OUT leave that girl alone. You never know, she will see you some time down the line and she will remember you as the best relationship she had. That smoothster that just saw it was going bad and ended it like a champ. Maybe it will be sooner than you think...

One of my personal rules: (One of my friends actually told me this one lol)
Never jeopardize a cooch.