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I'm talking with a woman at a club and we are hitting it off. Escalating, light touching, laughing. Then out of nowhere she just breaks it off and walks over to the middle of the dance floor and starts dancing with some dude. I'm nearly sure it's not her boyfriend or he would have barged in during our conversation. I know it's a **** test and how is this properly handled? One aspect of game I can't handle. I tried to just ignore it and then just sit there and drink or chat up other women in full view of her. What's the best way to handle it?
 

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It's called disrespect, it happens because she doesn't like you, more presisely because she found some better opprtunity. Opprotunity is such a thing that it happens one time, and if you don't chase it right away it will sail away and you don't have another stab at it. It's a choice between borring and exciting. You gotta respect that.

Heh, how to handle it.

Girl left you because you're boring.
 

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It's called disrespect, it happens because she doesn't like you, more presisely because she found some better opprtunity. Opprotunity is such a thing that it happens one time, and if you don't chase it right away it will sail away and you don't have another stab at it. It's a choice between borring and exciting. You gotta respect that.

Heh, how to handle it.

Girl left you because you're boring.
I'm boring but she's laughing at everything I say and I'm making contact and she's returning contact?

It's a **** test. Pure and Simple. Just one I don't know how to handle.
 

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Pull hotter girls in front of her.
 

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I'm talking with a woman at a club and we are hitting it off. Escalating, light touching, laughing. Then out of nowhere she just breaks it off and walks over to the middle of the dance floor and starts dancing with some dude. I'm nearly sure it's not her boyfriend or he would have barged in during our conversation. I know it's a **** test and how is this properly handled? One aspect of game I can't handle. I tried to just ignore it and then just sit there and drink or chat up other women in full view of her. What's the best way to handle it?
Just forget her and move on to the next. Is she cooperating? No. So move on.
 

Create self-fulfilling prophecies. Always assume the positive. Assume she likes you. Assume she wants to talk to you. Assume she wants to go out with you. When you think positive, positive things happen.

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Sometimes a guy needs to put his ego to the side to see things more clearly.

This isn't a **** test, it's low interest. Just move on.
 

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You have to move on quick and focus on the next target. Ya'll didn't even make out. The last thing you want is for her to see that she took your ball sack and the most important thing is that you don't lose your ball sack. Nothing worse than being at a night club and one rejection ruins your confidence. This is where inner game is crucial. You need to expect to be rejected at night clubs. The game is maintaining a confident demeanor with all the women in there. You want girls who rejected you 5 min ago to be watching you escalate with another girl. Watch how the tides shift from there.

To get to the point where you are indifferent to rejection isn't easy. It takes a lot of self realization, facing fears, and having a strong backbone.

I've said it before and I'll say it again. Mode one by Alan Roger Curry is the book to read for this stuff.
 

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Pull hotter girls in front of her.
Ye, that usually works quite well. It's really kicks off their competition anxiety.
It really fun when it happens and they (several girls) start battling for your male attention. :devil::rofl:
Even girls that earlier have rejected previously you comes up sometimes ha ha..

It is an "odd" phenomenon as such, but it does really work. Female psychology in its making.

A fun fact is that I seen this is sales too called "The Jones effect":
If enough people comes up then it attracts even more people like a magnet, so they even start to closing themselves and even start to sell the product to others while do not have to do much anymore as the sales guy.
Its a weirdly strange and quite satisfying effect to experience and really fun too.

Basically the Jones effect is basically simply explained that "People also want what others want too", and this is certainly true for women in the clubs too, (and other social settings of course).
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If they see this guy suddenly surrounded by other women, then they suddenly also want that guy, even if they had rejected him before.
 
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I'm talking with a woman at a club and we are hitting it off. Escalating, light touching, laughing. Then out of nowhere she just breaks it off and walks over to the middle of the dance floor and starts dancing with some dude. I'm nearly sure it's not her boyfriend or he would have barged in during our conversation. I know it's a **** test and how is this properly handled? One aspect of game I can't handle. I tried to just ignore it and then just sit there and drink or chat up other women in full view of her. What's the best way to handle it?
OP, just DGAF and move on.
She didn't want you in the first place so screw it.

Pitch new chicks preferable hotter than the previous and my might experience the oddly satisfying effect what I just explained above. :cool:
 

Don't always be the one putting yourself out for her. Don't always be the one putting all the effort and work into the relationship. Let her, and expect her, to treat you as well as you treat her, and to improve the quality of your life.

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