Man every once in a while someone comes on this forum peddling this bullsh!t... use some fvcking stats. Men cheat on women as much as or more than women cheat on men. You're saying men can't love their wife and still have sex with other women? that women are incapable of love but men are? These views are only possible to have because you get them from your echo chamber and hang out on another one...
Didn't say anything of the sort. That was your echo chamber. We see what we want to see.
Yes. I am saying that women do not love a man the way he thinks he does. This is biology. I don't know you of course. But even if there were stats on this, you wouldn't believe them if I did show them to you.
I've already done the surveys. In person. The bullsh!t I see on this forum is that established guys who don't like their little world rocked. It's the same on any forum.
Lets take a very simple, very basic truth. Lets keep it light. We aren't going to throw it out because someones sensibilities are offended.
The average girl will loose her virginity at lets say 14-16 years old. How many boys are still virgin at this point? I know I was. All I cared about was baseball and Rugby.
So lets move it forward to when shes 18. The average is around 8 guys. We are keeping it conservative. Most boys are still virgins. Yes? No? So you are saying that these girls never even kissed another guy until the regular guy knows he's been broken up with? Interesting.
So now lets move it forward. Most college students are women. The most graduating college students are women. First time away from home etc. At 8 to however many guys shes had, she's seriously depleted her ability to "pair-bond". Shes in a propaganda concentration camp. College/University. If you have any questions on this, please refer to Atom Smasher's latest posts. In college, most of the guys I knew were not getting any. The vast majority maybe have had one girlfriend. I spent most of my time on a pitchers mound. Even in the off season. But I had at the time two girlfriends that lasted a couple of months each. I did have a young cutie that whenever she got drunk, would come knock on my dorm room door. So that part was good for me. I'm 6'2" and in very good shape by then and could spin a curve-ball pretty darn good. We didn't even know what "game" was and those three women come to me. I had my sights set on the military and Special Forces. So at 20 years old, I had had three women but I was a late bloomer and it was starting to gain a headwind. Most men that I knew were still jacking off a few times a day in frustration.
Even most of the coveted football players were frustrated. Naturally the "chad" types were getting plenty. They didn't have "game" per say, the women came to them. Well, I guess that's game.
Lets move it forward. Lets say she is 21 or 22 and has graduated with her HR degree or whatever she could easily get. She's been sowing her oats for sure. Again, lets be very conservative. Lets say shes had by this point, 15-20 men. Naturally, she most likely got curious and tried a good double-stuff with two guys at least once if shes really cute. Fatties and fives and sixes get plenty of action and are generally higher in numbers. Women are serious competitors. Obviously she made sure she was completely broken up with any man before even kissing another man. Some of the men, just by default and their innocent viewpoint in life and their Feminine Imperative training from growing up in our world, would automatically think that because they had sex with a woman that it was then a boyfriend/girlfriend thing. Oooops.
Lets move it forward some more. Again, lets be stupidly conservative and pretend we are in fairyland and from 21 to 27 years old she only had 2 boyfriends per year. So by 27 and being very conservative, shes had another 12 men between 21 and 27 years old. Naturally, she was completely broke up from one guy before swinging to the new guy. So lets say 32 men for arguments sake. LMAO
In reality she was never single from lets say 18 to 27. She has always had a guy ready and willing. Did you know that women are natural plate spinners? Lets assume that 80% were good girls and wouldn't even think about spinning plates. Lets get really deep into fairyland.
Most men that I know, have illusions of a cute wife and a house and children. This is what they are programmed to do. I know I was. 80% + of men are after the american dream. Men are builders by nature. Building a family falls right into line with his natural inclinations. Just look at all the men fighting to get into a relationship with women with over 30 partners and are not even 30 years old yet. Of course with all those partners she never was seeing more than one a time and she always made sure that whatever guy was the "boyfriend" knew absolutely that she was breaking up before even kissing another guy. Just ask them. They will tell you how honorable and decent they've been. Why would she lie like that? Because she knows the man to marry has a fantasy in his head that he can't let go of. This makes him easy to manipulate. He wants to build something awesome. She knows that he will procure her survival but she needs to keep one foot out in case she has an opportunity to bounce to a higher potential survival potential guy or her husband happens to fail.
At lets say at 30 partners, she is unable to pair-bond. Shes been run through. In fact, she has ruined herself. So lets take this to marriage. She can't ever feel deeply connected to her husband. Yet he feels that connection because of the way he is wired and the way he thinks from his social Feminine programming.
In very little time the marginal "honeymoon" wears off for her. She starts longing for the excitement. She starts thinking that she settled when in fact there are some great qualities in her husband BUT she cant connect with him deeply. That's why she thinks she has settled. Well she actually can't connect deeply with any man who is not a Rogue and Rake. Nope she will always make sure that her husband knows its over and done before she even kisses another guy. Most likely her number is closer to 50 than 30.
So you think all these men, and there's the vast majority of them, are actually going out and banging women? LOL Well lets follow the available statistics out there and assume he has slept with 5 to 8 women by 30. (actually 5-8 women is in a lifetime) He is most definitely able to pair-bond as a man. He throws everything into his marriage. Ooops. But he loves her. Shes his best friend and confidant. He doesn't know she is bored stiff and her only cure is an exciting man. He works even harder for that one or two nights of sex a month.
Do I need to go on to 67 to 70% divorce rates between the ages of 18 and 40? The 50% statistics includes the 50 to 80 year olds that have squashed SMV and divorce will do neither any good so they don't. A 50 year old woman is not going to get divorced, as a rule, because she will be a cat lady and she knows it.
Any average man (95%) who thinks he can compete with a woman for the number of sex partners is one dumb b@stard. The problem with this society is the actions and strategies of women are cloaked and concealed from open scrutiny by society. This has been going on since the dawn of time. It's just that the state facilitates a woman's breeding strategy.
