tmpgstx
Master Don Juan
SoSuave is a great place for like-minded people who want to always keep improving. You should never stop improving. As it is, we're men who want to succeed in every facet of our life, otherwise we wouldn't be on these boards sharing ideas and concepts. There are some great posters now, and many who have come out of here to re-visit every now and again.
For myself, i'm a bit older in my early 30's, had my share of success with women, but also some pitfalls. My quest is for the dream girl i've wanted since high school. I will succeed! However, several ONSs got in the way and carried on for much to long.
I even knew at the time these girls weren't LTR material because they put out right way, yet really clung to me in wanting a relationship afterwards. Learn from this and know that:
Girls who put out within the first few hours of meeting them, will put out for anyone they find attractive that quickly, given the right conditions
So, knowing these girls wanted a relationship, what sealed the deal for them? In other words, what kept tmpgstx around them? They kept putting out at the drop of a hat, but more importantly, they knew a way to a man's heart was not through cooking, but by giving him great BJs.
The most experienced girls know a way to a man's heart, is not by being a good cook, but by giving him great and endless on-demand Blow Jobs
What a waste of time, only to be cheated on three times in the end. I'm your proverbial nice guy that is a problem-solver and stays committed once i pledge to something. I'm also somewhat of a perfectionist, so my ego took some heavy fire when committing to something that failed me, yet ultimately wasn't my fault!
So, here i am, getting my mojo back, feeding everything to my ego using it for fuel. Patching up my ego, restoring my confidence, and getting back into the game my way.
Women loved to be worshipped yet dominated
I see guys on the boards whining and over-thinking way too dam much about what she is doing, who she is with or how she is responding to a perceived notion. When you do this you are doubting yourself and are no longer the prize. You are placing most of the value on her, and little to none on yourself. She know's this and you become expendible. Doubt yourself and she has no problem doubting you either. For this i say to you:
There can be no doubt
You have to let that go. It's a disease of the mind (quoted from Bruce Lee) to over-analyze something out of your control. It stems from insecurities. It will only create a deeper hole for you. Don't short-change yourself any longer.
Visualize the things you want (you are what you think). It all stems from positive body language. Upon doing this, things will come naturally. You'll end up doing the right things naturally - and if you should get rejected, is her loss, not yours. You know you're a man of integrity, has and will accomplish a lot.
It really is easier than most people realize. It's just a matter of taking action and controlling your thought processes not to include over-analyzing and being more natural.
The less you doubt yourself, the less other people will too.
Learn how women operate so you are not shooting yourself in the foot with doubt. Know how their emotions guide them when making choices about men. Most often, she wants a guy to come along and sweep her off her feet. You ever wonder why nice guys really fail with women?
Nice guys fail with women because they are passive and take no action to escalate into a sexual encounter with a girl
That being said, most nice guys also happen to be your intellectual over-thinkers (alot here at SoSuave). They are nice because they are humble with knowledge outside themselves, knowing that there is so much more out there o learn and that no-one knows everything. The jerk thinks he knows it all because he is most often less intellectual than the nice guy. Ingornance is bliss, and the jerk carries himself with a winning attitude based on a serious lack of evidence. The nice guy cares, the jerk does not. It is that false projected sense of confidence the jerk has that many women eat-up. Is the jerk truely confident? No. He is just as insecure as the nice guy, but channels his insecurities in an extroverted way, while the nice guy channels his insecurities in an introverted way.
The jerk succeeds with insecure women where the nice guy, with a backbone, succeeds with more secure girls
What tmpgstx?? You can't be serious. Oh, but i am! It is true. The nice guy can and does succeed, but only with the nicer girls. The nice guy doesn't succeed in the jerk's world such as the clubs, and the jerk doesn't succeed in the nice guy's world such as academia. Girls freqent both of these worlds, so is it any wonder why you see alot of 'like with like'? Of course not, people are most often attracted to people like themselves. This especially holds true for women who are more relational than men are.
So then, why are alot of the nice guys here at SoSuave not succeeding with women?? It is because they lack exposure in their venues and are going for the quick score in the jerk's world, namely the clubs and at parties. You know who you are on these forums trying to score like the jerk does, but just can't seem to get it materializing. You use C&F, neg-hits, NLP etc., but with little success. The Jerk is natural with his actions, you are not. Girls pick-up on this right way, and you are filed away into the clueless, harmless nice guy catagory. You are trying to simulate what is natural to many in this club and party world.
Conquering this is beyond you, yet the answer is right beneath your nose. To succeed with the inescure girls that frequent the club and party scene is to talk less, be more sexual, and take more chances. Period. Leading these girls back to your bedroom is an easy three step process. Get to know her a little, show you are game for the evening, and ask to give her a ride home. Here is some more womenese for you:
"I want a guy to sweep me off my feet"
---translates into---
"I want a guy who is not afraid to tell me what he wants me to do for him"
In other words, she wants to be dominated in such a way that she has some degree of control. Her nature is submissive, so she aims to please. Kick-starting this submissive nature is done by telling her what you want and being honest about it. This doesn't mean "I want to marry you", this means "I really think you are sexy and would love to take you home tonight". It is this kind of assertiveness that triggers her submissive nature at the club and party scenes. To succeed in this meat on meat market requires being bold and sexually assertive when the oppurtunity presents itself.
For myself, i'm a bit older in my early 30's, had my share of success with women, but also some pitfalls. My quest is for the dream girl i've wanted since high school. I will succeed! However, several ONSs got in the way and carried on for much to long.
I even knew at the time these girls weren't LTR material because they put out right way, yet really clung to me in wanting a relationship afterwards. Learn from this and know that:
Girls who put out within the first few hours of meeting them, will put out for anyone they find attractive that quickly, given the right conditions
So, knowing these girls wanted a relationship, what sealed the deal for them? In other words, what kept tmpgstx around them? They kept putting out at the drop of a hat, but more importantly, they knew a way to a man's heart was not through cooking, but by giving him great BJs.
The most experienced girls know a way to a man's heart, is not by being a good cook, but by giving him great and endless on-demand Blow Jobs
What a waste of time, only to be cheated on three times in the end. I'm your proverbial nice guy that is a problem-solver and stays committed once i pledge to something. I'm also somewhat of a perfectionist, so my ego took some heavy fire when committing to something that failed me, yet ultimately wasn't my fault!
So, here i am, getting my mojo back, feeding everything to my ego using it for fuel. Patching up my ego, restoring my confidence, and getting back into the game my way.
Women loved to be worshipped yet dominated
I see guys on the boards whining and over-thinking way too dam much about what she is doing, who she is with or how she is responding to a perceived notion. When you do this you are doubting yourself and are no longer the prize. You are placing most of the value on her, and little to none on yourself. She know's this and you become expendible. Doubt yourself and she has no problem doubting you either. For this i say to you:
There can be no doubt
You have to let that go. It's a disease of the mind (quoted from Bruce Lee) to over-analyze something out of your control. It stems from insecurities. It will only create a deeper hole for you. Don't short-change yourself any longer.
Visualize the things you want (you are what you think). It all stems from positive body language. Upon doing this, things will come naturally. You'll end up doing the right things naturally - and if you should get rejected, is her loss, not yours. You know you're a man of integrity, has and will accomplish a lot.
It really is easier than most people realize. It's just a matter of taking action and controlling your thought processes not to include over-analyzing and being more natural.
The less you doubt yourself, the less other people will too.
Learn how women operate so you are not shooting yourself in the foot with doubt. Know how their emotions guide them when making choices about men. Most often, she wants a guy to come along and sweep her off her feet. You ever wonder why nice guys really fail with women?
Nice guys fail with women because they are passive and take no action to escalate into a sexual encounter with a girl
That being said, most nice guys also happen to be your intellectual over-thinkers (alot here at SoSuave). They are nice because they are humble with knowledge outside themselves, knowing that there is so much more out there o learn and that no-one knows everything. The jerk thinks he knows it all because he is most often less intellectual than the nice guy. Ingornance is bliss, and the jerk carries himself with a winning attitude based on a serious lack of evidence. The nice guy cares, the jerk does not. It is that false projected sense of confidence the jerk has that many women eat-up. Is the jerk truely confident? No. He is just as insecure as the nice guy, but channels his insecurities in an extroverted way, while the nice guy channels his insecurities in an introverted way.
The jerk succeeds with insecure women where the nice guy, with a backbone, succeeds with more secure girls
What tmpgstx?? You can't be serious. Oh, but i am! It is true. The nice guy can and does succeed, but only with the nicer girls. The nice guy doesn't succeed in the jerk's world such as the clubs, and the jerk doesn't succeed in the nice guy's world such as academia. Girls freqent both of these worlds, so is it any wonder why you see alot of 'like with like'? Of course not, people are most often attracted to people like themselves. This especially holds true for women who are more relational than men are.
So then, why are alot of the nice guys here at SoSuave not succeeding with women?? It is because they lack exposure in their venues and are going for the quick score in the jerk's world, namely the clubs and at parties. You know who you are on these forums trying to score like the jerk does, but just can't seem to get it materializing. You use C&F, neg-hits, NLP etc., but with little success. The Jerk is natural with his actions, you are not. Girls pick-up on this right way, and you are filed away into the clueless, harmless nice guy catagory. You are trying to simulate what is natural to many in this club and party world.
Conquering this is beyond you, yet the answer is right beneath your nose. To succeed with the inescure girls that frequent the club and party scene is to talk less, be more sexual, and take more chances. Period. Leading these girls back to your bedroom is an easy three step process. Get to know her a little, show you are game for the evening, and ask to give her a ride home. Here is some more womenese for you:
"I want a guy to sweep me off my feet"
---translates into---
"I want a guy who is not afraid to tell me what he wants me to do for him"
In other words, she wants to be dominated in such a way that she has some degree of control. Her nature is submissive, so she aims to please. Kick-starting this submissive nature is done by telling her what you want and being honest about it. This doesn't mean "I want to marry you", this means "I really think you are sexy and would love to take you home tonight". It is this kind of assertiveness that triggers her submissive nature at the club and party scenes. To succeed in this meat on meat market requires being bold and sexually assertive when the oppurtunity presents itself.
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