I don’t think splitting up for anyone in this predicament is necessarily right. I’ve read a few threads online of men whose wives have come back with a pixie. Had that happened I’d have just said look, I can’t have sechs with someone who looks like a boy. While you have the hair like that sechs is not gonna happen.
No one in the relationship can dictate what the other presents themselves as but by the same logic one person can’t expect someone to have sechs against their will.
sometimes my wife will tell me to trim my beard a bit before we do it, and about 3 years ago I got really fat and I noticed my wife was getting less than enthusiastic about sechs. She told be honestly I was getting too big, I said fair enough, you have a point and swiftly lost 2 stone and all was good. She never vetoed sechs entirely but I thought it was a reasonable position for any gal to not want some guy bucket on top of her, so I lost 2 stone quick time. It also helped that being obese gives one the sechs drive of a geriatric puritan.
One thing is entirely clear here almost universally we men like long flowing locks. Not that it’s likely but any girl who stumbles upon this thread be warned, don’t be seduced by “getting a new look”. The long, straight or wavy look is all time classic and can’t be bettered.
Another thing I told my wife yesterday was to stop getting it coloured. She has Asian hair which to me is beautiful. Thick, black, shiny and healthy looking but she is always putting highlights in it which dries her hair out and makes it brittle.
Natural hair with a kind of oily shine to me is the best look, highlights can look nice but provided it doesn’t mess with the hair and make it dry and brittle. She said I’m too old fashioned and prescriptive. I reminded her she’s moaned before I don’t take an interest in her beauty etc so here I am. I’ll pay for whatever she needs to get her hair back to looking natty and lustrous.
We have settled on an agreement. She wants me to use retinol on my eyes as crows feet are beginning to show. I’ve agreed to this provided she goes to a long natural look. Negotiation complete.
with the help of money and muscle, I’m seriously on a training tip so once I’ve smashed 6 months of that and gotten leaner/a bit thicker in the muscle, am gonna leverage that to get her to do some squats
my wife will do any treatment, any restrictive diet, she will spend thousands on surgery but will avoid walking for a bus or any form of exercise.
The amount of silly treatments she sees online and wants to do and I just say “eat well and do some exercise is 10 x better”
