Ok fellows here is a type of woman I have never read about here. She will like be quite and just talk fairily normal when it is just me and her. But when I am around my friends she will act all different like busting on me Using Kino. Whats the deal with this. Is this a new type of woman???
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TesuqueRed
Master Don Juan
She's competing for your attention.
No one around: no competition.
Others around: competition.
Insecurity + interest. Nothing new.
No one around: no competition.
Others around: competition.
Insecurity + interest. Nothing new.
I am 6' 3" 310lbs so you know it is not easy for me to score.Don't always be the one putting yourself out for her. Don't always be the one putting all the effort and work into the relationship. Let her, and expect her, to treat you as well as you treat her, and to improve the quality of your life.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
stormwriter
Senior Don Juan
ItsTough,
Are you in the process of bettering yourself? Are you happy with your weight? Remember, half this DJ stuff is about improving yourself. If you can feel better about your appearance, you can radiate confidence, which is needed to bang da chickees.
Have you banged many chicks? Is your face average, or what? Let us know a little bit about you, and your experience. And change your username to "ImaBadass" or something positive!!!
Are you in the process of bettering yourself? Are you happy with your weight? Remember, half this DJ stuff is about improving yourself. If you can feel better about your appearance, you can radiate confidence, which is needed to bang da chickees.
Have you banged many chicks? Is your face average, or what? Let us know a little bit about you, and your experience. And change your username to "ImaBadass" or something positive!!!
You know stormwriter you made me think. first I was decent looking when i was thinner. I am planning on going on a diet starting next week, but i Don't know a good diet plan. Next I think I just have such low self-esteem because This woman I speak about has told me she wants me. However I just can't believe it in my head because she is fairly hot more so than any other woman who has shown interest before. I am at the point where I think she showed all these signs of interest did things for me came around me is becuase she felt sorry for me, is that possible? I have been reading the bible for some time now and I must not be picking it up. One thing is once I tried Kino on this girl she seemed to pickup and was more flirty etc. I wonder what a good weight would be for me. i don't want to get to skinny because as it is now people are afraid of me, which I like. Thanks
perhaps this is part of your problem? I'm 6'0 and 190 lbs...quite a bit smaller than you, and everybody that i want to leave me alone does. And the people that i don't want to leave me alone, don't.
I think it's just your size, and it also depends on the person whether or not they allow themselves to be intimidated by someone of your size.
stormwriter
Senior Don Juan
>>I think I just have such low self-esteem because This woman I speak about has told me she wants me. However I just can't believe it in my head because she is fairly hot more so than any other woman who has shown interest before.
Oh dude, this happens to everyone. This should be a new thread, cause it's so important. I'm sure lots of people would say, "You are a DJ, and no woman is beyond your reach. Any woman would be glad to be with you, cause you are a MAN."
But this is reality man, and we all have confidence problems. But dude, i don't know how much you know about what women want, but MOST of them want a CONFIDENT dude. For example, i was on date last week, and i only knew the hottie for 3 days before i told her that i liked her, but didn't know if she would like me. I told this to her face, and she said, "Cameron, Confidence is sexy..." That was the last night i felt good with her, cause i knew the low-confidence cat was out of the bag, and she wasn't interested in more. (and she stopped returning my calls two days after my display of low confidence.)
So, i'm VERY SERIOUS when i say: If you give a woman a reason to believe she is better than you, she probably won't be interested in you anymore.
I wish i had a better way to explain that. If, at any point in the game, your words or actions reveal that you think you aren't good enough for her, she will sense it.
She has NO IDEA that she's the hottest chick you have talked to in your life, unless you tell her!!!!
Oh, and my favorite female friend says, "I don't want to be the best looking girl my boyfriend has ever had." I didn't really understand what she meant, but now i do.
I guess i can picture this new girl standing there, watching a stage. The curtain goes up, and we see ten GORGEOUS women. You say, "honey, these ten women are my ex-girlfriends...."
The new woman would be like, "Damn, all of these women are gorgeous, and they all wanted him! He must have something that drives these hot women crazy!"
But, then imagine the curtain goes up again, and three average, chunky chicks are standing there. Imagine what's going on in the mind of the hottie then?
I guess the bottom line is your low confidence. You think you don't have much to offer her, that's why you said her interest in you might be cause she feels sorry for you.
So, if you can do something to change the attitude from "She probably feels sorry for me, thats why she was flirting with me"
into:
"i'm charismatic, tall, and fun, and that's why she was flirting with me."
Oh, and another thing: imagine if you turned some of the fat into muscle? You would look like a f**king TANK. That would intimidate the crap out of people. Tall and muscular... imagine that dude! Like Vin Diesel!! And you know how much the chicks like that dude!!
Oh dude, this happens to everyone. This should be a new thread, cause it's so important. I'm sure lots of people would say, "You are a DJ, and no woman is beyond your reach. Any woman would be glad to be with you, cause you are a MAN."
But this is reality man, and we all have confidence problems. But dude, i don't know how much you know about what women want, but MOST of them want a CONFIDENT dude. For example, i was on date last week, and i only knew the hottie for 3 days before i told her that i liked her, but didn't know if she would like me. I told this to her face, and she said, "Cameron, Confidence is sexy..." That was the last night i felt good with her, cause i knew the low-confidence cat was out of the bag, and she wasn't interested in more. (and she stopped returning my calls two days after my display of low confidence.)
So, i'm VERY SERIOUS when i say: If you give a woman a reason to believe she is better than you, she probably won't be interested in you anymore.
I wish i had a better way to explain that. If, at any point in the game, your words or actions reveal that you think you aren't good enough for her, she will sense it.
She has NO IDEA that she's the hottest chick you have talked to in your life, unless you tell her!!!!
Oh, and my favorite female friend says, "I don't want to be the best looking girl my boyfriend has ever had." I didn't really understand what she meant, but now i do.
I guess i can picture this new girl standing there, watching a stage. The curtain goes up, and we see ten GORGEOUS women. You say, "honey, these ten women are my ex-girlfriends...."
The new woman would be like, "Damn, all of these women are gorgeous, and they all wanted him! He must have something that drives these hot women crazy!"
But, then imagine the curtain goes up again, and three average, chunky chicks are standing there. Imagine what's going on in the mind of the hottie then?
I guess the bottom line is your low confidence. You think you don't have much to offer her, that's why you said her interest in you might be cause she feels sorry for you.
So, if you can do something to change the attitude from "She probably feels sorry for me, thats why she was flirting with me"
into:
"i'm charismatic, tall, and fun, and that's why she was flirting with me."
Oh, and another thing: imagine if you turned some of the fat into muscle? You would look like a f**king TANK. That would intimidate the crap out of people. Tall and muscular... imagine that dude! Like Vin Diesel!! And you know how much the chicks like that dude!!