typical said:
Nothing new here move along people !!!
We have all seen or heard about something along these lines before, it's nothing new and you can not fight this double standard overtly it has to be done covertly.
Having said that let it be a lesson to all that never ever under any circumstances go back to an ex for any kind of favour especially if said ex is a crazy biatch.
I feel sorry for the dude but can't help but laugh at his stupidity.
pretty much this. I mean the dude's ex GF pulled out all his fvcking teeth of course that is fvcked up and of course that's a double standard i never said it wasn't. you can't show me where i said it wasn't beucase i never implied that it wasn't.
I'm just saying it's pissing in wind. of course it's a double standard. yes i understand the outcry that would take place if i as a man divorced my wife and became a dentist and yanked out all her teeth.
I'm just saying, first, the situation was quite avoidable by anyone with half a brain first and foremost. Let's not act like this was some unavoidable type of manifest destiny. Secondly, we live in a world of double standards. You can either point your finger at each and every one and cry about it or you can adapt.
I am too pragmatic to think that the world will change it's views beucase we point a few things out here or there. Guys are too whipped, we have too many men growing up in broken homes and never learn how to be men, and men never call women on their bull****. My approach is simply to spot and avoid if at all possible. Instead of me *****ing about the women who pulled my teeth out i would rather learn or i am more interested in learning abou the red flags that the guy missed so I don't end up with a ***** that tries to pull all my teeth out. To me, arguing about the de facto mindset of society is an utter waste of time. It doesn't mean I dont' think it's fvcked up, it's quite fvcked up, but I refuse to let it change or effect my overall outlook on life.
There are other double standards in life. I'm black, the truth is, there is **** I can't do that you probably can do. In my drug using days If i were ever caught with drugs on me the fact of the matter is, statistics show i would have a 10x more likely chance to end up behind bars than you would instead of being given a second chance, and i would get a longer jail sentence than you would, but yet i see no crying for the rafters about this issue. you just deal with it by not getting caught with drugs and being put in that particular situation. When I went to go buy my car last year, I went to 3 different dealerships and altogether they ran my credit about 8 times and I had to show my insurance card everytime I wanted to test drive a car. My Equifax score is about 755, my signature was good enough to buy any car on the lot. Hell I paid for the car with a check in full, yet everyone took one look at me put me through unnecessary hoops... i got followed around like i was trying to steal something rather than helped like a regular customer that I was. And I sold cars long enough, expensive cars enough to know that how I was treated was because they thought I could not buy antyhing on the lot, that wasn't standard procedure... you don't see me *****ing about that double standard.
And what about the double standards that work in my or your favor? You know how much free cologne I get when I go cologne shopping lol? I have gotten entire freaking bottles of cologne free, test sample bottles that they leave out becuase the woman behind the counter thinks I'm cute. I dated a girl once who I observed for a few days before I made my move on her and another black guy came up to her and she said she does not date black guys. 3 weeks later we were dating. What about htat double standard? When I was single I fvcked and fvcked and had no remorse at all and even the women who knew i was eseing other women, they didn't like it but they didn't thihnk anything was immoral about me. Yet if I knew a girl was just fvcking guys left and right she was a ***** and i would most likely stop talking to her.
There is a female jockey, who is a pretty good jockey and was good enough to ride in the most expensive race in the country a few years ago, that was busted with meth and barred from every race track in america becuase of it. On the other hand, there is another jockey who is a male who has been busted with just about every drug you can think of, was put on porbation by the horse racing people, misses a piss test, flees the state, does not come back, comes back with all his hair shaved off lol, and a few months later is allowed to ride again. that's a double standard.
It's like, in the web development industry, there are a ****load of crappy customers who don't undrestand the time and skill it takes to develop a high level website. You have some guys, who will sit back and try to convince the clients on how stupid they are being and how they are being and trying to explain to them how it takes X time and how you have to pay for qualifed work. My approach is simply to just not deal with ****ty clients lol. I do not waste one moment of my time dealing with clients who do not understand exactly waht they are getting
Life is full of double standards. It just is what it is. Crying about ea+
ch and every one does not make you enlightened or a rebel. It goes back to the 48 laws of power, think as you wish but behave like others. Some double stanards work in your favor some don't. but spending precious recources crying and *****ing beucase there is a double standards that goes against your way is a waste of life. Ackolwege it, figure out how to not put yourself in that position and move on. That's all you can do at the end of the day