BaronOfHair
Master Don Juan
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And you were almost certainly conscious of the way you looked while doing soNo one's pretending dude. I've never had a problem picking up females
And you were almost certainly conscious of the way you looked while doing soNo one's pretending dude. I've never had a problem picking up females
Nope. I've always been in decent shape. I grew up poor, but I learned to put some basics together to look decent. But I did that for myself, not others. I did what I could to escape poverty and live my life on my terms. What someone does for themselves completely differs from what someone does to impress others.And you were almost certainly conscious of the way you looked while doing so
If one lives for themselves, and does things they want for themselves, then I am all for that. It is when someone says, well, to attract Jenny, I need a Mercedes-Benz, an Armani suit with Gucci shoes w. matching belt. Oh, I also need a blinged-out status watch too. That is when I say, hold up. You doing this to impress others. It's like chasing the dragon; you'll never win.I've noticed that everyone ( logically) always responds purely from his own pov and his own history. " I've smashed while being incarcerated, so you can do crime and still.smahs believe me"m or the more common response that " all the glimmer ain't necessary because I yxz."
But ain't we here to become the ultimate don Juan we can be? So although most men( including myself) smashed plenty while being a watered-down version of what we COULD be, ain't it at least intriguing to know how you would've done WITH ( fill in whatever).
I never had and perhaps never will have a Rolex specifically. Yetit would be kinda stupid to disregard the finer things in life just because it's not within my capabilities (yet).
I went from dead broke to having a plus amount. That alone already made all the difference .
Imagine yourself doing you, but now as a plus- plus version..
I agree and know this from personal experience. If jenny doesn't like you for whatever reason no watch or car will change that . And even with those, after some time she might fancy broke guitar teacher again.If one lives for themselves, and does things they want for themselves, then I am all for that. It is when someone says, well, to attract Jenny, I need a Mercedes-Benz, an Armani suit with Gucci shoes w. matching belt. Oh, I also need a blinged-out status watch too. That is when I say, hold up. You doing this to impress others. It's like chasing the dragon; you'll never win.
.Nope. I've always been in decent shape. I grew up poor, but I learned to put some basics together to look decent. But I did that for myself, not others
It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Looking decent is good. A Rolex isn't necessary to look decent. For a cost of a Rolex (even a steel one), a man can get a number of really good outfits that can put him in better position to get laid than just a Rolex alone.I learned to put some basics together to look decent.
I am not sure, but I have stayed at a Holiday Inn Express, once....
Brings us back around to a conversation we were having here
Are these Selena fans like closet lessies?
This is Selena's concert back in 2015. The music video she made with the music seemed like some sort of soft core porn. You would have expected it to have been more guys that would have been into a song like that with an actual live concert, but was surprized that it's mainly hot young women...www.sosuave.net
Just as The Woke can interpret lyrics like that as promoting the objectification of women, The Red Pill's True Believers can interpret a guy investing in his own self-care as "Pandering to The Gynocentric Social Order". Trying to have a rational conversation with folks in either of these camps is less gainful than trying to persuade Bombay slum dwellers to defecate in commodes, rather than on the streets
While that is true, there are a lot of guys trying to leverage status symbols to compensate for their lack of personality.Just as The Woke can interpret lyrics like that as promoting the objectification of women, The Red Pill's True Believers can interpret a guy investing in his own self-care as "Pandering to The Gynocentric Social Order".
That was a good ad campaign. I have had good stays at a Holiday Inn Express.I have stayed at a Holiday Inn Express
Sucks for themWhile that is true, there are a lot of guys trying to leverage status symbols to compensate for their lack of personality.
Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Just edited my prior post. Good catch
A lot of guys have naive view of the world especially when it comes to women and money. Usually, it's guys who don't have both or limited experience with one or the other. The truth is a lot of folks will get a harsh wake up call within the next 6 years as inflation, geo political conflicts, famine etc continue to escalate. What's my point? my point is the middle class has been eroding for the last 40 or so years. In my opinon within a decade or so the middle class won't exist. It's going to be the poor, the rich and the ultra rich. The "average manosphere guy" doesn't qualify for the women that they want. You can see this if you go on reddit where guys are obsessed with finding a girl who is a virgin in their 20s etc. Meanwhile, those guys live in their mom's basement working a low-end wage job and play "Fortnite" on the weekends(nothing wrong with that). However don't delude yourself into thinking you're gonna get a "baddie" living that type of lifestyle after 25, cause it's a turn of to women and usually they signal you as a "Loser" unless you're the outlier which let's be quite frank most manosphere guys are not hence I said average.Yep. Most of the ills which disproportionately affect the male population are really just side effects of so many of us not being firmly in the middle class-all points above. Large segments of The Manosphere have exacerbated this, by actively encouraging men to drop out of so-called "Blue Pill Normie" society, in favor of retreating into fantasy worlds of video games, comic books, and social media, despite the fact that doing so is bound to keep men destitute Similar to Gay Liberation of The 70s bamboozling the very people they claimed to champion into dropping out of so-called straight society, in favor of retreating into lives of disco, poppers, and orgies
Just as the latter laid the groundwork for The AIDs Epidemic of The 80s, the former has set us up for the economic havoc we're heading into now
I got the most women when I was broke in my 20s, sleeping on a mattress on the floor in an average apartment living with a roommate. Why? I had more time to chase them. The older you get, the more money you make you realize there is more important things than chasing PUSSIYou will come across three types of women:
A) The ones who don't give a fvck about your watch.
B) Golddiggers who use your watch as an indicator how easy you are to fleece
C) Female watch nerds who understand that Rolex buyers are unimaginative and dull crowd followers. Someone of real substance wears a (Grand) Seiko.
The erosion of the middle class in the United States has been problematic.the middle class has been eroding for the last 40 or so years. In my opinon within a decade or so the middle class won't exist. It's going to be the poor, the rich and the ultra rich.
Likely trueThe "average manosphere guy" doesn't qualify for the women that they want.
Those men are losers and not red pill men.those guys live in their mom's basement working a low-end wage job and play "Fortnite" on the weekends(nothing wrong with that). However don't delude yourself into thinking you're gonna get a "baddie" living that type of lifestyle after 25, cause it's a turn of to women and usually they signal you as a "Loser"
The most prominent espousers of Red Pill Theology do go out of their way to LOOK like junior high kids who are desperately trying to let everyone in the vicinity how "different" they are. That's a problem, because legions of ordinary guys who aren't YouTube stars with Patreon accounts to live off have fallen for the lie that they to can look, speak, and act like societal dregs, and not suffer catastrophic personal and financial consequencesThose men are losers and not red pill men.
If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.
Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.
This will quickly drive all women away from you.
And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.
The middle class still makes up the largest income bracket in The US https://www.pewresearch.org/race-an...ricans who,Center analysis of government data and at least some of it's shrinkage is attributable to the fact that more folks are moving upwards than at anytime prior https://money.usnews.com/money/pers...-i-fall-in-the-american-economic-class-systemWhat's my point? my point is the middle class has been eroding for the last 40 or so years
In recent years, it has become more difficult to buy a new Rolex due to waiting lists.fewer men are buying Rolexes
Goes to a point made here, between 4:37-5:15To go back to the question: a Rolex might get you laid, but so will waving a thousand dollars. Just who are you going to have sex with? Some woman who is impressed by your watch?