******** Womaneese I am tired of Womaneese

[strollsrus]

What the heck??? I have a girl who is not single into me and she basicly tells me to make a move. So I go for a kiss and get rejected. then she says in this quite voice "Strollsrus I think somebody should slap you and it might be me"". What the Heck is that supose to mean???????? Then I met her 1 1/2 year old Daughter and she has told me several times my Daughter likes you... Please translate this ******** for me please.

 

[bugsquish]

Go back in about 18 years and try her daughter

 

[PEACEDJ]

What is she thinking.... DON'T WORRY ABOUT IT!

 

[GirlCrazy]

Seems to me like you should have made your move earlier, and now it's too late. Timing is everything. She probably wants to slap you because she feels she's put out all the signals she needed to, and you didn't pick up on them. Whatever it is you did wrong she probably thinks it's so obvious she shouldn't have to say it. You could most likely hound her into telling you what you did wrong, but I doubt it would help your chances with hooking up with her.

Looks like it's one strike and you're out. Move on.

Oh and get used to ********, cause unless you're gonna go gay, there's no escaping it.

 

[strollsrus]

Originally posted by bugsquish
Go back in about 18 years and try her daughter

I may just have to do that, if I can't get with her Mom. LOL

 

[TesuqueRed]

rapo player, maybe...

 

[hitop]

So I go for a kiss and get rejected

That says it all my man. This is the perfect time and place to move on, cut your losses early and think about some other nice lookin' philly.

 

[strollsrus]

Now what the Fack!!! She went on a vacation she was all nice to me and gave me a hug and kiss ))On the cheek)) now what the heck am I going to do now.

 

[OddTech]

You are going to move on and fine another girl.

 

[TesuqueRed]

Maybe she likes flirting with dominance play-acting.

 

[Oxide]

you are fvcking blind my man.

GO FOR THAT KISS, she is testing you adn playing hard to get. Go for it, and if she tries to slap you, say "i dont wanna play rough, i wanna play sex"

 

[drZaius09]

Originally posted by OddTech
You are going to move on and fine another girl.

No he isn't.

 

[chlywly]

Hhahahahahahaha this is too funny, I know the feeling some chics like to play this weird pseudo-hopeless-romantic mind games, seems like she's one of them..... Only trouble... I'd move on

 

[TheCloser]

Strollsrus I think somebody should slap you and it might be me"". What the Heck is that supose to mean????????

For that simple comment alone, you should next her and carry on with life....that's not ********, that's "chemical imbalance"

p.s. - why would you want to get involved with a chick who has a kid?

 

[Batman407]

no no no no no


she had to tell you to make a move.... that is uber wussy brother

she is telling you that her daughter loves you. that means that you have "value" to her, but unless you're able to amplify the "attraction" she has for you then I'm sorry... but you'll be stuck as her friend.

next time an opportunity for a move presents itself... just do it.... no hesitation... then back away and look at her deeply. you need some more tension in this relationship.

 

[MsThang]

Originally posted by strollsrus
she basicly tells me to make a move.

"Basically?"

First you have to explain THAT one. Men tend to interpret moves as being more flirtatious than they are and they are not very good at picking up on rejection signals. No, this isn't just experience, it was also a test done at the University of California. Isn't it possible that you misinterpreted and not that she's being fickle?

 

[SLIKKER_THAN_AVG]

Re: Re: ******** Womaneese I am tired of Womaneese

Originally posted by MsThang
"Basically?"

First you have to explain THAT one. Men tend to interpret moves as being more flirtatious than they are and they are not very good at picking up on rejection signals. No, this isn't just experience, it was also a test done at the University of California. Isn't it possible that you misinterpreted and not that she's being fickle?

I agree, it may have been misinterpretation.

 

[murid]

Perhaps she thinks that you are being dense, slow on picking up her indicators and signals, and acting on them long after she's in the mood.

Why get sick of Womaneese? View it as a challenge to understand their behavior. Frankly guys are occassionaly a bit more than dense when it comes to picking up on, and understanding, the signals girls put out.

If you assume she's playing games you put more power into her hands than warrented. Examine your own game, critique your own moves, and try to notice the details more. Perhaps she wants you to seduce her or sweep her off her feet and she just feels that you are being clumsy at it.

Try the bloody "kiss test". Touch her, play with her hair. start stroking it, gaze in her eyes, at her lips, back, slowly and in control. What does she do? What are her reactions? Observe, orient, act.

Post follow up details, let us know what happens.