JPlaya said:
I don't expect her to remember a week in advance
You don't expect her to remember a week out in advance. That's understandable and all,but what about
YOU and
your memory? A week is a long time.
So who's going to call you to remind
you about the date?
You won't have any problem remembering,will you? Because you have a high level of interest in her. I agree with what Sparky said about gauging how far out to plan a date taking the girl's interest level into consideration.
If you have no problem remembering the day and time of the date,but you feel you have to give her constant reminders of something she SHOULD BE excited about,them maybe she isn't as interested as you think.
JPlaya said:
I'm telling her that I'm picking her up at this and you better be in something sexy cause I'm paying for your meal.
This was a joke,right? You don't
seriously plan on telling her to wear something sexy simply because you're going to buy her something to eat,do you? :crackup:
I don't know how often you talk to this girl,but if a day or two has passed since you two last spoke,I'd call her up like 2 days before the date just to talk and flirt with her a bit.
Play a little,tease her a bit,ASK HER what she's going to be wearing FOR YOU on the date. Tell her that you expect for her to act like a lady while out on the date,and that if she gets any funny ideas about trying to get out of line or trying to do anything inappropiate when you're out together,tell her she has your FULL PERMISSION to do so
. Tell her not to wear a lot of make-up on the date because you don't want to spend the whole date wiping lip stick off your face. That'll put the thought of HER kissing you in her mind.
Get those juices flowing a bit,stir up her emotions. Do that like two days BEFORE the date. Then the day of the date,you can call her up like maybe a hour or two before you're supposed to go pick her up (or meet her),and tell her that you'll be there to get her in about so and so much time.
JPlaya said:
Ya, but this girl is always busy lol. I also tested her three days after I asked her and she still remembered, so that can be a plus
Aren't you the same dude who made some thread about how you're never going to ask a girl out by texting again? Well how come you're against using texting to ask a girl out,but when it comes to communicating with her AFTER she says yes,you revert back to it?
Texting should be used to relay quick messages,not to replace normal human interactions. If you have something short and to the point to say,then text,but if you want to vibe and connect with someone,you need to TALK to them,and vibing and connecting with a girl is IMPORTANT to maintaining a girl's high/medium to high level of interest.
There's no 100% way to insure a woman not flaking. All you can do is get her interest level as high as you can,and expect her to do the rest.