LonesomeLoser
Don Juan
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A few weeks ago, I had been talking to a woman I find attractive at work. We had always been friendly with each other, and the Holiday party was coming up so I asked if she wanted to go with me. She sits in the cubicle right in front of me, and we were passing notes to each other to not get the manager's attention. She gave me a note back saying she was just going with her female friend because she doesn't know many people there and she would feel uncomfortable and if it wasn't for her friend going with her she wouldn't go at all. So I passed back another note saying okay, if you don't want to do that, would you like to just go out sometime. She never answered and I just took the hint that she wasn't interested and didn't mention it again.
I have a foot/tickling fetish and really just wanted to get a chance to tickle her feet hopefully on the date - preferrably have sex with her afterward but if not I'd just go home and masturbate all I really wanted was to tickle her feet. Also, I was kind of hoping that she might be my first girlfriend that I've been waiting for my whole life (I'm 35), and give me some validation because I'm very insecure and needy.
So tonight at the holiday party (at a fancy hotel with dancing and stuff), it was a little after 10PM and I ate and didn't win any of the prizes they were raffling off. So I saw no reason to stay any longer. Everyone I talk to at work knows that I'm pretty much a shut-in outside of work, preferring to stay by myself and play video games or go on the internet. Its just common knowledge and we all joke about it at work. Then this woman who didn't respond at all when I asked her out, starts asking me stuff like "wait, you don't drink?? You wanna go out, and you don't drink? I drink and you don't, how would that work?" I just shrugged and said "I dunno" and just kept saying goodnight to people at the table. She asks me "are you going home to play video games?" and I answered honestly "yeah for a little while then I'm going to bed". Her friend says something like "god, you're boring! We gotta liven you up!"
I was getting pissed off because what the FVCK did it matter if I don't drink and she does, when she obviously was never interested in going out anyway, since she never answered when I asked her out?? I just said something like "hey, you're born and you die, nothing in between matters, everything is just filler". She and her friend looked at each other and her friend says something like "now you're depressing me" and they both laughed. I just shrugged and left. I was foolish to even attempt to ask her out because I'm the way I am and have no intention of changing and if I have to change to get a woman well, I've been a virgin for 35 years, so no big deal if I'm a virgin another 35+ I'm a loser and no attractive woman would ever be interested in me, and I guess I choose to be a loser because I don't care enough to change.
It just really pissed me off that she started asking me about "you wanna go out, how would that work?" She didn't want to go out with me because I'm a loser and I'm fat and ugly, IMO. Why bring up the not drinking and playing video games when that's not the real reason?? I give up. If I can afford it someday I'll lose my virginity with a prostitute...that's the only way I'll ever get any and I accept that.
I have a foot/tickling fetish and really just wanted to get a chance to tickle her feet hopefully on the date - preferrably have sex with her afterward but if not I'd just go home and masturbate all I really wanted was to tickle her feet. Also, I was kind of hoping that she might be my first girlfriend that I've been waiting for my whole life (I'm 35), and give me some validation because I'm very insecure and needy.
So tonight at the holiday party (at a fancy hotel with dancing and stuff), it was a little after 10PM and I ate and didn't win any of the prizes they were raffling off. So I saw no reason to stay any longer. Everyone I talk to at work knows that I'm pretty much a shut-in outside of work, preferring to stay by myself and play video games or go on the internet. Its just common knowledge and we all joke about it at work. Then this woman who didn't respond at all when I asked her out, starts asking me stuff like "wait, you don't drink?? You wanna go out, and you don't drink? I drink and you don't, how would that work?" I just shrugged and said "I dunno" and just kept saying goodnight to people at the table. She asks me "are you going home to play video games?" and I answered honestly "yeah for a little while then I'm going to bed". Her friend says something like "god, you're boring! We gotta liven you up!"
I was getting pissed off because what the FVCK did it matter if I don't drink and she does, when she obviously was never interested in going out anyway, since she never answered when I asked her out?? I just said something like "hey, you're born and you die, nothing in between matters, everything is just filler". She and her friend looked at each other and her friend says something like "now you're depressing me" and they both laughed. I just shrugged and left. I was foolish to even attempt to ask her out because I'm the way I am and have no intention of changing and if I have to change to get a woman well, I've been a virgin for 35 years, so no big deal if I'm a virgin another 35+ I'm a loser and no attractive woman would ever be interested in me, and I guess I choose to be a loser because I don't care enough to change.
It just really pissed me off that she started asking me about "you wanna go out, how would that work?" She didn't want to go out with me because I'm a loser and I'm fat and ugly, IMO. Why bring up the not drinking and playing video games when that's not the real reason?? I give up. If I can afford it someday I'll lose my virginity with a prostitute...that's the only way I'll ever get any and I accept that.