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Don Juan
Hey guys,
After being together 3 years my wife recently told me a blockbuster secret involving her family.
Everyone in her family knows about the secret , except the one person who would be hurt most by this.
She told me many times that I cant tell anyone about this which is fine and understandable, but last night I casually asekd her if she told hee sister , mother etc that I knew and that she had told me. She got very excited and told me no , and that they will never know know as long as they live that I know.
I thought this was really ridiculous, I am after all her husband who presumably is told everything........we ended up getting in a fight over the whole thing. I feel I am part of her family and she is part of mine, I honestly dont see the problem with her telling her sister that I know about this secret.
Should I care about this ? Somehow I feel insulted.
All thoughts welcome please.
Thanks.
After being together 3 years my wife recently told me a blockbuster secret involving her family.
Everyone in her family knows about the secret , except the one person who would be hurt most by this.
She told me many times that I cant tell anyone about this which is fine and understandable, but last night I casually asekd her if she told hee sister , mother etc that I knew and that she had told me. She got very excited and told me no , and that they will never know know as long as they live that I know.
I thought this was really ridiculous, I am after all her husband who presumably is told everything........we ended up getting in a fight over the whole thing. I feel I am part of her family and she is part of mine, I honestly dont see the problem with her telling her sister that I know about this secret.
Should I care about this ? Somehow I feel insulted.
All thoughts welcome please.
Thanks.