Woman whines that men do what they like to do. Again.

[mrRuckus]

http://online.wsj.com/article/SB100...48.html?mod=WSJ_hp_MIDDLENexttoWhatsNewsFifth

Holy sh1t are women delusional.

"To deepen his predicament, because he is single, his advisers and confidants are generally undomesticated guys just like him. "

There's no predicament. We do what is fun and what we can get away with. Why would you even want to be domesticated? Thinking there's a problem when there's no problem is fvcking stupid. Just because you as a woman are miserable that your male slaves have caught on and that your feminism has given them the opportunity to opt out of your corrupt system, doesn't mean we have a problem.

Could go on and on over various stupid lines in this article, but you all know the drill by now.

And what is this "pre-adult" nonsense? It implies that there's some "adult" end state that will inevitably be reached, but i'm not positive of that at all at least how she seems to imply it is. No wife and no kids looks very tempting and very likely to me. Having children and a wife have about zip to do with being an adult. Sorry, honey, but being a man has nothing to do with impregnating some declining slutbag and marrying her so i can be divorce raped.

If anything, the more adult thing is to avoid that situation (opt out altogether or being VERY VERY VERY discriminating in what woman we bless) because only the enlightened and mature seem to be the ones who can confidently side step that issue and do what they want rather than what is expected. So fvck her; I'm an adult now.

And don't kid yourself, toots. THose degrees women get are still more worthless than the degrees men get. Quantity is by no means trumping quality here. All those worthless comm and psych degrees are flooding the market with entitled princesses who think they're so goddamned smart but can't use their degree for anything worthwhile. Some stupid ho who banged her way through frat houses getting her comm degree is still more useless economically to this society than some degreeless crane operator.

 

[mrRuckus]

And maybe these women should go re-read that "he's just not that into you" they were drooling all over just a few years ago. I never read it because I'm not stupid, but the title seems to say everything that needs to be said anyway.

We're not marrying today's woman because we're just not that into her. Simple as fvck. Maybe if you didn't suck, we'd stick around. My jobs sucks, I quit. My gf sucks, I dump her. My car sucks, I get a new one. Try to keep up here, ladies.

 

[Twitch]

Marriage has been a long standing social custom. It will not die easily.

 

[sodbuster]

It is already. With 25-30% of men in the marriage pool not marrying/ever planning to marry, each divorce story hitting their friends or office coworkers... fewer will marry. This will [eventually] lead women to change or die alone.

 

[Jitterbug]

Woman whining - including whining about men not wanting to marry her - is nothing new. What's new is that this hag is actually paid handsomely for it.

 

[Jamo]

Went through that article. Objectively she is right about the reasons for the "breakdown" in relationships. It is true that the nature of careers/jobs has changed which has required people to change their approach at the expense of starting a family etc. But putting the entire blame on men makes the article totally useless - with a few modifications the title could easily be "where have the good women gone?"

 

[Serialized3]

Sorry, late 20s babes, but I actually don't want to go to your hack friend's open gallery so I can analyze all the shitty "postmodern" art with glass of shiraz in my hand, so I can feel more "domestic".

Nah, I'll be on the mountain with my snowboard and a younger, hotter girl who actually knows how to have fun. And a beer.

 

[Zarky]

I didn't think it was that bad, compared to some of the other female "men suck these days" drivel that's out there. (Sounds like a gender-reversed version of a lot of posts on this board, don't it? )

Anyway, she says:

Relatively affluent, free of family responsibilities, and entertained by an array of media devoted to his every pleasure, the single young man can live in pig heaven—and often does. Women put up with him for a while, but then in fear and disgust either give up on any idea of a husband and kids or just go to a sperm bank and get the DNA without the troublesome man. But these rational choices on the part of women only serve to legitimize men's attachment to the sand box. Why should they grow up? No one needs them anyway. There's nothing they have to do.

They might as well just have another beer.

Might as well. This is why I say that the modern man is freer than any time in the history of the earth. There's nothing more constricting than when society "needs" you. If modern man isn't needed, then he's free to do what he wants. I for one don't want a "role," I don't want kids, or a wife, or to be "productive" or to father the next generation of consumer drones to keep this planet a-spinnin'. Someone else can do that, or not, I just don't care.

For millennia, men have been pushed into the world without even being asked, and then told they had to work hard at boring jobs just so they could make another generation that would do the same, ad infinitum. I'm opting out, and enjoying the brief time I have here, thanks very much.

 

[synergy1]

I was going to post this article but it looks like someone beat me to it! well played.

I want to point out a hypocrisy that caught my eye when reading the first part of the article. The author claims men are being influenced greatly by popular media. Movies like swingers was listed. What she fails to mention is that women are as much, if not a larger target for influential media than men are. With that in mind, one could argue that the media creates an overblown idea of what their 'ideal' man should be like. It creates equally bad expectations for both parties.

I'd say some of that article is tongue and cheek, but there is clearly some vitriol in how it was presented. The premise that a bachelors professional life has indeed changed is correct - men are marrying later, and having more fun with fatter paychecks. What gets me is that this sort of behavior is heavily scorned. Why focus on these men when there are in fact men who want girlfriends, and who want to settle? Believe me, I can find those just as quickly as I can find men like me. Where are all the good men? By good, she means dudes with swagger, some cash, and too much sense to settle down with a pruny **** like her. If change the definition of good men to unattractive chumps, than the answer to her question is "everywhere!"

I see women complain about not being able to find a guy, but they are average at best, and don't put themselves out there. When you talk to them, they don't seem interested at all. And I am not talking about interested in me, I mean in general. I see this with some of the girls in my group of friends. This article reminds me a bit of that dynamic.

 

[squirrels]

I was going to post this article but it looks like someone beat me to it! well played.

I want to point out a hypocrisy that caught my eye when reading the first part of the article. The author claims men are being influenced greatly by popular media. Movies like swingers was listed. What she fails to mention is that women are as much, if not a larger target for influential media than men are. With that in mind, one could argue that the media creates an overblown idea of what their 'ideal' man should be like. It creates equally bad expectations for both parties.

I'd say some of that article is tongue and cheek, but there is clearly some vitriol in how it was presented. The premise that a bachelors professional life has indeed changed is correct - men are marrying later, and having more fun with fatter paychecks. What gets me is that this sort of behavior is heavily scorned. Why focus on these men when there are in fact men who want girlfriends, and who want to settle? Believe me, I can find those just as quickly as I can find men like me. Where are all the good men? By good, she means dudes with swagger, some cash, and too much sense to settle down with a pruny **** like her. If change the definition of good men to unattractive chumps, than the answer to her question is "everywhere!"

I see women complain about not being able to find a guy, but they are average at best, and don't put themselves out there. When you talk to them, they don't seem interested at all. And I am not talking about interested in me, I mean in general. I see this with some of the girls in my group of friends. This article reminds me a bit of that dynamic.

I see this as well. It's like they just have no sense of wonder about life. God only knows what they're doing...it's like they're just drifting around and waiting for someone to show them something that catches their interest. But they never stop to consider that they're just BORING.

I dunno what happened to all the INTERESTING women. Maybe they all married early...or maybe they're just not looking for men, the way we're not looking for women. But then how are we gonna get together?

 

[synergy1]

I still believe that there are interesting women out there, but I don't meet them all that often. Most in the 20's age bracket are occupied with school and don't date much. Its a numbers game unfortunately, and I find myself not meeting as many interesting good looking women as I want. Plenty of boring , entitled ones, but they know as well as I that there won't be anything more than play between us.

I guess the key is be diligent and patient!

 

[SharinganUser]

Just looking at her picture I can tell she is a rug muncher.

What's new is that this hag is actually paid handsomely for it.

I was actually thinking something similar. Before the internet, a woman had to get a job as a professor if she wanted to get paid to spread this kind of crap, now all that is needed is an internet connection and enough brain cells to mash some coherent sentences together.

 

[spider_007]

someone should introduce her to this guy....maybe he can explain things for her....
http://www.youtube.com/user/TheHappyMisogynist#p/u/49/_bmXmrQV8nA

 

[Lexington]

The thing that the feminist crowd just doesn't get is that marriage does not have the same appeal for men as it once did. Nowadays, men have all the same responsibilities and obligations that come with marriage, but now they get less perks and it is a much riskier endeavor than before.