Did you ever tell her "how you felt" like you said you planned to a few days ago?
No
Hmm. She told you she's "busy".
Is this the first time she's given you the "I'm busy" line when you tried to spend time with her? And also,did SHE SUGGEST another time for you two to hangout after she told you she couldn't make it?
Yes, and she did not give me the 'i'm busy line'... I did not set-up an exact time to meet up, but rather suggesting the possibility of her sleeping over my place sometime during a weeknight... and no she didn't suggest another time, but she takes direction really well, we're meeting up wed. night and that's what I need help with bro !!!
This is confusing. How has she "expressed" herself that makes you think she wants to sleep with you?
What has she done or said?
Also,your question about talking "real" and in normal terms...what does that mean?
Trust me when I say she wants to sleep with me, she basically said she'd fvck me last time we were out and wanted to go back to my place (she did not have work next day), but I had other girls clothes all over the place and denied as i didn't want to risk it
The problem isn't that she doesn't want to have sex, its just me putting the circle in the circle peg, square in the square peg etc....
Oh and the "real in normal terms" just means stating the obvious.... "I want to fvck you, lets get it done" versus.... "lets go back to my place and watch a movie" or "I have a nice art collection, come check it out".... when is it ok to just be real about intentions ?? She's basically given me the real via her actions and words but I haven't stated anything outright....
For example today....
Her: Ha nice try! Although you should know that I don't get highly aroused by paintings.... 'assuming' thats what u wanted to show me
Me: What does get you highly aroused ?
no answer.....
My typical response would be something c&f like... "who said anything about being aroused... back off" but i'm tired of that and seems like its going backward and I want to get this thing moving.... want to know when u guys get serious with a girl like... YO LETS GO, NO GAMES, ITS ON
Anyway, doesn't matter if she answers or not, i'll see her on wed and up the sex tension....but as per my last post, can someone assess ?? Is the wine, city-view, outside alone, can it backfire or is that a good plan to get this thing done at last... my plan is to simulate us alone, escalating sexually, make sure she has enough comfort, then later this week or wknd get her to my place... she has the attraction, no prob
Ideas are welcome, thanks guys ??!!!
